As much as I hate to admit it, you're right mostly. It's like a power struggle. She knows that I will do anything for her to dress up and very very rarely she will and boy will we have a nice evening.
About your experience with the PRC, my gf, also a PRC offered to shave her pubic one day which was a huge surprise for me. She did that willingly and we had a very nice playtime thereafter. Lots of pics and vids taken of that evening and of course a re-introduction to her LS. Thankfully she is very aware of her armpits (someone needs to educate the 1.3 billion about this) and does that every time I'm there. We also had a permanent hair removal done and it's very effective. Additionally, her bikini area is very naturally sparse and trim, thank goodness for that.
Adding to the related story, I once had a romp on the side and took a KTV lady (PRC) for a few days. She was very petite and hot and when I asked the mamasan if she 'goes out', the answer was a flat "No". I trust this mamasan because I had been very generous towards her. Challenge accepted! So I took this girl out as a challenge and managed to get her to bed very quickly. When I saw her bush, OMG
she was as bushy as it comes!!! I literally couldn't see skin!!! It was an immediate turn off although I knew that the opportunity to screw her was fleeting. LB lost interest. I immediately called a local salon for a bikini wax and props should be given to me for convincing her to go brazillian! Of course that came with a price, took her shopping, bought her a nice pair of heels, tight skirt (all for that evening of showing off to the work mates). After the salon appointment, she was obviously in pain (visible from the way she staggered) from the waxing. Took her back to the hotel to inspect and my ohhh my.... LG emerged like a Virgin rainforest bulldozed for a new playground. The fun began! She was so tender down there that it was itself stimulating for her. Plus the newly cleared bush and skin was so smooth and sweet smelling... What added to the excitement was the satisfaction that she was willing to do it
That evening was great. She was the focus of the evening and another couple nights of nice romp at the newly cleared playground. Should have kept her number...