Of late I've been reading up another forum to get a bit more information about the raids in Chang Ping etc.

That forum has a system similar to our K point system - but with points being deducted/added ...and the rating comments - only visible to the member receiving such.

Anyway, I just now figured out how to find out who all has been giving me reputation points etc. and noticed that I had received a couple NEGATIVE awards accompanied with remarks that allude me to being an agent/doing business as an agent/partner of Big Swingin Dave from ISG.

I'm thinking that perhaps others here may also be doing the same thinking and thus I would like to take this opportunity to ask y'all to please allow me to clarify one thing - and that is that I have nothing to do with BS Dave and his guiding business. Yes, he is a friend of mine and yes, I was the one who originally gave him the idea/basis of how this business works and also all the contacts I had to start him off. But apart from the start - approx 3 years or so ago - I have had nothing to do with his business. And I of course certainly have NEVER profited a single cent from what he does - and am in fact still paying him like the rest of us when I do use his service.

Yes, I still do use BSD's services once a while and in fact this was one additional reason why I had suggested to BSD to start his operation; prior to him being around, friends etc were always asking me to do all sorts of things that agents do and I would do it totally gratis as they're friends.

BUT then more and more guys would ask me for favours and...I'd end up always NOT enjoying myself at KTV's etc and instead always getting grief i.e. guys not showing up for Reserved hotel rooms AND also for KTV sessions - which means that the per capita cost for a KTV session would rise for everybody/everybody complaining as if I had been doing it as a job etc. Them phoning me in the middle of the night asking for translation help or to settle a row with their gal - whatever!! All nonsense as far as I was concerned and .....!! Now I just direct just about ALL requests for arrangements to BSD.

I believe that people who knows me know that I really don't need that kind of money at all.

Apologize for this most likely too long explanation - but I do want to set the record straight.

Thank you

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 18-7-2012 14:08 ]

On this thread?

Its getting tedious for me to try to maintian it PLUS more importantly, it's NOT being participated on by newbies/newer members who IMHO would stand to gain the most from doing so...which in turn should be of benefit to the Forum as a whole.

But the Powers-that-be around here seem to think otherwise...so I figure, why even try?

SEAJ

Everyone's in the Raid thread since that's what we are all focused on.

AsnDragon's screwing, so we won't see any intelligible posts from him until his blood is able to flow back to his brain.

Writing shit for no karma points is kinda pointless.  It used to be fun, but I guess like the crackdown, the rug's been pulled out.

Are we talking about veggie shit here?

Why so drastic?  

Why not just relax, do what you have fun doing, and see where it goes?  

I don't see anyone asking you to carry the World on your shoulders, single-handedly ... nor do I anticipate anyone disagreeing with your motivation to help newbies get themselves integrated ...

We're all here by choice

If it's feeling like a job and a burden, you can just do what you feel motivated to do.

I agree, SEAj.  Just relax about it.  I didnt see anywhere that the mods have demanded that you police this thread.  So if it feels like an arduous task, just stop doing it -- participate like a normal member.

That said --- this points out the true problem with the mod's decision.  By not allowing K's to be given, but still having it technically possible forces someone to police it, as mistakes are made all the time.  This needs to change so you can just relax.  Either allow the Ks again, or make it technically impossible to grant them here...

Don't know if anybody cares/will find useful or not, but I'm putting together a "Mongering Singlish" dictionary as below.

I've still not figured some words (bolded) and if anybody knows what they mean/want to add to the vocabulary/want to make corrections....appreciate it!!
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2molo – tomorrow

Ah-lain - loutish/uncouth woman/follows fashion trends but viewed as lacking taste
Ang moh – Westerner/white foreigner
Ang kong kia – boys at play
Ang Pai – Red tagged, signifying a girl on her red days

Bakso – Indonesian provider
Bao – to package/sponsor a girl
Beh tahan – will not stand it/endure
Beli - buy
Beri – very
Bla gang – also blakang = backway, anus
Bo jio – no call, no contact
Bo pian – tricky method
Bo pianwah sai –
Bodoh – stupid, silly, fool

Cheeken - chicken
Chee bye - The female (external?) genitalia: vulva, cunt, pussy.
Cheong - to play ( sexually )
Chio – Good looking, a real looker
Char Kway Teow (CKT) – Chinese provider
Chapati – Indian provider
CO - Commanding Officer (refers to your mum for single man, wife for married man)
CV - Changi Village (north-eastern end of Singapore)

DFM - Do For Me
DWM - Do With Me or Driving While Masturbating

Gahment - government
Ger -
Giam - Stingy
GL - Geylang (Singapore's 'legal' red light district)

Haolian - arrogant, cocky
Hiau/hiow/heow - Sexually attractive, sexy/Vain.

Jialat/chialat/jialut - Difficult, troublesome, Severe, to a great extent; very bad, terrible.
Jou Gou – running dog, rascal
Jual – sell
Jua Gen (JG) - massage of the veins and tracts around the groin area

Ka ki nang – of the same kind/kinship
Kaki – Leg – but actually means friend or companion in an enterprise
Kam Cheng – see Kum cheng – Feelings, affection, sweetheart
Kao kao – strong enough
Kangtao – business opportunity/hot tip
Kan-Nin-Nia (KNN) - Hokkien dialect expletive/fuck your mother
Kao-Pei-Kao-Bu (KPKB) - cry father cry mother(Hokkien), Quarrel with father, with mother. Used to describe a person who makes hell of noise when angry
Kay-Po (KP) - busybody in Hokkien.
Kee tao hong – Went crazy, used mainly to suan someone
Kekeke – sound of laughter
Kena - happened to, affected by
Kia - afraid
Korec - correct
Kowpeh – Complain in a nagging manner
Keong Saik (KS) – a Singapore red light district in Chinatown
Kum sia – thanks
Kum cheng (KC) – feelings, affection (Hokien), can also mean “your sweetheart”

Lah, Lor, leh, liao, mah, ma, meh – various exclamations/after a sentence.
Lan - penis
Lau - a meaningless word that is a euphemism for lan penis
Lao sai - boss
Liao - 了, exclamation..no real meaning
Liddat – Like that.
Lobang – hole, refers to girls

Mai Tu Liao –
Makan - to eat, food
Mao’s – RMB/currency of the PRC
Meh - 咩 (Baa Baa sound of sheep – of little consequence)
Na-Bey (NB) - Hokkien dialect expletive
Meimei (MM) – young girl, usually to refer to a WG
Mook Kua Yuen  - means whore house (Cantonese)

Naber Jio me de – never invite me
Nabey/Nabay – WTF?!
Naber, neber - never
Nasi Lemak/NL - Native Malaysian
Neh-Bo-Simi-Toa-Liap (NBSTL) - Small Breast
Neh neh – breast, bossom
NMNHNLM - No-Money-No-Honey-Nobody-Loves-Me
NPNT - No Picture No Talk/No Proof No Talk

OC - Officer in Command (refers to your gf/mistress/spouse/etc)
OKT - Orh-Kui-Tao (hokkien slang meaning pimp/agent)
Oredi – already
OT - Orchard Towers (located on the corner of Claymore Road and Orchard Road)

Paiseh - embarrass
Pang sai – pass motion
Pak Chew Cheng (PCC) - Hokkien slang meaning masturbate
Papaya farm – whore house
Pecah Lobang – break hole, means screwing a girl or sometimes taking her virginity
Pei-Du-Ma-Ma - refer to mature PRC ladies who live in Singapore with their kids studying here
Peifu – Admire and envy.
Phua Chu Kang – Name of a Singaporean actor
Por lam par – sucking up to someone
Por lan pa kia -
Prata – Indian/muslim
PTPP - Put-Time-Put-Place, state when and where.
Pui Chao Nuar (PCN) - service like shit or attitude problem.

Raba/rabba – to touch, squeeze, fondle
Red Mao’s - RMB 100
Roti Prata – Indian pancake

Seow/siow/siau – stupid, crazy, mad
Shiok - filling with desire, attractive; attractive, pleasing;
siam - 閃, to disappear, avoid, get out of the way
Sian - Bored, fed-up, tired.
Siat - exclamation used as a suffix for emphasis
Siat suay – VERY unlucky/jinxed
Sibei – very (see si-pek)
Siong – Tough, difficult, laborious
Si-pek – very (very much)
Si pek tulan – (tulan = angry) thus = very angry
Suan – Being sarcastic, mocking.
Suay - Unlucky, unfortunate, jinxed.
Sui – nicely, just right, perfect

Ta pau/Ta Pow – take-out order, like in food AND taking out a WG
Tahan - Endure, hold out, stand it
Taikor – big brother, addressing someone with respect
Talk cock – bull shit
Tarma – Threesome/sex involving 3 people/ménage à trois
Tan-Ku-Ku (TKK) - wait long long in Hokkien  also see WLL
TCSS - Talk Cock Sing Song/to hang out together & engage in casual bantering
Tekan - press, push hard; force, control, Pressure put on someone, Bullying
Teng-Kok-Kok (TKK) – hard erection in Hokkien.
Tiko – mouse  (who plays around!)
Tikos – mice
Tio lagi – Win again; actually means winning an unpleasant task again.
Tio lu tio lor – unlucky all over
Tiongkok – People’s Republic of China
Tolong - help
Tomolo – tomorrow
Tong Zhi – comrade, friend
Towkay – Chief, Big boss
Tuang - pour out, empty out a liquid; Play truant
Tudi – apprentice, understudy
Tupi -
Tui Na (TN) - a type of Chinese body massage

Unkat – raise up, pick up

Wah lao - OMG, wow, damn
Wah sai – an exclamation
Walau - oneself, own, my, me; self
Wayang – Malay Puppet, to pretend
WLL - Wait Long Long

Yanda – Strike hard/yellow cleansing campaign in the PRC

Zhu geliang – Chinese white wine
Zhun Bo? – Are you sure?

Thanks...appreciate your ongoing support and encouragement....in fact....I'd like to say this to all of you.

But I AM truly fed up with all this nonsense and shadow boxing; have never walked away from a fight IRL and I ain't gonna do it here - ESPECIALLY since its not only my honour at stake, but of ALL others who has contributed so much to this thread AND the aims of bettering our forum.  I say that's total bullshit and I have as such confronted this matter in the Senior's thread
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

BUT GUYS -
PLEASE LEAVE THIS WHOLE THING TO ME!

I am prepared to be banned etc for taking a stance - but I am NOT prepared to see anyone else get in trouble for my and my own beliefs

What is right is right and what's wrong is wrong

SEAJ

Ps edit
This may very well be the last time you hear from me - and if so, I would like to formally thank all of you for tolerating all my B.S., my tom-foolery, my chiding, my having fun and games with all of you.  It has been my pleasure and true honour to have made y'all's acquaintance and friendship.
Thank you Bros!

Seaj, I was commenting on your excellent post, not making a political statement.

I think we all appreciate having you around, I hope you don't go do something stupid...  

Just chill,  what will be, will be.  Patient quiet advocacy is usually the most effective tool in the diplomats satchel.

sorry to say this, but you're sounding like my wife did last weekend

completely ruined a perfectly good afternoon by hanging onto her sense of injustice way past its sell-by-date and was literally offensive in the process ...  

fortunately her sister was there to shut her up

frightfully Chinese, really ...

Welllll.... your problem with your wife is....your problem/sorry that you cain't handle her.
You'd actually allow your wife to get offensive to you? Oh MY!
Good though, that you could enlist the help of your sister-in-law! Good on ya!


Glad you're speaking for all of us.
Plus if you'll note - I have taken the fight to the Senior's thread - so how is it ruining this thread?
Far as I see, its only 1 guy who's posted and making a deal of it right here.

So - yeah - you got any problems with my wanting to get vindication for this thread/all participants - take it to the Senior's thread please and stop ruining this thread.

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 24-7-2012 01:22 ]

Let's all play nice and enjoy our time here...would that be okay?

Don't see why not....unless somebody knows something I don't??!!
SEAJ

Beats me SEAJ....I am actually quite confused sometimes on what's going on here.

Anyways I personally find this thread informative, fun, thought-provoking, a good place to rant and even make useless comments (sometimes)...just want this to continue.

BTW, I just made a post on the "Biggest Bang for your Buck!" regarding your request for the tale of my experience on why my punting life curtailed.

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... page%3D1&page=5



And YAYYYYY!!!!! I just made LL!

So you only write for karma, only contributing if you can get something in return?  Are virtual numbers so important to you that it'll stop you contributing to a thread that you once loved?

Just do what you like and forget about the rest! In life, it would be impossible to makeeveryone happy. My motto is that if you managed to make one person happy, you gotit right! There is no need to make everyone happy or explain yourself to everyone!

The secret to success is not make everybody happy, because if you try, you will be doomed to failure.

Nothing is perfect....we can try all we want, but in the end there will always be 2 sides to everything. Life is too complicated to be perfectly perfect!

What is the name of the billiards game played on an over-sized pool table with a bunch of red balls (also some regular looking balls).  Can someone explain it basically to me?

This is not the game where the table has posts in it.  That game also uses a bunch of red balls (and is confusing to me).

I went to a billiards club tonight in Zhuhai where they had these tables, and I don't want to be a total noob next time.  Fortunately tonight I brought a couple of girls who did not know how to play at all, so I taught them 9 ball on a regular table.

The game you refer to is snooker.  You can google the rules.  But..., if you expect to play with newbie girls stick to an 8-ball/9-ball sized table.  The longer distances and tiny holes on a snooker table make it quite a bit harder - your gals will get frustrated quickly.