Subject: Guilt?
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Post at 29-12-2011 13:21  Profile P.M. 
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Guilt?

I saw a new girl few days back. I ll posted about her soon.
I walked in and saw she was very sweet, sexy and YOUNG.
She was also very enthusiastic to please.
However as I lay there on the bed her between my legs giving me an amazing BBBJ.
She looked up and seemed happy I liked it but seeing her 19 yr old cut face I felt suddenly super turned on and very guilty at the same time.
Is it wrong to do these things I asked?

Do any others feel these guilt pangs?
I guess it was her being so young that got me.
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Reply #1 edimassan's post

I feel exactly the same way about a cute sweetie I picked up at Escape on Sunday night. She was a 22 year old sweetie-pie from Vietnam. Very sweet looking, and cute. Not slutty at all, even during sex.

I ended up not cumming, and cuddle her like a teddy bear and sleep. Gave her 2,500 the next morning and even rejecting her offer of a morning sex.

I came to a conclusion that sweet and cute girls just doesn't do it for me.
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Reply #2 maccalim's post

I have a thing for sweet pretty cute faces, but I haven't felt any guilt when screwing that kind of girl. All you have to do is toss all your conscience aside, and just bang with your LB. That's what you're paying for. Don't let your heart kick in when you're dealing with WGs. It's their job.
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Reply #1 edimassan's post

Pangs of conscience....rather than guilt perhaps?

Us males have got our primal instincts and the WG has the desire to sell herself for money. And all it should be is a customer/provider relationship.

Think about it - if you were not the one doin' it with her - then she'd be doin' it with somebody else.

Why the guilt?  That you're actually paying good money for what she more than willingly is offering to sell? Just so long as you don't abuse such customer/provider relationship, I'd think all's good - no?

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Post at 29-12-2011 18:36  Profile P.M. 
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I never feel guilt. What I do sometimes feel is a sadness when with a girl I click with... in knowing that I have to hide behind this time-honoured particular transaction to get a GFE, and unable to go the whole hog in chasing for a true GFE...




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Post at 29-12-2011 19:15  Profile P.M. 
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I am a dog. Dogs don't feel guilt. They just fxxk other dogs .

Keep on mongering

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It is easy to confuse compassion with guilt.  There is a lot of poverty in the world.  It is ugly. And the contrast between a beautiful girl and poverty is extreme - like finding a flower in a wasteland.  If the girl is not 'cute' there is less of a contrast and you feel less compassion.  Animal rights activists have exploited this human weakness for years and concentrated on 'cute' animals.

But she has chosen her method of making ends meet.  I don't think that we should take away someone's livelihood because of some cuteness preconception.  After all, she probably works quite hard at maximizing her cuteness.

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by yazoo at 30-12-2011 02:30
It is easy to confuse compassion with guilt.  There is a lot of poverty in the world.  It is ugly. And the contrast between a beautiful girl and poverty is extreme - like finding a flower in a wastela ...

I think you're right yazoo. I supposed I'm feeling more compassion than guilt, when I was sticking my dick into her LS. But I guess cute doesn't do it for me. I need a seductive slut who can press my buttons right, not a cute sweet girl.
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Post at 30-12-2011 03:21  Profile P.M. 
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i thought this was was a post on feeling guilt for cheating on SO, bringing home venereal disease, neglecting your kids....   therefore guilt for banging a cute WG was the last thing thing on my mind!   In fact i would feel guilt if the girl wasnt cute--i shouldnt be riskin all that for a pork chop!

anways like my friend says since we've chosen to partake in tjhis hobby, guilt is a useless emotion.  put it out of your mind and just enjoy.  (just tip if you feel some guilt just not so much as to ruin the market tho)
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Post at 30-12-2011 06:06  Profile P.M. 
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Also it is worth noting that alot of Asians in particular actually LOOK younger then they are. It is always beneficial to check there ID card, because they can sense if a guy likes a younger or older guy. Not always the case but just my opinion. For instance, a WG that says she is 19 could easily be 21 for example which could make a big difference in the "guilt" factor. As for me as long as they are over 18 I'm good!
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Post at 30-12-2011 06:48  Profile P.M. 
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I have never felt guilty about doing a cute young WG, and the really slutty ones don't really do it for me.

My guilty feelings during my time are as suggested by bigswingingdik (can't believe I just typed that!).
The first time for me came as a bit of an opportunist thing, I was in a situation where there were WGs available, and was talking to a really cute one. Looked around 19/20, but was actually 25.
When I got home wasn't sure I should even kiss the Kids good night, but strangely found myself wanting to give the SO a right good rogering (can anyone explain why this happens?).
Anyway, it didn't take me long to work past these feelings of guilt, in fact I think I managed it on my very next punt

Strangely never really had guilty feelings when just cheating with a civvi! Or even a WG these days




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Reply #1 edimassan's post

It sounds like you don't know too many young women ...

... if you did, you'd know they need sex as much as any guy ... some of them need a lot more sex than some guys ...

Forget the money, agreeing to have sex with her, then refusing, would be a pretty strange thing to do - equivalent to a girl cock-blocking you, by taking you home then not doing anything

They look the way they look - to men - for a reason: evolution made men respond most strongly to the fittest girls when they're at their most receptive.  It's a complete package, looks, body-language, verbal and non-verbal attitude

so if you don't like the young cuties, no problem: move over!!  I take the view if it's not me that's doing her, it would be some other guy, WG or not, and I bless the Gods that put her in my path





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These young cuties employed themselves as WGs so its basically a job for them to earn a living/extra cash.
They are sellers and we are buyers so there shouldnt be any GUILTY feeling among us punters.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 30-12-2011 08:58
It sounds like you don't know too many young women ...

... if you did, you'd know they need sex as much as any guy ... some of them need a lot more sex than some guys ...

Forget the money, agreein ...

I thought younger women generally have less needs and gradually get hornier as they get into their 30s.
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what SEAJ and D'Art said, plus...

the two gents listed, IMHO, generally have sound, thoughtful advice.

but guilt is a personal thing. some people grow up in religious contexts with heavy regulations on sexual expression that are often interpreted as SEX IS BAD. this can produce guilt-driven activity persists on a subconscious level.

mongering isn't for everybody--if guilt is problematic, perhaps The Hobby is not for you. but as other bros have pointed out, it's not going to disappear because you feel guilt. the world's oldest profession...

if you want to continue, consider focusing on making the experience as much fun as possible. WGs like guys who are clean, polite and fun. bring 'em some fruit. my feeling: this is their job, they can have some grumpy guy ordering them around, or they can have a fun time with someone who treats them well.

if yr the latter, and u still feel guilt...something may be missing from the equation.

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i only felt guilty once, when I hand over 1800hkd to a hot hotel girl.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by gangster at 1-1-2012 14:38
I thought younger women generally have less needs and gradually get hornier as they get into their 30s.

older women certainly do tend to be more relaxed about sex than ... when they were young

but the bigger variable is whether they have much sex drive in the first place

some girls need a lot of lovin', and some girls don't ... (guess I should set that to music one day, has a catchy rhythm to it!)

and many of them will get hornier as they get older, compared to where they started off

But if you want to play seriously, give a young girl a good time.  No love like first love.  As long as you're ready for her to get attached to you that is




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QUOTE:
Originally posted by JackTheBat at 1-1-2012 17:51
... if guilt is problematic, perhaps The Hobby is not for you ...

or maybe it's going to be your salvation?




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QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 1-1-2012 23:08


older women certainly do tend to be more relaxed about sex than ... when they were young

but the bigger variable is whether they have much sex drive in the first place

some girls need a l ...

I agree with the variability depending on the person thing. But I think culture has a huge thing to do with it too. So many more western girls are just more horny when they're young and I swear it's got to do the openness of the culture. Compared to local HK girls many of whom have close to zero sex drive. It's improved in the last decade when things have really opened up, maybe some time we'll catch up to the state of Japan
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Reply #1 edimassan's post

I dont think it's wrong as long as she is already 18+. But if u feel guilty, u should never ML with a teenager anymore.




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