Q. When you visit a 141 girl, what are your objections?
A. To get relieve, to satisfy your desires,

Have you ever thought of maintaining a long time relationship with any of the girls? or do you treat it as a simple monetary transaction? You "buy" something that the girl is "selling"

Do you think that it is ever possible that the girl will ever learn to love you; you who is someone she knows casually; you who in her mind is always just a client seeking her services; or just because you got a special dick that can satisfy her  sexual desires?

My "objectives" are not just to get relief but to do so enjoying it with a beautiful girl.  I don't know whether if it's to fulfill a sexual fantasy or whatever (ie. to fuck a hot girl that you would otherwise have to spend too much time and effort on to score on normal terms) .  I sometimes think it's the media (including this site) that's putting these desires in me because we are always bombarded by sex or sexual innuendos.  

I have thought about the idea of a long term relationship with a 141 girl, and have even tried, of course without making it explicit to her.  but it's hard to find someone you can keep going back to.  Either you have lost interest in her, or have found a new hottie to bang.  But in principal, it would be great to have a fuck buddy you can count on to satisfy you when you need it.

I think it's possible for a 141 to gradually like you, or even love you.  Though quite rare, cuz she of course knows, and has to accept the fact that you are going around bonking new and different girls which means you are not a person who can love and stay with one person for a long time.  
But sometimes I find that some of these girls' thinking are not that complicated. They often say they want to get out and settle down.

when i chicken, i only think as some sort of relieve and i try not to see a girl more than once incase i fall for her.  

yes i almost have a fuck buddy, she lost her bf and was really hurt and became a real slut.  
she didn't almost wanted fuck me but i just felt raped.

If I am interested in pursuing a non-business relartionship with a WG, I wouldn't see her as a client at all. That way things are more cut and dry. However, it seems impossible in HK.

If it started out as a business transaction first, I would state the intention and react to the respond accordingly.

If you are talking about being a repeat customer, it is just that, repeat customer. No matter how much both parties want to romanticize the relationship. It is still a business relationship and both parties should act professionally.

Anything is possible. It has happened before and I am sure it wouldn't be the last time to happen either.

[ Last edited by  escritic at 20-11-2007 18:31 ]

Let's all go out and buy the Pretty Woman DVD and live happily ever after!

you know what?
i've never seen it.

Saw a Jet Li movie last night. Had a street walker with a heart of gold [Bridget Fonda, I think]. Jet Li kills all the bad guys, rescues
the hooker's young daughter who's been kidnapped and everyone lives happily ever after. Unfortunately, life ain't the movies and
none of us are Jet Li or Richard Gere.     

Has happened to me 3 times in the past 2 months.....

One thought I was single; Which I am not
One thought I was very young; Which I am not
The last is someone who is simply fantastic and really top drawer....

But really..What can we really offer these ladies, only money.
So it is not very fair that we lead them on. I have already made my peace with her on this......

Finally yes..I like the relationship, be it a fleeting one. This is important simply because in real life you need an eternity to get to know someone so quick and make an impression in that short a span of time.

I think that movie is 'Kiss Of The Dragon' or something like that.

There shouldn't be any hard feeling when both sides are honest with each other.

I say Hi and Bye!!!.........one of My hunter's rule of commandment.....

Agreed, don't catch feelings.

K.I.S.S - keep it simple stupid.

arrive, shag, money transaction, leave wth a smile.

dun think you shud get involved further with these girls.

that way you will not regret anything despite what is depicted in pretty woman...

[ Last edited by  bootfetish at 3-12-2007 10:18 ]

I do agree with you ..........................

some of those gals are nice but they have a background. they provide a service, i use it with no strings attached.....

basically i treat it like a one night stand.

almost like buying a drink for yourself, for the lady, club entrance fees or whatever .... taxi ride home, or room rental....

i don't find anything to relate to them so far so i wouldn't take it 'outside' of their job/room.

My first objective is to have fun while maximizing my money and time.

If I like the lady, then I will try to develop either a relationship that is business-only or friends-with-benefits. The first one will give me preferential (first priority/VIP) treatment in future visits and perhaps a discount. The second one means that I am her friend or part-time lover, and we'll do what normal friends/lovers do. Money is hardly discussed but appreciated if she's taking time off from work.

While not always on future visits, I may give souvenir items, perfumes, or sexy clothes. If in PRC, I give small new foreign bills/coins because these seems to be the most requested items.

Yes


Business transaction


It's possible to have a relationship but ...
a guy will not want their g/f to be in this business but inorder to get out she needs money to pay off her debts or maintain her living somehow.

Why do you think all of these girls are in debt? I know two girls who have managed to buy apartments for themselves in China! They have more money than me!

The best thing is give them a quick fuck and say byebye.....no need to have some feelings with them, and take note guys you just buy what you need.