Subject: Barebacking WGs
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Barebacking WGs

I am not sure if this has happened with any of you guys that often,  But it has been recently happening to me, which I find quite strange.  I recently revisited a few new WGs, which I recently tired out.  On the 2nd visits almost all of them tried riding me bareback when they started kissing me after the catbath.  Now I have been told that I am very handsome and have been called "handsome" and "good looking" quite allot when I am out in the street or dining by quite allot of girls.  I am not boasting, this has happened to me quite allot.  I think I am average looking, I do work out and keep in good shape.  But it is kinda a weird that WGs would try barebacking me during my 2nd visit to them.  Has this happened with anyone else?

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Marcade   5-9-2020 08:11  Acceptance  +3   Yes; has happened before; took it as a sign they want me as a regular; nothing more
IndyHundred   5-9-2020 07:07  Acceptance  +2   LOL @alphonzek
jeffzeke   4-9-2020 13:44  Acceptance  +20   interesting question
robwong   3-9-2020 10:35  Acceptance  +3   Have had the tip of dick quarter in a few times in heat of moment. If the WG is really wet can happen too easily
hmoody2555   3-9-2020 05:41  Acceptance  +1   why have they made it a norm?
cactuss   2-9-2020 12:01  Acceptance  +5   A lot of HK providers have made it the norm these days.
alphonzehk   2-9-2020 10:48  Acceptance  +1   *a lot
momozzz   2-9-2020 10:19  Acceptance  +4   nope and somehow I would be worried they try to trap me or getting pregnant to claim whatever afterwards...
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Reply #1 soundwave's post

I'm sure you're quite attractive (especially after reading the Boa chronicles) but unless you did something to become more attractive this year - changed your hairstyle, added a few more packs to your abs or plastic surgery (), I don't think that's the main reason.

If I were you, I'd think about how I was coming across to them in what I say and how I behave. I would guess that you're giving off a vibe of being a really nice guy who's wealthy or really well off and in a position to be a good provider or generous patron (I am assuming you don't dress in designer or flashy clothes).

WGs are mostly doing the job to make money and not to get pregnant (unless that's in their financial interest). If these new girls (perhaps new to the business?) that you visited are younger and don't have kids, like momozzz pointed out, they might want to trap you with a kid into providing them support so they see you as a ticket out of the job (a good looking one at that). If they're older and have kids or are married, they want to offer you something extra to get you to tip higher and/or keep coming back for more (it's a tough time for them after all, with a decline in punters).

To really answer your question: I've not had the same experience, probably cause I've not been doing walk-ups (or maybe I'm just not that good looking ).

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Reply #1 soundwave's post

I thought it was a great idea to go along with it to this WG in Pattaya that I had a huge crush on. I proceeded to book her for 3 days straight for the full GFE experience, essentially spending our days together with nothing but BBFS, going drinking, and food.   

I did not regret it one bit! .... until I later had to have a disapproving grandma figure shoot some yellow liquid in a syringe into my ass. Learned my lesson that day, WRAP IT UP

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jeffzeke   4-9-2020 13:44  Acceptance  +20   wise words
Sandwhale   2-9-2020 16:35  Acceptance  +5   Yeah... girls think they're clean because they have no symptoms most of the time.
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Can't say it happens often but I have had it happen to me from time to time. I don't think there's any particular hard and fast rule as to why it happens - it could be for a range of reasons including having a strong connection with the girl (handsome man), wanting to please the customer for repeat business, wanting to trap a good catch through pregnancy, and even naivety on the part of the girl (ie the girl is uneducated and does not understand risks associated with STDs and unwanted pregnancies).

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Not all the time, but I've gotten offered a few times.  Usually they say its cus "I look like a good guy". I guess I'm pretty friendly and usually have a good attitude and vibe.  I'm just average looking, but I've been told by some WGs that I'm good looking, who knows.. I always wondered why a WG would offer BBFS also, due to the dangers esp since its their job.  But I guess sometimes its just spur of moment.. kinda like fucking a girl on a one night stand

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I have found a few reasons (China version)

One bar girl was trying to get pregnant so she could get married and funded for life. We were "dating 'so this wasnt clear at to me at the time (she said she was my girlfriend, but I became skeptical within weeks). She kept pulling the condom off just before she guided me in. Very hard to stop, but in hindsite necessary as: 1 - she was doing this with at least 3 other guys, and 2 - I got mild galloping knob rot from her.

Massge HJ girl jumped up and sunk down on my LB after intense and skilled BJ and HJ. Too slow and weak willed to stop her. She was afterwards upset I wouldn't become a sponsor, so I guess that was the plan.

Bar girl in Shekou HJ bar, after some considerable light HJ teasing pulled her yoga pants and knickers down popped LB between her thighs and started a standing humping pussyjob. Once wet it was very good at draining my will power (didn't help that she was uncharacteristically gorgeous for Chicken street). My brain melted and gave in... She asked me to pay her rent.

None of these reasons were due to the fact I was too handsome to resist. I was mearly considerd good "sucker" material. However as I wasn't lacking in experience before getting off the boat here, I knew the difference between a girlfriend and a paid fuck. I wasn't quite ready for the full on psudo-rape attack they were prepared to do to get a sugar daddy, but wiser now.

It wasn't rape, but it was definately against my better judgement.

Bareback is hardwired to be addictive, and the more experienced girls know it.

Be careful, it is a slippery slope, literally...

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I am not good looking, used to be but a early 50 year old man is hardly dad material.
Here is the crux of the argument, WG's are doing it 90% of the time for money and 10% for the sex. A White English WG many years ago told me as
a regular she quite often has 10-15 men a day. She went with me as a regular and her pussy was sore.    Her words.
Sure, E Asian women, especially Japanese find me attractive, I have been asked out while on public transport.   
They tell me they prefer fair skinned S Asian men with big hands and feet.  Strange but true.
The common answer is that the WG just sat on the cock seems the common way for bare back WG sex. I have done it, sure it
feels good but the brains sensible thought processes get over taken by my cock.
Then the regret quickly takes over and running to the STI clinic for tests. Repeated 3 months later.
I once caught a urinary tract infection from a Chinese WG after the condom broke. It stung pretty badly.

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Interesting question.  I'm not sure the mindset for WGs works in such a way that they find all the handsome guys and offer bareback and if you are ugly, they insist on condoms....

Typical WG fucks 10-15 guys EVERY day, maybe more.  This type of work can be very tiring on the girl.  That's why they often need a LOT of lube and dread meeting guys who have big dicks and guys who can pound them for a long time before cumming.  The best way for a girl to make more $$ in a shorter amount of time is to make you cum FAST.  And many have figured out if they offer BBFS, and if they are skilled in making the right movements, many guys will cum within 15-30 seconds.... YES, really.

This is just ONE hypothesis.

From the guys perspective, going bare with a WG is highly risky for STI.  Most can be treated with medication, but HSV, Hep B, Hep C and HIV....  you are SOL (shit out of luck)!

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OscarPistorius   4-9-2020 20:24  Acceptance  +5   Good point, though in all fairness, can get those STDs from a civvie as well
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trust_00   4-9-2020 16:51  Acceptance  +4   Good point, I'm pretty sure this is more often the case
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I once wrapped a girl for 60k a month for 3 months, both got tested and BBFS every fucking day (sometimes twice a day). Had her insert an IUD to stop the periods so as to get my money’s worth and also stop any unwanted pregnancies.
Didn’t repeat the exercise as It got too monotonous.

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Reply #9 robwong's post

Interesting - would you mind telling us more about this? She was a WG that you agreed to go exclusive for HK60k for months? That's only c.$700 a day and not very much for a WG, I'm surprised she agreed to this

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Reply #7 rajuk's post

I think it's more like 99% do it for money and the balance do it because they like sex with strange men, or because they are bored or want to do something out of the ordinary. Also think about those which don't really fall into the category, for example what I'm sure many of the Honey Girls or part-timers who may have real careers, boyfriends, and families. It's probably extra money but in those cases they may enjoy the work some. Also some of the SA participants who want some action but are happy to have it come and go, perhaps when cash gets short or between boyfriends or real full-time jobs.

They are to be sharply distinguished from what I call the "lifers", many of whom are world-famous and occupy various places, inter alia 5/F Phoenix in Causeway Bay, Kam Bong in Sheung Wan, and similar buildings. There are a few exceptions to this, of course as many of them clearly do enjoy their work.

For example, I refer to our case study for today, the Saint Dreamy . Her unique technique of BBBJ with alternating wet and dry actions seems to give her as much pleasure, if not more, than it gives to myself .

Keep on mongering

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Is Siu Siu still in the game and is she still offering bareback to every guy she is with?

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Reply #10 feelus's post

Yes, sex with one person for 3 months. Was great as she was young and wanted money
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Reply #13 robwong's post

Thanks and I read it wrong - HK60k per month makes more sense

I would be interested to know how this arrangement came about? Was she already a local working girl? How did you broach the topic? Did she live with you 24/7 for 3 months in an apartment in HK? I presume you don't have a SO or family?
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Reply #14 feelus's post

I am single and rented a service apartment while i was decorating my own apartment. So worked out great timing. We are still in touch after near 8 years and meet for covered sex twice a year. She was a receptionist at a gym when I met her, she got her training credentials but no longer works in a gym . Now she is a beautician
Of course I raise the idea after getting to know her well

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For me, it really depends on the chemistry and connection. I’ve never shared this story before but back when Champagne Court was still really active in summer 2017, I went there after a beer with a mate one time and I was pretty drunk. On one of the floors, I came across a Thai nest where three Thai girls had their doors open and were chatting with one another. I pointed at the one who I thought was most attractive and she invited me in. I learnt later that she had already had already finished work but for some reason she invited me in.

She had an amazing body (still does), big slanted eyes, cherry lips, and was really pretty. Inside, it was the usual kind of routine with the showering, BBBJ, and covered fuck, but because I was drunk I couldn’t blow my load. So I gave up and said to her that I’m ok with not blowing my load and spent about two hours just chatting with her. We talked about everything from her childhood, her parents, her passion for helping the needy, to her previous broken down marriage. I shared about myself too from my life in England to my work and my interests. I really admired her for her charity work and I told her this. I even offered to travel to Thailand to help her out with her charity work one time. As it was her second day in HK as well, I said to her if she needs help with anything just to let me know and I will try to help.

When it was time to leave, I paid her for her time and said “I’ve never paid money to just talk to someone before, but I really enjoyed my time”. We swapped contacts and in all honesty I hadn’t planned in seeing her again. A few days later, she messaged me to say she really enjoyed talking to me and asked if we could meet again. The second time we met, I was sober and we still clicked really well and talked for a long time after showering and the sex seemed to be an afterthought.

For the third time, she suggested we meet in a hotel because at champagne court her boss would always keep tabs on her work. So I took out a hotel room nearby on one of my days off and waited for her. After several hours, she finally turned up at the hotel and she apologised profusely for making me wait so long. I didn’t mind so much as I hss as d nothing better to do but again we hit it off again and by this time I felt we had some kind of connection. Perhaps it was because I was empathetic to her life experiences, perhaps it was because I was nice to her (I’m often told I’m a very nice person), or perhaps I treated her like a human being.

That night, at the hotel room we DFK’ed for the first time, I feasted on her LS until her juices flowed, and she sucked my dick passionately and sucking the balls. She climbed on top and she rubbed my helmet on her pussy, covering it in her juices before sitting down all the way to the hilt, bareback. In my mind, I thought about the obvious and she probably did too but it was one of those buildups that led to both of us letting our guards down and just wanting to feel each other. Stupid yes, but we did it anyway. Of course, it felt incredible and I shot my load pretty much direct into her cervix in missionary. Afterwards, we both reflected on what we had just allow to happen and after I left the hotel that night she sent me photos of tests that she had done recently. I got tested too and was all clear.

What happened after that night was we meet a few times a week in different hotels in and around the TST area. We talked and then fucked like lovers bareback and most times she would be on top grinding my dick in cowgirl or reverse cowgirl and i would say to her I was about to cum. Knowing full well she would take a cumload in her bare cunt, she always continued to ride me until my balls had emptied a full load deep into her pussy. I asked her a few times afterwards whether she was on birth control or was worried about getting pregnant but she always said not to worry about it. Eventually, she wouldn’t accept payment and it was because she saw me as someone who completed a part of her life in a way I wouldn’t know about until much later. I was obviously very conscious of the possibility that she would play the baby card and lock me down and I was very clear with her about that as well, but she always said not to worry about that. Conscious not to take a WG’s word for it, I always proceeded cautiously.

For her first stint in HK, I creampied her about 9 times over about 6 weeks, and then she went back to Thailand. I got myself tested and I was still all clear and she hadn’t been knocked up. A few months later, I traveled over to Thailand to help her out with some charity work and stayed for about a week and a half. While there, we traveled to Chiang Mai and Bangkok, and we continued to fuck bareback every day, in every position, and room in the hotel suite. Every time, she would always opt for the cumshot to be inside her, like it was a cure for the insomnia she sometimes suffered from, or a release from the pressures of her daily life. She said she always slept better after being with me and I do think she does.

We went through a patch when she did eventually get pregnant and she opted to have the baby, Most people would think this would be an OH FUCK moment but obviously it was always inevitable given that we had unprotected sex about 25 times overall several months and we both worked hard to ensure my cum was always deep inside her cunt and pumped directly into her cervix. Although we are on different countries I promised her I would always be reachable and if she needs any support that I would help the best I can. She’s a fiercely independent lady and strongly believes in being self sufficient and she’s stayed true to her word. I’m not expecting it to be always like this but then again, I’m not adverse to helping her through life when she needs it.

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Originally posted by GBAManglais at 7-9-2020 04:18
We went through a patch when she did eventually get pregnant and she opted to have the baby

First off; very brave to come out like that with a story like this. Kudo's.

But to be clear, so there *is* a baby out there, in Thailand, fromwhich 50% is made out of your DNA? And you're okay with this? You don't think that one day, you might regret, not being part of the life of your own son or daughter? Alternatively, the babies (and mothers) grow old. The baby might start wondering who his/her father is and might look you up. The mother's priorities shift in the future. The minds of mothers change. She might contact you in the future and ask for help, or more.

At that point you might (if you don't already) have another family. And at that point, your current family/wife, might not be too happy about: 1. you having another child somewhere, you did not take care of ... 2. you financially/emotionally helping another woman/child, that's not part of the family ...

Maybe it would be insightful if you share more about your feelings/thoughts about this .. because I wouldn't be able to tell now whether your story is promoting BB or warning against it. I mean; I wouldn't have accepted a "don't worry about it" as an answer to "are you on birth control". Why did you?

Not criticizing or judging; just might be more good what your thoughts are about this.

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Reply #17 Marcade's post

All great questions.

I simplified the whole story for brevity and there were (and are still) a lot of different emotions, thoughts, and factors over the years which I won’t dive deep into here. I’m neither promoting nor warning against BB as ultimately it’s down to the two individuals to make their own decisions. Soundwave asked the question in his post and seeing his Boa chronicles made me want to share my story too because I understand how he feels or why he might feel compelled to ask the question he did.

Yes, there’s a baby girl out there with my DNA. When we were first fucking, the WG  said that she could look after herself and also any baby that could come out of our encounters. She never explicitly said she was on birth control but after cumming so many times inside her belly over months and not getting pregnant, I didn’t have any reason to doubt or not trust her. Besides, the thought of her getting pregnant was always there and it was something I constantly thought about. Ultimately, I was ok with it and to have that lifelong connection with her.

For those who might be thinking if the baby real, we video chatted throughout her pregnancy, I saw pictures of the baby the day she was born, and all the documentation and hospital bills that came with the birth. So she’s real. Although she ended up having the baby, she has stayed true to her word of handling everything by herself and with her extended family. I’m also not the kind of person who would not want to play some kind of part in their life. I have tried to be somewhat proactive in reaching out to be a part of her life, but her mother would prefer that I didn’t. That’s also fine and she knows I’m always a button away if she wants to reach me.

One day when the baby is grown up, yes she might want to know more about her father and seek me out and I’m comfortable with that. I would be happy to, after all she is my daughter. What would my family think of all of these things? It’s not going to be straightforward but I will cross that bridge when I get to it. But for the family I am with, I will give them the best life, support, and love I possibly can.

Over time, especially more recently, I’ve come to the realisation that life is given and taken in moments that are never planned, that are never fair, or in moments that always makes sense. I learned to be comfortable with that and the girl who gave birth to our child is also comfortable with that. I guess that’s one element of a myriad of different factors that drew us to one another during that first chance encounter.

Feel free to ask me more, I still have a lot more to share but it’s a complex story and I couldn’t possibly write everything in one sitting.

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C090409920   8-9-2020 16:49  Acceptance  +5   A top-notch story. Thanks for sharing here.
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jeffzeke   8-9-2020 11:59  Acceptance  +20   amazing story! I am step by step with you on every decision. But the hardest would be to explain to my current family. ...
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to actually have bareback and pregnant  there another ways guys.

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Reply #18 GBAManglais's post

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This story is fascinating in more ways than one.  I find it heart-warming in many ways, but there are certainly complexities now and possibly later. I would love to hear more about what happened next and how you feel about having a daughter out there?   A couple of questions:

1) Do you have an SO or family and what are you plans if they find out?  Or do you plan on telling them later on?
2) Is your daughter "bi-racial"?
3) Does she have your last name?
4) Would you support her financially if asked?
5) When you mention "her mother" is this the WG or the mother of the WG (grandmother of your daughter)?
6) When you found out she was pregnant, what was your initial reaction?  Euphoria, pissed off, accepting of the possibility or something else?  
7) At any point did it cross your mind to "help" her get a baby?
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