Believe it or not, it's always greener on the other side.

Chinese Lunar New year this year is going to be quite early on the Gregorian calendar - January 23; If I remember correctly from school, I believe the earliest that CNY can be is January 21 (latest Feb 18?).

I thought I'd highlight this fact for Bros who's thinking about coming over to our part of the world; please be aware that Girls in China start to thin out from a couple or so week prior to the CNY to go home - but that since this year, it's so close to the X'mas and Regular New Year we MAY have the annual exodus starting early.  After all, nowadays people in China are also starting to celebrate X'Mas and Regular New year in more and more notable/festive ways.

And BTW - if you;'re into Filipinas, then X'mas/Regular New Year period is also NOT a good time to come to Hong Kong; X'mas to the mostly Catholic Filipinos IS their big festival and most Pinays will try to go home then.

SEAJ

Adding on a bit to the friendly reminder, I mentioned that Bodi (Shanghai Sauna) had 2 check-ups by LE in the past week. As we get closer to the CNY, expect more check-ups and general LE activity, so be careful out there!

Ahh.... Yes.... Thanks Mtmtmt61 for reminding me!

Forgot to remind everybody that the period leading up to CNY is usually NOT the safest time to be out and about - especially for mongering - in China.

During this period, everybody is quite desperate to have a lot of cash to bring back home to celebrate this most important of all Chinese festivals - and this results in the increased incidences of:

- Crime -  from just petty larceny to really violent crime etc,

- Protectors wanting to have more protection money - and usually "showing their colours" by conducting small scale raids, on the understanding that if $$ is not coughed up, larger scale raids will ensue.

- WG's becoming even more mercenary/ruthless in their dealings with us mongers.

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 16-11-2011 21:01 ]

Does it apply as well to Hong Kong? How about just after CNY? Is then more normal times?

When you thought that we men are superior to women.

@SEAJ:

Hmm, so those things happen in China as well during CNY. In Indonesia, similar things happen. Some of the poorer folks who does nothave proper job, would resort to criminal acts to bring back money back to their hometown. This is to kind of "show off" that they are doing well in the city.

But the worst thing is that they halt all sex-involved business activities for a good one whole month. I find myself alone playing with my right/left hand at that time.


EDIT: There we go, sorry for that

[ Last edited by  mrpekz at 17-11-2011 09:48 ]

Replying to realvision:

Nothing happened at all. I believe 1 visit was just LE coming in and not going past the reception area, while the 2nd visit was a stroll around the massage rooms downstairs. As I mentioned in another post though, it is a bit concerning as check-ups, much less raids, don't happen that often at Bodi.

I thought I'd just get a few thoughts off my chest and this seems like the place to do it. Don't worry, I'm not expecting a bunch of sympathy or anything

So, basically, my SO and I have vastly different sex drives. I need it every day - she's up for it maybe once a month, if I'm lucky. This hasn't always been the case but certainly for the last three years or so. There's surely some underlying problem that we should iron out but I don't know what. I used to drink too much, for sure. But I've practically stopped now. Maybe I'm just a crap lay but I genuinely believe I'm not!   

I've been taking care of business myself for a while ... watching (secretly) a ton of porn. But it's getting tedious, hence my recent sauna trip. And although nothing happened then, I'm starting to think it's inevitable I'll end up taking it to the next level. Sometimes (normally post wank), I'll think to myself that I'm an idiot for considering using a WG. Then, when I have the horn, I justify it to myself in all sorts of ways. I know if I got caught it would be the end of the relationship.

Anyway, you'll know if I go through with it as I'll no doubt write a report. It's all part of the therapy!

I betcha that you WILL get a lot of sympathies here - simply because IMHO, there's a lot of us that is going through/have gone through this situation.

IMHO again, the key to solving this problem is just plain ole communications. Talk to your wife - softly, without any rancour/recriminations and with a lot of love meant. Even make it a special occasion like a nice romantic dinner or  a trip down to the beach/Peak to watch the sunset - but most of all, be honest with each other about each individual's needs. Important - do NOT under any circumstances even admit ANY kind of infidelity AT ALL - rather that you need her support, understanding and love to Solve this, the both of your problem.

Some here may even recommend a Marriage Guidance counselor - they're fine - but note that they are just "guidance" counselors - and all they hope to achieve is for you 2 to be able to communicate with each other properly, clearly and honestly - so perhaps you should save that $$ to instead splurge on her to set up the occasion when you 2 can talk properly.

Just young SEAJ giving another one of his usual trite IMHO's!  Sigh....!

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 17-11-2011 13:53 ]

Have had quite a few chat sessions with my uncle about days of yore in Hong Kong and how the “scene” has evolved through the days; I found it all very interesting/fascinating and thus would like to share with you guys what I learned from this veteran here. I also want to write it all down/commit as a record of what I learned before I myself forget about it all!!  Fair enough?

Perhaps others from that era reading this could also fill in some of the blanks/correct some of the misinformation I’m writing here to make it a full compendium of Hong Kong in the past century?

The 60’s

Anyway, my uncle started out as a young fellow being taken by his Dad to regular “Nightclubs” in Hong Kong in the early 60’s. In those days, nightclubs were huge lavish palaces serving up sumptious Chinese dinners accompanied by live music from big bands – mostly Filipinos who would also accompany Chinese Singers belting out popular Chinese songs. There is usually also a “show” each night – Magic acts, acrobats or even a Celebrity Star Singer to enthrall the Nightclub goers.  There is also always a nice dance floor where the Concubines and Girl Friends would drag out their beau and where guys would do what is the nowadays equivalence of “networking” with other businessmen. Paramount, Mocambo, Golden Crown, Bayside, Asiana, Ritz, Champagne Room are just some of this type of Nightclub of that era.

Then there were the week-ends when my uncle would be allowed to go to “Tea Dances” at these nightclubs to watch some of the more popular Youngster Bands of that era (The Fabulous Echoes, Zoundcrackers/Joe Jr & Side Effects, Topnotes, Wynners (first known as Loosers! LOL!), Blue Star Girls’ Combo, Teddy Robin & the Playboys, Danny Diaz & Checkmates etc) but accompanied by the family’s man servant or Chauffeur AND was trying to pick up girls – who would also be accompanied by their own maids at these afternoon to early evening do’s. Amazing!

Then there were the other type of “nightclubs” of that era – characterized by the famous Tonnochy Ballroom - which had started out literally as a ballroom where guys would buy tickets which they would use to have a dance with the Girls in attendance there. And it wasn’t just a place to go and straight away pick up a gal to accompany you back to your room; it was all quite prim and proper and the Ballroom go-er would actually need to “court” these girls - in the hope of EVENTUALLY getting them in the sack. Multiple night visits and many tickets they’d buy before they could even get to first base with some of the more “Famous beauties” there.  Really…they had famous beauties!! Some of these famous beauties has actually graduated to becoming the Tai-Tai’s of some tycoon or at least a concubine or kept woman.

….to be continued…depending on whether you guys are interested or not - of course!

SEAJ

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Please do share more, really interesting to hear more. Sounds like some aspects has changed so much today! Wonder how we would be if we were to monger in the 60s!

I sympathize with you happyfeet. I too have the same problem. A few years back, me and my wife were like porn stars on the loose. Doing it everyday! But now, I'd be lucky to even just have it with her twice a month. Anyways, just had to comment having read your post.

WTF! The chinese site now has a limit of one pic per report. That is complete bull shit.  With just one picture, it's so much more difficult to tell if the report is an ad or a real report.

HappyFeet, have you attempted doing more varied things with your SO? Doing things you didn't normally do, like  traveling to a new place, spending more time together doing something together, such as sports, walks in the parks, going a new place, relaxing a bit in Lamma island?

Damn it - I want to post the report of the CK girl up that I tried (and videoed) recently. She wasn't on the DB when I tried her - was on the DB next couple of days, but I was too busy to write the report - and is off the DB again!

I had initially asked for CK Panda but she was booked for the time slot I wanted, so I told the PPS to surprise me. Girl was very good looking and a decent body - just average service though. I'll give it a few more days for her DB pics to be up (knew I should have saved them when I had the chance!) - if they aren't up in a few days, I'll just post the report anyway.

I have been through something very similar - and can certainly sympathise. You have to be careful though bro - if you think abt it, if the vast majority of the time you have to watch porn and not have sex, then in all seriousness your little bro may develop more of a sensitivity to doing it YOUR normal way - which is giving it a tug, instead of doing the REAL normal way - ie. having sex. This can lead to problems later with your little bro, if not already.

So, not just rationalising our little hobby here, but has real-life consequences if your SO has a different sex-drive.

Horny bros, video link to CK girl here.
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

Warning: RA50!

Yeah I'm going through the same thing ag the minute ... I don't always get the peace and quite for a tug ... Thing with me will work out but I takes time and a squirt with a working girl is sometimes a good thing u get the selfish out with out buggering up ur relationship.

My 2 cents

Sympathies bro happyfeet


All this talk about about our SO's low sex drive.......I just couldn't resist



I was walkin past my neighbors dirty van & someone wrote "I wish my wife was as dirty as this van."

So I wrote" She is... When youre at work"

LOL! Nice, did he ever find out you wrote it?

Well, regarding SO's low sex drive, I think that they just have to learn to enjoy the goodness in sex. My ex-SO when I was studying back in the US was the same. She was originally reluctant, but after a few times, she asked for more . We did it almost everyday LOL!

At one point, we had dinner with some wine. Afterwards, she kept wanting for sex but I was pretending to be reluctant to do it. I ended up being raped by her LOL!