It's been a loooong time since I've posted. Reason, is because I haven't been back to China for
a while, and I don't intend to in the next few months.
That's why haven't looked into this tempting forum.

But what happened yesterday, I had to post it here.

So yesterday morning, I got a call from a WG, I had in early January this year. Actually I got
an empty sms from her. This is our "code", cos I don't want the missus to find out, I tell her
to send me an empty sms, and I will know to call her. For those who has read my post earlier
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D6, this girl is something special to me. Her name is PingPing

Anyways, I called her like 30 minutes after I got her empty sms. I thought this would be like
any other conversation. With the standard, how are you? how's life? your family ok? blah blah blah...
But before I could get my words out, she told me she got something important to tell me.
My first thought was that she would tell me that she found a guy, and she will get married or
something in the line of that. This made me a little jealous, but funnily made me happpy for her.
And so I braced myself, and nonchalantly said: "yeah go ahead, you can tell me anything"


. . . . . SILENCE
. . . . . MORE SILENCE

PingPing: "I'm pregnant..!"

. . . . . SILENCE
. . . . . EVEN MORE FUCKING SILENCE

At this time, I was so shocked, that crazy thoughts were running through my head:

?!?!? what pregnant ?!??! like pregnant cos she was dating someone?!?!?
pregnant by me ?!!? (hoping not)
pregnant by some random guy ?!?!
pregnant by someone who was doing her the same time I was ?!?!? and now she wants to
know who's is it ?!?! I did use a condom, right?!!? Yeah you did!!! Of course you did.
OH FUCK THOSE China CHEAP CONDOMS!?!?!



Finally I calmed my mind, and asked: "are you sure?"
She replied: "yes, I'm sure.
I haven't had my periods since you left in January!"
I then asked: "why didn't you tell me like earlier?!?!"
She replys: "well they were late, and then they didn't come at all, but I thought I would
see what happens, and after they were late for 3 weeks, I knew I was pregnant"
I asks: "ok but when they were 3 weeks late, that was like 2 months ago, you should've told me
then"
Which she says: "Well that's cos I wanna keep it, and until now I didn't dare to tell you"

  I'm soooo DEAD!!!

She went on to say that it's ok, I don't need to take responsibility, and it was her decision
and not mine. Fuck that, if it's my kid, I can't live knowing I have one and not taking care of him/her
I'm so FUCKED!!!! I mean I know she wouldn't lie to me, would she!?!

Anyways, I'm so fucking tired, and my brain is not working. There's an even bigger surprise following this,
but I need to rejuvenate, and write about it tomorrow, if I feel like it.
But just thought I shared this.

[ Last edited by  MKK at 2-4-2011 18:14 ]

First thing first - CALM DOWN!!!

This is NOT the end of the world although it may seem so at first blush.

These kind of things are VERY COMMON - and no I don't mean pregnancy - but situation like yours.

Chances are that it's NOT YOU WHO KNOCKED HER UP - and that is presuming that she is pregnant.  I mean, you used condoms, you were with her for - what one week max?  And Previous to that you had not been with her and of course not since.

And this BS about wanting to keep it etc - total shake down is what I very strongly suspect. You have your friend's GF here to look a bit deeper into this and first thing I would do is ask your friend's GF to go with her to the big hospital in CP (next to the Ouya) and for her to do a pregnancy test - and with you getting such report back. ( I just hope that your friend's GF is not in on this tacky scheme)

And if she is really pregnant - then get your friend's GF to price an abortion - and if its prior to the second trimester, it should be less than RMB 1,000 and if on the 2nd trimester - then just a bit more but not over RMB 3,000.

And forget about "doing the proper thing" - totally forget about it for you've got too much to lose even thinking about it.  Just get rid of the baby - if there is a baby in the first place -  and move on.  Don't be a sucker and give her any more than what I've outlined above.

Total BS is what these usually are - and is just another one of these girls' usual ploy to extract $$$ from you.

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 2-4-2011 18:24 ]

Wait you didn't get BBFSCI?  it's not yours bro, tell the cunt to fuck off and find the real father.

first things first did you Bare back her? or have knowledge the condom broke?

Given that:

1. It is her job to fuck as many men as possible.
2. WGs all have multiple "steady" partners, many of whom are as uneducated as she.
3. You used a condom.

The chances of your being the father are close to zero.
That is, as others have noted, if she really is pregnant.

[ Last edited by  priapus at 3-4-2011 13:35 ]

but the problem was she said she quit the game and loved him and didnt sleep with any other guys..

NOt as far as I thought!

OP had previously written about her and he specifically said that she's freelancing and that he's OK with her free lancing.

This being the case, IMHO OP is actually off the hook - but it's only gonna be his own softee-ness that's gonna be his worst enemy in the situation.

But of course we do need to hear from MKK himself don't we??!!

SEAJ

LOL!!!!!

You are such a cold blooded bastard.

I would have done the same.

Rule no.1 - Be skeptic; Biatches looking for a sucka.......
Not the first time I heard bout this game or story the WGs play. Had plenty of similar cases/stories, they are good in attracting attention.
Go visit and bang the shit out of them the next weekend. It would just be a stomache.

1) Wear cheapo dom. breakage? poke a hole? Maybe!!
2) Bareback, just in time withdrawal. Prolly if you spill some in her VaHina.
3) Bareback creampie. During her menstrual? Shut up!!!

In any case, not our problem. MKK issue. But if MKK needs some gists and verify the situation. he gotta share more.
I dont want to see a fellow bro "eating dead cat" of another fuckwit!!

this is really a shit situation..

1) she could be lying (baby is not yours)

2) she could be still lying (there is no baby)

under 1) condition, she probably don't know who the father is...
but she wants to keep the baby, and need financial support,
so she called you.
but if you wore a condom at all times,
i think the chance of her getting impregnanted by you is close to 0.8%.

under 2) condition, there's no baby..
it's just a plot to get "abortion" money from all the guys that screwed her before.

either way, she probably wants money.

it's obvious you are getting soft and having a headache over this..
this probably mean you have feelings for her and are sinking.

but i think, luckily you are far from China.
keep it that way..
do not come back to China for her..
not even to check whether the baby is yours.
you will die in her hands.

just call her and say...
" Actually i have something to tell you too... I just got fired, i have lots of debt, so i tried my luck at the casino, but LOST everything, my house, my family, everything... I really want to come back to see you, but i can't even afford the air ticket..."

please try to sound as pitiful as possible.

if she only wants money in the first place... she will probably ignore you after the phone call.

after 9 months, call her again,
if there's a baby crying in the background, and she still insist it's yours...

..then please post again on the forum.
we will share our opinions with you.


i sincerely hope this is just a belated April's Fool joke..

Strange timing this!

Same thing has just happened to a friend of mine who is moving back to Australia. He has been seeing a girl from Wan Chai for almost a year now, as soon as she found out he was going away, the above happened. He got worried bla bla bla - swore she was not seeing anyone else bla bla bla - low and behold he was on the verge of giving her a small fortune to shut the f*ck up & not ruin his life when it all came to fruition that she was full of shite and seeing not only 2 or 3 other guys from Amazonia but also a guy I play football with! AND she was not even pregnant!!!

I am not saying this has happened to MKK but I think one thing that happens to fellow punters is that they do fall for WG's and start seeing them through rose tinted glasses. They tell us 1 thing and we do not even question it...

A bunch of us are good guys and want to do the right thing, we want to be the white knight riding in and helping them.

I do hope MKK gets it sorted and this lady is not taking him for a ride! But as horrible as it sounds - Yes some of these WG's are lovely down to earth ladies who have no other way of making cash. But some also just see us as fast way of making money and screwing us over (literally) any way they can.

Punt on Brothers!

the same thing happened to me in shanghai, she called me in my office in america! I guess she took a business card off my desk at the hotel, I told her it was not mine, she called two more times and then stopped....don't believe the girl...it is a scam...

and don't visit her again...

OK... Let's clear things up... This is gonna be sooo fucked up. Some of you will diss me, and some of you will find this funny.

Ok so she did call me on april 1st. And that conversation did genuinely take place. But the bigger surprise to follow was that, she called me like 10 minutes later
and shouted out APRIL FOOLS!!!!


I am sincerely sorry if by doing this made some of y'all really concerned and now probably angry at this immature prank. But in all honesty, I got pranked by her first,
so I thought I pranked you guys. I wanted this thread to boil up a little more, but then I saw some of you really concerned, and from the bottom of my heart: THANKS
So I think I should stop before this gets out of hands.

Now at least I know I can count on you guys, unless y'all are so pissed at me, and you ban me....

Once again sorry to those who are pissed at me, and to those who found this funny.

(but really, when she called me, I really felt that my world collapse)

oh... and much props to KaKa, who read the small print about the bigger surprise coming up.... Good One

I was analyzing the whole story in details in order to give my 2 cents worth of advise, only to find the last post was the conclusion of it all.

I'm soooo pissed that I'm goin' to kick your a** while laughing

LOL -
fun and Games!!  This is great!

BUT.... of course there's a but....REALITY CHECK!

MKK - the very fact that she was able to pull off this on you says a helluva lot about your relationship with her and what you are feeling about her.

PLUS - I'd think/IMHO/My POV - that she's using the "occassion" to actually test you out; and that you fell for it, confirms to her that she's got you by the short hairs.  You're a dead man walking!

Be careful there my friend...be very careful!  For I really sense that you're really no match for her guile and cunning.

GOOD!  
Now, I've put some seed of doubt, something else for you to ponder and agonize over.  

May you agonize and suffer!!
Asshole - true asshole!! LOL!

SEAJ
edit ps - Man, how I wish I could have pulled off something as convincing as this on the Idle Chat thread.  You got the gift MKK!! Props!

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 5-4-2011 11:57 ]

Wow..
I thought I would get more negative karma's than that.
But it was better to end this sooner.

In all seriousness, thanks to all those who gave me advice. Although i'
I hope I'll never need to use that.

Once again, thanks to all those who helped.
April fools, y'all....

XD

Prank eh..... now I really wish she was preggo and the culprit was you....

Good stuff from your gal... now go and bang the shit fuck of her brain..

I have new respect for this girl. First she knows april fools and man did she take you for a spin.  That is damn funny, if a bit sick and twisted.  But yes now you know for sure she is smart and cunning - watch out.

haha, actually it's not because you mentioned the "bigger surprise coming up".

it's because i was thinking..
if some guy just realised a WG is pregnant with his baby..
even though he wants to share his dilemma with forum bros..
but i don't think he will have the mood to spend time and effort to BOLD, italic, change font, add color to his post...

that was when i was pretty sure it's a April Fool's joke..


be careful of real life karma..

your girl playing a trick on you...
one day she will really be pregnant..

and as for you playing a trick on us...
Ping Ping's baby will turn out to be yours...

LOL

Yeah I had to bold and color the fonts to get y'alls attention.
But I mean, this wall all true, just that I kept everyone in suspense for more than 10 minutes, which I had to endure...

Geez... I must admit you had most of us going for a while there. I had a bloody sense of dejavu when I read the post, since I just had a incident where the 'dom slipped off when I was banging a HG. Scared the he'll outta me when I found out.  Am in abstinence now until I can be sure I'm safe

Meanwhile, be safe y'all.