Hi, I'm new here, my first post...and I'm thinking bout visiting a girl for the first time. I've never had sex before so I would appreciate if you guys can recommend a girl. It would b great if you know of any girls who might be a good choice for a first timer like myself and I'd certainly hope to have a good time. I'm thinking about finding one for overnight. Btw, I'm 23.

Many thanks

Yeah.....CNY is a fantastic time to pop the cherry. Would also be wonderful if you could get a real fresh daisy.
Both of you could be bumping and profusely apologizing your way through. Sadly I dont know any such feast to recommend to you. Lastly overnight you say??? That would be fantastic...


Fellas...can you help out young jack_daniels here...

No offense, but the first time for guys usually lasts like 15 seconds. Or less. So either you can get a 141 walk up and get it over quick, or spend a little more time and money to go to macau and make it last. Which do you prefer?

A first-timer definitely needs an overnighter because - as you say, the first time will be over in seconds and he'll definitely
need a 2nd shot - and probably a third.  

15 seconds! That's about 14 seconds longer than I lasted.

But JD bro, 23 yrs-old! -  well, anyway, now that you're out of prison, or was it a coma, it's time to make up for those lost years. Life is about to get MUCH more interesting. I envy you.

err....15 sec? you can't serious are you? it's gonna b so weird walk up to a 141 girl n outta there in 15 minutes? (14min 30sec for shower) im not sure how i would feel if indeed it lasts only 15min! haha...

anyhow...im thinking bout getting a girl for overnite...perhaps get a dinner n some feeling first, it might sound stupid though, but that's wat im thinking. I read one of the reports about the girl kelly, mayb should try her

any other things i sud know b4 visiting?

many thanks

If you want a dinner first so that you can get to know each other better - then you're thinking
in terms of a date rather then a straight fuk ... I'm sorry to say your looking for girls in the wrong place.
141 walk up and hotel girls don't work that way - you will need to get to know them first before they are
willing to go out with you - (if they are willing to go out with you at all).

If you want some romance first before the actual conclusion then I think its better if you look for the
girls in LKF or wanchai bars - you'll be paying anyway, but at least you'll be able to warm up with them
before you hit the motels or where ever you want to do the deed - and in a motel it will be a lot more
comfortable then spending the night in a 141 walk up room.

Good luck and hope you find someone good for your first experience.

I hear you Mars.

JD: Don't try to live up to anyone else's (or indeed your own) expectations. Just enjoy it, then rest a bit and do it some more! I think most bros will agree that the first time is certainly memorable, but far from the best.

I think if you spank you monkey before the main event should help you a bit too.

I don't think jacking off before helps that much.  Just makes the sex slightly less enjoyable.  I say get some nice thin condoms and go for 2 shots if you can.  Don't worry about being quick she won't mind

I agree - unload quick and then go for the second shot and really enjoy yourself.    This was my tactic with
new GFs and one-night-stands until my mid-20s.    Yeah, it took me along time before I could control my
cum.  

[ Last edited by  Jake at 8-2-2008 23:39 ]

Damn, I've been at it for over 20 yrs and STILL have trouble controlling

Anyway, JD's planning on an overnighter so no need to worry if the first shot takes only 10 secs. Main thing is to just enjoy it as much as you can. Subsequent to that, if you want it to last longer, try some delay sprays. If you can't find any, I read somewhere that stuff like Bonjela helps (maybe I'll try it myself

Bro Jack,

Personally, I think you need to get one or two quick ones under your belt before you consider overniters or even an inexperienced hotel girl etc, I think the anxiety will kill you when a WG takes you into her mouth (may be even the shower). Think of them as practise runs, don't put too much pressure on yourself and as said earlier it will only get better.

These girls do this for a trade so don't be scared or intimidated, if you blow right away and you like the girl consider a second shot since you broke the ice etc. These girls will do all the riding if necessary to get you accustomed, after that it is like riding a bike and you will get more control of your body.

I think it would be better to spend an hour or so with a girl and then reflect on your performance, having a WG next to you all nite may be a bit too soon.

Just remember to keep the raincoat on !!

Suggest you surf the forum for girls with good reports (be it walk ups or Hotel Reservations) but I would not try to learn it all in one nite !

Trouble controlling ...
Try using Druex Perform (or something like that) my friend tells me
he uses it to prevent over stimulation and he can last sometimes
up to 1 hour when using it - you need to put it on early though !
But I believe its all in the mind but thats difficult to controll !

I think JD is right about overnight. This is his very first time ... I would certainly not like to remember it as a one-hour fuck in 141 walk-up.

If you don't speak mandarin or cantonese, it is much better you find one in LKF. You know, communication is always important, but in your case, it is essential. Be open, ask them anything you are curious about, ask them to be honest about if you do it "right" or not. A whole night is going to be enough to get you up to speed ... Just make sure to tell the girl you will tip her generously for her help. 50% upfront tip might be even better, but not whole payment (she need an incentitive to be nice with you, after all, all she wants is money). I guess the girl will be happy to guide you and find the whole thing "cute". Nice routine change for her ...

Just dress up with your best look (girls reaction will be much better) and don't be afraid to pick the one you like. I don't recommend Wanchai for first time, too many "clever" girls there and you might feel very sorry about your choice.

and don't forget about the red packet

finally i had sex but it wasn't what i expected. i did it with a girl i met from a forum and her look is just so-so but quite a nice body though.

We were in a room, undressed and spend some time kissing, hugging and feeling her body out. But I wasn't particularly aroused or feel excited. Maybe her breath is a little bad? (i guess everyone's is). then i went to her pussy...it smells bad! when i put my face near....i almost puked! i guess that's how pussies smell. When I'm done with her pussy went to kiss her and I'm hard at this point. Then she caressed my penis real hard...and I just lost my erection! then she sucked my penis....i was lying there thinking about if I was hard, cos I think I lost my erection after she caress my penis real hard (it was a lil painful). after she's done...i'm thinking I'm ready to fuck her! at this point i realize that my penis wasn't hard. so i stroked it and to 'wake' it up. it was...but I thought it wasn't firm...I kept thinking that i can be harder and bigger and I kept stroking and in the end ejaculated. YES...I ejaculated by masturbating with the sight of her pussy wide open in front of me. I screwed up.....

went to the bathroom took a shower and pretty much went away without many words exchanged. sad ending to a time I looked forward to.

Not sure if I'm impotent...cos I can get an erection easilly when I'm aroused (ie watching porn). but i wasn't aroused when I was with her maybe she's not attractive enough? but the room was quite dark so I guess appearance didn't really matter cos I can't see her face clearly. Not sure what went wrong...

[ Last edited by  jack_daniels at 24-2-2008 14:01 ]

i think you were probably too nervous, relax, don't think about it so much and it'll be better the next time.

also, i've never been w/ a girl whose pussy smells that bad, but i'm also pretty hygienic and i demand girls to take a shower if they want me to go down on them....

Bro you are one unlucky dude to get a gal like that as your first. I've had hundred of WGs and never had a smelly
pussy. But I've only been with Asians and they're usually meticulous about personal hygiene. Even bad breath is very
rare for me. I also hate it when they jerk on my dick too roughly. If they do something you don't like, just stop them.
Remember you're in charge - she does what you want.

For your first fuck, I recommend that you either take a nice, cute hotel gal or a 141 gal that consistently has good
reports - such as Siu Qiu.

If you get an erection watching porn, you're definitely not impotent. It's just first-time nerves. Just try again bro.

What you need is a night out where you go drink a bit, and are more than tipsy show up at a WG and things will go fine, you wont know what hit you, but you will remember where you have been ;)