Would you ever consider a WG to be your GF?

Last December I met a WG, she was from Sichuan. I visted her quite a few times;
1st time was normal - $350 for 30 mins.
2nd time I paid for 1 session and got around 1 hour and a 1/2 (also, my first time with a WG without using protection.)
3rd time - We were talking in her room for around 45mins, and then had sex for 1 hour. I only had to pay for 1 session.
On my last night in Hong Kong before I headed back to Taiwan, I picked her up after her shift was over (after 3am), and she
slept in my hotel room. Nothing happened, we just talked, and then slept together.

To this day, we still talk on QQ, but mostly we just text each other, or else we phone each other.
We are never in the same country at the same time. Always international calls

I don't know if I could consider her to be my GF.  I've never met her.  Please PM me her number, and I can investigate for you...

Have fun, CGP

why in hell would u get bareback on a 2nd visit with a WG?  you thought you were in love?

Id personally call that a "good friendly customer".

Id say you can probably call her a friend, but not a girlfriend in my opinion (more commitment needed for that in my opinion).

Ive read on here things like this can lead to important phone calls a few weeks down the road requesting some extra financial aid etc.

This doesn't sound like a GF to me.  Just a friend.  If you are still paying on the third visit you are a good customer.  If she is visiting you after hours and you just sleep, you are a friend.

Just enjoy it for what it is.

Where did you meet this WG? Was she located at a walkup?

My GF wouldnt let me bareback her all the time.
WGs I visited over the years always offer me bareback.

Go figure.

Oh... you really mean you bareback with WGs??? be careful brother.

lijianhua, where did you get WG for $350 30mins? Do you want her to be your gf and, if she became your gf, how would you going to maintain the relation given seems you always need to travel around?

First time I've heard such a question from a Lord... Where the fuck have you been, bro?!?!

If your question is do we think this WG is acting like your GF then I would say no she is acting like you are a friendly customer who she likes to spend time with

If you are asking would it be possible to have a WG as a girlfriend then that was covered many times on this forum and a search will help you there.

For you punters who decide to punt in Vietnam, wrap it up! ...or take the girl to a clinic to be tested first!

seriously irresponsible, or just plain stupid!

Uhh... is this a serious question?

crazier things have happened. a select amout of lonely people here already pay for sex, they think love is part of the package as well

I personally wouldnt think of or want a working girl to be my GF. Reasons?

1. Slept with more than a dozen guys. (Not trying to be an a-hole but just turns me off )
2. I dont like to have a girlfriend whom i cant share a weekend with because she has to "service" some other dude.   
3. My relatives would kill me... literally...   how do i know this? I tried something a bit less than a working girl and got a hell of an argument
4. Because i dont want my friends to say "Hey dude, just saw your girls hot tits on the internet "

But then thats just me

Most of your reasons are quite weak.

1) Many civvie girls, especially the young ones these days, have slept with a lot more than a dozen guys via ons, dating, flings, adventures,etc.  Check out some of the girls who go to LKF on Wed, Thurs, Fri, Sat.  

2) If you are taking care of and treating her like a proper gf, she won't feel the need to be seeking additional financial support by 'servicing' some other dude in the weekends.  Unless of course you plan on living off her 'earnings', then you would be classified as a dick in this forum.

3) There are some nice wgs with great personality, charm and smarts, but very rare.  With a little polishing on your part while dating her, you may be able to get come across as a 'refined' person with your relatives.  I have met civvie girls who are just coarse or worse than most wgs and have embarrassed me with the stuff that spews out their mouths.   

4) Not all wgs in HK/Macau/China have pics on the internet.  Plus would you actually tell your buddies that your new gf is a wg so they can lust after her too?  It would be better for you to tell them she is a normal girl that you met at a club.  Of course this doesn't work if the wg has allowed many punters to take her real pics and she has many recognizable tattoos on her body.

When the WG offer you bareback, doesnt mean you are going to dive naked into her hole.
Stop assuming.

I met this girl in Tai Po. Yeah, she was a walk up.
She has called herself my gf before in sms messages and in phone calls, but I'm not sure if she's for real or not.

If you have never fucked her without paying her (as in the case of the OP) then she is not your GF.

Its hard to know whats genuine when there is money and livelihood involved and that doesn't just go for WG it applies to non WG  as well.

If she sleeps with many guys for money her ability to show genuine intimacy/love through making love is no longer there how will you know if it is genuine? They don't call it GFE for nothing.

I am sure there are guys on this forum who make less than a WG so if that is the case a the guy won't be able to provide the money she may need to support her lifestyle outside of work, providing her money should not the be all and end all of a relationship. So she may indeed need to have an income from somewhere and not because he is not "taking care of and treating her like a proper gf", i would suggest that a girl like that is not worth having as a GF.

Its not here behavior that will cause problems with the relatives, she may be the nicest, smartest and most genuine girl ever but if they find out she was a WG it won't go down well regardless.

I don't mind if she's a WG or not; if she's a good person, nice to talk to, etc.
isn't that what's important in a relationship?

Everyone needs a job. I'm not going to look
down on someone just because of the profession she is in.

[ Last edited by  lijianhua at 22-10-2010 21:13 ]