Is this normal in BKK?  Picked up a cute bargirl and took her back to mine.  Was enjoying a BBBJ and then she went to DFK me as we were at it she put my LB inside her without a 'dom on!     It was obviously very nice but I was shitting myself thinking about how many guys she might have done this too.  I didn't have any 'doms but decided to finish the job anyway.    Anyway I tried to tell her about condoms but her English was poor.  

Hmm so has anyone else had this experience?  I would never fuck a WG without one and wouldn't make this request either (sex without a 'dom) but got too caught up in the moment.

[ Last edited by  Whorehouse at 13-10-2012 19:29 ]

so, as the saying goes ... never say never !!!

I had one girl who I have known for a few years ask if I wanted to go bareback for once.  I said NO !!!

So you just contradicted yourself there. Are you a hypocrite or a liar? Many guys will publicly say that they won't go bareback, but given the private opportunity they would take it. "Caught up in the moment" is akin to being in the moment of passion. This reasoning (or excuse) doesn't hold up in any scenario. If you want to go bareback then say so and accept the consequences.

What you do in regards to your own safety is your business. My concern however is that guys who see WGs seem to rarely get tested for STIs, whereas WGs will and do get tested. That means that there are guys out there who may think that they're clean but really they're not, and these are the guys who end up passing STIs to WGs, who pass them to guys, and the cycle continues.

Also, you're quite the traveler. Penang in May. Budapest in August (strange that in your report you would add the accent on the "o" in Ramóna -- what keyboard language are you using?). And now Bangkok.

Lol ctrl + alt + o = ó doofus.

Yes I am well travelled so what?  

Forum paranoia isn't a good look my friend.

We dont promote bareback penetration in this forum.

You are telling us you would never fuck a without dom but you are doing it right now.
You are contradicting yourself.

Would you feel more comfortable if other bros also had the same experience?

You just felt No biggie after all bcos other dudes are doing it !!! ??

[ Last edited by  hunter at 15-10-2012 19:23 ]

Wow going bareback with a random pick up in BKK.... Thats very daring my friend... As some other said, if you say you wont do it but do it, theres something wrong.

My 2cts... Just dont.

I didn't request it she just shoved it in!  

I'll requote myself "Was enjoying a BBBJ and then she went to DFK me as we were at it she put my LB inside her without a 'dom "

What was I supposed to do tell her to stop and demand she use a condom when she didn't have any and nor did I?  Her English was almost non existent, I had to negotiate with the mamasan at the bar.  

It was my first time in BKK and picking up a bar girl.  

Lesson learnt I will need to bring some 'doms with me in future, I'm used to WG's bringing their own rubbers tbf.  Yes i was bricking it and got myself checked out as soon as I got home.

[ Last edited by  Whorehouse at 16-10-2012 02:51 ]

its like playing russian roulette one day its gonna get you

Never again bro!  But I noticed some girls do go bareback on the adulltwork website.

"What was I supposed to do tell her to stop and demand she use a condom when she didn't have any and nor did I?"

Erm... YES.... That is actually what you should of done!

Happened to me once in Pattaya, I was drunk & she did it in the shower. I stopped and said no. She spoke poor English, most hotels etc will have doms in the room available for a small price. It was inside her for maybe 2 seconds, I still went to a clinic two times over the next 5 days & got tested!

"What was I supposed to do tell her to stop and demand she use a condom when she didn't have any and nor did I?"

Dumb fuck reason aint it?

Be resourceful, go get a condom.
Knock next door, go down 7-11.
Biatch can wait. Lil' Bro can wait.
Have some self control.


Petay, almost similar to your case, many years ago when i was in RIO (communication gap), the freelance was resourceful, she called the nearby 24-hrs phamarcy to deliver to us at midninte.
It cost more of course but worth the wait.

Yes exactly, most hotels (if not all) I have stayed in when I have been in Thailand have condoms, they might cost a little extra but worth it if you are drunk & horny.

She did not put it inside her when we were in the shower, we were fooling around & it kind of slipped in but she did not react, I might not of given her time considering I almost shit myself!

I usually buy in the airport on my way when I am going to Thailand...

Yes, so the action "I fuck her bareback because we dont have a condom" is not an excuse to continue bareback.

But if one want to knock her up and make her preggo because you want to be a father, be my guest.

"So she puts in in without a cap", so what?

You can take it out, can't you . I mean it not like it gets in there and its gets stuck and won't come out . I take mine out all the time to change positions what's the big deal. Are you concerned that pulling it out is going to hurt her feelings? . Grow up man, she's not there with you because she likes you, although the better ones know how to make you think that they really do, and many of them, even if they don't like you, do enjoy the act if it is done properly and they are sufficiently aroused.

Noobie you have a lot to learn about this business and you are not starting off well. We are giving you solid advice .

I have had WGs climb on top of me in the heat of the moment and tried to do the deed (once by the legendary and notorious Dan Dan in Sheung Wan , and once with a one of my regulars who is most of the time very diligent about this kind of thing but also gets very horny ). In both cases as they tried to climb on top I simply push them off and said "no deal". Referring to the above, the former gave me a somewhat dirty look as if to say "okay if you insist" , and the latter, a lovely middle-aged provider with whom I have been saying for several years profusely and embarrassingly apologized.  

I don't think there is a language barrier when it comes to indicating that you want and need a dom.

I would say next time get one from the mini bar, or call room service or the concierge  or if you stay in cheap places like I used to in BKK then you get your lazy skanky ass out of the bed , put on some clothes, go downstairs to 7-11 and buy one, even if it is a buzz kill and mood destroyer .

You can do what you want in BKK, as I really don't care, having sowed my oats there as a young buck 20 years ago , you can screw yourself up big time but do not come here to HK and try this with women whom we patronise. This puts us and them at risk .

If you don't like my negative and hostile views of your carelessness, well, then keep your dick in BKK and don't insert it into our community.

Keep on mongering (using your big head)

[ Last edited by  gwailoplayer at 16-10-2012 20:26 ]

You could have said no and shaken your head.


I am sure she knows what is a condom.  How do you know she didn't have any? Any 7-11 store has condoms. You could have her called her mamasan or went  together to buy some.  If she could do a BBBJ and DFK without any problems or hesitation, she is already a pro. She knows what is a condom. There were many things you could have done.


Is it the first time with a working girl or sex with any girl ? I bet it's a NO. Using a bar is a BAD excuse.


It might be too late already....You might be dead in 8 years. It's very irresponsible of you.

[ Last edited by  Weelock at 17-10-2012 09:50 ]

Had this once too when in Fortune spa in Jakarta. The girl said "now we fuck" and got on top of me... I asked "wheres the condom?"  And she replied "no need am clean". Well that is definitely a deal breaker for me so I said no and we settled for a HJ ehich she did a little mecahnically as she was upset not to fuck (more money for her if we did...). Of course she said she loved me and we could have fun... But in this situation, always listen to yiur big head, discard whatever lb thinks, hes not a good advice.

Dont be suicidal, use a dom. Its not just aids, its other std s that you dont want to have, and also in some cases the risk of becoming a dad... That would screw your life up, wether your single or married, doesnt matter.

And as Gwailo said. In the meantime, keep your lb far from hk and get tested ;) . Condom is not an option, its a must. You should be fine, but even though the risk is small, it exists and random girls in Bkk that do it without condoms are probably in the top of the list...

While I do agree with the safety sentiments stated herein, I'm somewhat taken aback by the strident tone criticizing Whorehouse.

I'm not defending the laisez faire attitude, but I am pointing out that if we bitch slap any bro with a tale of wayward behavior then we lose a useful part of our conversation here.  If we were more tolerant about talking about the errant slip of safety protocols, then perhaps that would be a more useful conversation than going nuclear on the guy IMHO.

I like going nuclear, its what I do and I do it well.

Stridency indeed.

Keep on mongering

Yeah, that's exactly what you should have done. Ask for a BJ instead. Think of all the fucking that goes on in Thailand. Fucking a chick BB is risky. Fucking a chick BB who thinks nothing's wrong with it is completely fucking stupid.