Sometimes I feel terrible when I'm banging these chicks, its sad and depressing that they have to sell their body. On the other side I'm enjoying and living the dream and escaping all the stress I go through daily in life and just living the life and the excitement they are giving me for that hour. What do you guys think ?

I only feel sorry for the ones that are tricked or forced into it. But, the ones that do it by choice - no way.

I think you should stop going to these WGs ... get a gf or a few gfs and live out your dreams with them !

Sometimes, it is sad for the WGs to be making a living in this way, but my friend told me something that may change your opinion.  He states that if WGs don't get business, they don't eat.  In a way, it's true.  Many make a living from this occupation, if you can call it that, and it pays for all their living expenses.  Especially for those in China.  China is one of the fastest growing economies but yet many are still starving in that country.  The country has a 8% growth rate and it still fears unrest because there is still not enough jobs for those migrating to the economic hubs of Guangdong (Shenzhen, Guangzhou) and Shanghai.  Many of these girls in China that are WGs are village girls that came to the city but can not find unemployment.  They are absolutely broke and thus have to sell their bodies.  So literally, it's be a WG or not be able to eat.  So, you're paying for their survival.

Hey bro, give him a break la. Yes this topic has been touched upon (excuse the pun!) many times and may well be the first question newbies post.
Maybe his dream is to be fucking WGs and not gf's lol

As for my own view, I don't feel sorry as such otherwise I'd just give them money without doing the shiz.....then again, I'm not THAT generous!

@cbd: that's assuming you believe a damn thing they say.  you are paying them for a service after all, not to hear their life story.  they could be lying out of their ass just like any random yahoo you meet at a bar who's piss drunk.

@Yoneyama: give who a break?  i don't see a post giving anyone shit

Actually, I was quite serious ... (notice no smilies)

I do think if anyone goes punting feeling sorry for the girl and at the same time enjoying himself is kidding
himself and us !

Yes Twice I totally agree with you and banger has said it in essence. We go there for a reason and there's no need to listen to some sob story...

Totally agree with Twice shizno - if that's the way you feel, you better stop immediately.  

To answer your question: no, I don't feel any more sorry for a WG than I do for anyone else I meet.

That is, yes I feel sorry for some.  Just like I also might feel sorry for someone who's unhappy for some reason - but only if I see that heor she is unhappy.   For example I also feel sorry for anyone who is caring for a sick relative, is in an abusive relationship of any kind, is short of money for food / shelter / clothing, lost their job, got cheated by someone, etc etc etc.

But definitely I don't feel sorry for any WG just because she's working as a WG, and even less if I go to see her.  If I sense any reluctance or suspect coercion I'd not be there in the first place (but that's not something I've encountered in HK).  

The girls I've got to know are making a positive choice to exchange sex for money, and many of them greatly prefer the lifestyle to the alternatives (e.g. full time employment).  Some of the girls enjoy their work, and by and large they are very happy to see me as a repeat visitor.  

Nope, I see no reason for pity there.  

So, if you do, it better not be because you actually have concrete grounds to be sorry for them.  You're either going to the wrong girls, or you're carrying baggage that could prove harmful to yourself or to your partners.

and if we are talking about WGs working in HK ... what they make in tax free $ terms is huge !!!

Yeah depends really, if they enjoy it or not, some of them really do, its a good way for them to earn money instead of being in the farm or factory day in day out, but yeah theres many who do it because they have no choice =/

when you start to pity them, believes their stories, getting touchy....you will break  or sink....so dont!!!

fuck with a skeptical mindset......walk out and next please.

getting a gf will not stop him from seeing WGs, lol

ah.. that's what the WGs tell their potential husbands or boyfriends.

be a WG or not be able to eat??
that's......

do you know how many factories in Dongguan are having workers shortage right now?
and why they can't hire enough workers?
because most of the smarter girls know they earn 10 times more in a sauna or KTV.

it's not about survival, it's just pure greed.

Of course they do it for the money! Why should that surprise anyone? If I were a girl, I'd want to be paid very well indeed to spread my legs for some of the toads these girls have to service. And how does taking a higher paid job, as opposed to working in some sweatshop for peanuts, make them any different from everyone else in this world? Tho, of course I know that doesn't apply to any of the idealists who make up the bulk of this forum's membership - guys who have given up high paying jobs to go into social work because money isn't everything. My hat's off to you bros!

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so .... ?   Do you pity the WG???

Only in the way that I would pity anyone who feels economically compelled to take up a line of work that he finds unpleasant. But whether that applies to any particular WG is anybody's guess.

Totally agree with Twice, Pity is born from Guilt and Guilt comes from thinking (subconsciously or not) that you are doing some thing wrong.  So if you feel pity then its simple dont do it.  So NO is the answer from me.

As far as pitying WGs as a class of people is concerned: pity depends upon empathy, the ability to put yourself in someone's shoes and see the world as they see it. If you thought that providing sex for money is shameful or unpleasant, then you would most likely pity anyone who felt compelled to enter that line of work. If, on the other hand, you thought the girls are making good money while not having to do anything particularly difficult or unpleasant, then you wouldn't see any reason to pity them. How you answer the question depends on how you view prostitution.

if you knew how much some of these girls make, you would not feel sorry for them...

only the ones that are forced into the trade, you need to be concerned w/...