Originally posted by aznlover at 9-11-2010 03:39
Thanks for clarifying, just wanted to make sure it's not one of those scenarios where they expect to you pay if they open the door for you. I walked away from a girl after apologizing a few years ago ...
OF COURSE they expect you to pay ...
duh ...
they expect you to slide your money under the door and then walk away quietly so you don't disturb them ...
After all is said and done WGs are women after all ... if they can make you do what they want with a gesture or a look of disappointment, they'll do it ... she learned it from her ma waaay before you spoke your first word.
You're there for what you want, not what she wants. Bottom line is for a contract to be formed, there needs to be both an offer and an acceptance. You look, you decide.
Grow a thick skin. The word "masculinity" implies a level of stubbornness and resistance to manipulation ... which makes you more attractive by being hard to get ... play the game.
Once you're in the door, it's another matter.