Originally posted by wander at 13-8-2012 09:27
Rarely have I seen a more polarizing "black or white" fellow such as you. Everything is always "your way or the highway".
Like most Bro's on here, I find you can be incredibly ...
OK – perhaps time that I should explain a bit better.
What you said is actually precisely just about all the points that made me decide to just take a "back seat" nowadays.
Yes, everything to me is either right or wrong, black or white. That is how it is for me IRL - so why should I compromise when it comes to here? And no, I don’t suffer fools gladly and I do not back away or turn the other cheek; anybody wants to get it on with me – well… yes, I’ll be right there to punch back doubly hard. Why should I have to tolerate ANY wankers?
“….arrogant, stubborn, wrong-headed, and even vicious in your attacks on others…” yes, all that except that –again – to me just about everything is either black or white and when there’s shades of grey (as invariably happens in many things in life) – I just try to narrow it down as much as possible. And if indeed I had been wrong, I have always readily acknowledged and apologize for such.
“Hosting” a thread? NO – it’s got absolutely nothing to do with my wanting to host a thread or – as you are hinting at – that I want some kind of “glory” or acknowledgement etc. I just want a thread that is welcoming to newbies, a place where they can go to start their sex141 membership in a more understanding/welcoming atmosphere instead of how it IS/CAN BE in other parts here. If there’s one thing I’m glad about, is that nowadays, it seems that Seniors AND MODS are now more tolerant/friendlier to some of the nonsense posts that do get posted up by newbies - who just do not yet know the culture here. This is and has always been my ONLY agenda here. And NO, as I have repeatedly stated, I do NOT have ANY wish to be anything more than just a member and what you’re insinuating is a low blow.
To just participate? Not when it’s no longer fun to do so; not when I get threatened to be banned anytime I happen to not agree with the powers-that-be; not when discussions turns to actual name-calling and worse, doing so by innuendos. Yes, I am perhaps a square peg – but sure as hell I am NOT going to try to fit myself into a round hole just to satisfy the powers-that-be. Screw that – it’s just not me and I would rather just NOT participate any more. I am NOT a politician and I do NOT have the finesse to handle anything politically – I just stick to my principles and defend it. And if the “forces” are insurmountable, well I ain’t too damn proud to just walk away and find my own place where I CAN stick to my principles.
Can you or anybody else justify the restrictions on the Idle Chat thread? For it to be singled out for such restrictions? What has participants here done to deserve this? And as for your previous lament that I am single-handedly “destroying” this thread – well, here’s my innuendo to you: do you yourself harbor a desire to take over? Since you’re no longer going to be wandering all over Wanchai? Yes, vicious, yes, out-of-line – but that is precisely how you’ve phrased your own posting, as if I had a hidden agenda or whatever.
Look-it wander, I have no hidden agenda except to just enjoy fun and games here – and the past few months has NOT been fun and games. And I’m through with shadow boxing with the Mods/seniors; I always pride myself on being a fair fighter and I particularly resent all these under-handed moves. You or anybody else have a problem with me – come right out and say it; discuss it properly and rationally - and not just come out with stupid innuendos and personal attacks. I mean – Christ – how am I – or anybody - going to handle statements like “I’ll come up with a masterpiece of Mod’ding when I have time” – and then never actually doing so? Ridiculous!
SEAJ