Thanks for this thread. I've just joined up and look forward to hooking up with some hot birds

Hi Geek,
Been a while since you posted on Cherry, hope it is going well for you. I get the connection you have developed with this girl it is a terrific thing when it happens that's for sure. Just note her profile is still up on Seeking Arrangement and she logged in yesterday according to the site.  I've no idea what she tells you of course, nor any idea what she is like, however I would urge you to tread carefully bro.

Hi brothers. Just an update on Cherry. My friend, who introduced me to the SA website did a little spying on my behalf, he didn't tell me about it. He sent cherry emails and made arrangements to meet her in HK. They exchanged numbers and used whatsapp to firm up details including agreeing to have sex. He showed me all the evidence and it broke my heart. I have recently come back from HK after confronting her about it and she was crying and telling me these reasons. I called bullshit and left. Feeling rather shitty ATM but glad I know now. Back to looking then.

Lesson to be learned here brothers.

Well, that sucks, brother.  Sorry to hear it.  Not uncommon.  

Keep in mind... she was likely doing what she NEEDS to do.  Unless you were sponsoring here (with $$$$) each month.  Even then... many will take your dollars and still keep at it.  Again, not uncommon.

Bargirls.  "You can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl".  It's a lifestyle.  

Hope you didnt sink too much cash Brother.

You'll get through it.....  another babe wont be too far away.

Well, does it suck? Of course. But Geek, you should know the score before you ever meet a girl in this manner.

Did you see someone after her? I expect you did. Why think she would be any different. In fact, she is in a much more challenging situation than probably any of us. A girl will do what she has to to survive.

I fall in love with every girl I get intimate with in this game. Some of the time it lasts more than the few hours I'm with them. ;)

My advice is stick with my personal motto...... NEXT!

I knew what the deal was from the start. I just didn't expect her to say the things she did. I didn't give her that much cash. Only the amount we agreed on. I did send her some presents. Not that much money about HK$ 10000. I'm sure I'll get over it but I feel shit because we argued and I left things bad and unfinished.

I can't see the ad now (asking me to log into Seeking Arrangement which it didn't do before) & don't recall her nationality. It seems to me that certain nationalities are prone to 'I love you' statements very quickly, I have seen it most with Pinay girls. They are being honest about it but fall out of love as quickly as they fall in love, so you can't take it too seriously. They aren't bullshitting you but their version of undying love will likely be very different to yours.

I fell badly for one girl and she for me - but six months after she left HK she was pregnant and married (in that order). In the mean time, she told me she wasn't pregnant & asked me to send her $$ to come back to HK for work. I knew, from her friends, she was pregnant but she never told me freely, only after I told her I knew. Then it was "now you know, so will you send me the money". Quite funny really.

Similarly, I have been with more than a few girls who have "sponsors" who send them money regularly to keep them out of the bars but they go back anyway and frequently their sponsor is none the wiser. I had a devious and delightful time with one girl, who I got to call her BF on Skype (voice only) while I was fucking her - it was hot, she and I laughed about it, but at the same time she was very grateful to him for the $$. Quite surreal.

As Wander says (above) "you can't take the bar out of the girl", they have a lifestyle going here and it is unlikely to change. Accept it, enjoy the game and move onto the next girl.

Understandably you feel shitty about the whole thing but I would urge you to let it go, move onto the next punt and, most importantly, bear no grudge.

Seeking Arrangement is a de-facto escort site, despite what the organisers say. It's to be expected that ladies will go with different men. And always remember the Indonesian saying - " I will f... who I want until I am married.

Hey JH, this belongs in your sig-line!

Well, some woman on there will fuck some will not. Some may fuck after they get to know you better as in after a few dates. I have met them all. I find it is more like a dating site where people are more open about their intentions.

Hi Jake, I travel to SF regularly, tried WYP 3-4 times but was not successful, not sure what I am doing wrong, just wasted money buying dinners without any fun

Yeah, there is no question (usually) that you do still have to woo them.  They are on WYP or SA instead of Cityvibe or 141 or Redbook because they are not fulltime/hard core WGs. Just folow the tips to improve your odds:

- read her profile for clues she's open for easy fun.  And make your profile obvious as well.
- try to make it clear what you want before you meet via text or calls

The goal is to weed out those who either expect something for nothing (paid just for the date)  or are hoping to find something more serious.

Even then, they still need to feel safe and comfortable with you before they will follow you to a room.  So some charming is required.

Good luck.

Interest site, i must try it sometimes.

Imagine my horror when I was watching the ABC tv program 20/20 on 14 November 2014 with my family and a particular topic was discussed...men paying girls for dates on Whatsyourprice.com.

I had to act like I never heard of such arrangements as the reporters talked about the website.

Here is the Link:

The report is towards the last 10 minutes of the tv program and shows some girls looking for legitimate dates and others are using it as a part-time job.

Funny you should post this. I am working in a city that I've done very little punting in before and so far WYP was good but not great.

I would search regularly for new faces but the content was pretty much the same every week I would look. Then a couple of weeks ago I get online on a Sunday morning and there are like 15 new girls.

I was surprised but wasted no time contacting a few of the hot ones. In no time I had a response from a couple of them. As part of my initial conversations I always ask the girl how she found WYP.

Almost all the new girls said they saw it on 20/20.

So that news report has been responsible for me having a number of new options, and a few great sex adventures already.

I hope the reports keep on coming!

J

Hmm this seems to be quite intriguing. I've only just stumbled upon this thread while looking around and was curious if the website also applies to Canada and if anyone has tried it in Canada. I'm currently still in Hong Kong and humming and haing about who to see for my first punt here. Lol its like losing my virginity all over again