Just wondering what are the chances of marrying and ex WG in china, with all the beauties taking the chance of making the quick buck.
Wouldnt the odds be pretty high especially if she was a looker.  I mean, in all fairness, who wouldnt want a sweet, loyal, caring, beautiful wife?  

I guess that doesnt really matter as I too will be a soon to be husband who will still continue to punt, I guess in life we must bare the cost of indulgence (which will cum in many forms) to be happy.  I am happy to say that I am able to except the past and not judge people for their actions.  If she was in her past (WG), I can except that.  

From what my bros say, it is not because I am easy going but that I am in denile.  After 4 years of being together, I have not had any suspicious thoughts with her.  There are no signs of LV, diamond studded shoes, she is a simple girl who I feel is commited to our future.  So, my bros are only stereo typing mainland girls.  

I know that she is devoted and commited to me only, if only I can be the same.....

littlebroatwork

It took me a few seconds to realize you meant 'denial', and no, I don't think you are in denial.

We've been through this topic before.

I don't see why you shouldn't marry her. The idea that WG's are any different from any other girl is ridiculous. They may, and in fact must, treat clients with a certain amount of insincerity, but you are not a client. These girls all want a decent life like anyone else. You want to know why these Mainland girls chose this profession, look no further than economics.

A lot of guys will ask how can you stand the idea of your wife having been with so many guys, but that's just hypocritical bullshit mixed with a lot of sexual insecurity. Sex is just sex, for Christ's sake.

You've known the girl for four years, so you certainly have a good idea of what kind of person she is. Base you decision on the girl, not her profession.

Thanks for your reply and pointing out the typo.

I agree!  What you say about the insecurity that people may have is very true.  Just wanted to share a glimspe of reality.  

Being born a canadian and learning to appreciate the values from different cultures, it is easier for me to except things, I guess...

I really feel that sometimes I may be too honest in my opinions and that in Hong Kong you need to keep certain things to yourself, even if they are your so called friends.  

littlebroatwork

Well now is ok, but wait till you two got married, a girl could change dramaticly if she is married. Especially chinese girls. 2 of my cousins and 3 good friends of mine experienced that before. When they were dating, the girl was sweet and innocent, but when they got married the girl changed into a bitch...1 cousin and 1 friend got divorced cause of that. Those others still are married but get pussy-whipped by those bitches ...

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accept

Personally it has a lot to do with the culture...................................

if you are contented and want a simple life without any of the luxuries in this world, go for it. Get married and start life as a farmer and make babies;

If you cannot forgo any of the things that you enjoy now; forgot about hitching with a WG; don't kid yourselves;

you think " have feelings drink water full" ??? be realistic; even a penny less you can't survive in this world ..........................................................

You say it depends on culture, then you give purely economic reasons for not marrying a working girl. But if money were the only concern, your advice would apply to any woman without financial resources.

Do you know something about littlebraotwork's financial situation that I don't.

In Chinese culture, does marrying a working girl mean one has to become a farmer? Do you mean to say the investment bank he works for would fire him if they learned of his future wife's former profession?

There you have it littlebroatwork, either you stay single and continue to work for Goldman Sachs, or marry the girl and begin your new life growing onions in Shandong. The choice is yours.

sorry man posted to the right thread haha.

If you do decide to marry, you should be very discrete about your wife's past. The Chinese can be very rigid in their ideas of what is and isn't proper. Of course, I wouldn't tell my relatives either, just to avoid future problems. People can be very forgiving until some little conflict arises, and then they drag up every thing the can think of to use against you.

          

Bro,  your message #8 is the same one you posted to the ... 'slowest night of the week thread'. I think you've put it in this thread as well by mistake.
Maybe you've just had a good night out.      

in response to your comment...

I can relate with what you said about them former working girls being very sweet in the beginning but that kinda applies to all marriages regardless.  A very high percentage of marriages don't work out in hong Kong, something like 60% -70% of all marriages end up in a divorce within the first 2 years.

For all the bros who left a comment, I think I have to clear something up.  My original post was intended to be just a thought.

My beautiful wife (soon to be) is from the mainland and not a working girl, I only went a little bit further in terms of opening up a discussion for all the bros to wonder.  If we were to meet and a formal introduction was made between our spouses, my wife is a hottie from the mainland, would you think of her as a chicken?

I am only dwindling on my thought and I think I have more or less answered my question.  It is only natural to think of a beautiful lady from the mainland is most likely a chicken if you are in Hong Kong or Asia.  If I bring her back to Canada, well I guess I'm just a MAC!!!

littlebroatwork

Thank you for the advice.

After 6 years of working with the locals here, I feel that I have learned alot about the way people think in Hong Kong.  I also believe that some stones are better left unturned.  

Just for the record, I am very confident that her past is (in your words) proper.  At least she can be honest about hers, on the other hand, mine needs to be that unturned stone...

littlebroatwork

WTF! So your first post was all bullshit, or you regret making it? Whatever the case, you've lost my respect bro.

Is that Father Abel from Trinity Blood?

You have trust issues dude. I'm sure you think she's a great person now, but you wonder what she was like in her past?

Meet her family, meet her friends, look at some old photos. Find out what she'd been up to before she met you four years ago. Time doesn't just vanish. If you really want to, I'm sure you'll be able to find out about her past. And put your insecurities to rest.

Mars, don't be too hard on the guy. When I read his message, although I didn't fully understand it, I did get the impression
that he was asking a hypothetical question and not that he knew his gal was, or had been, a WG. I think he's just worried
about what others think. And lets be honest, if we see a gorgeous Asian chick with a dorky gweilo, what do we all think?  
littlebroat, I'm not saying you're dorky, but you know what I mean. Hell, if you've been together for 4 years, I'm sure you
know what she is by now and I wouldn't worry about it. Put it out of your mind - if you've found a great gal to marry you,
don't screw it up with unfounded suspicions.    

allow me to explain;

in simple words, it means be realistic;

if anyone think that a WG will marry you for love, you are dreaming

From his original post, he seemed to be worried that his girl might have turned tricks in the past, and he wanted a bit of assurance that even if that were the case, after four years, he now knew the girl well enough to be certain she was a good person and would make a good wife. Very noble sentiments.

Then he turns around and says he was just throwing out the topic to get us all thinking, and that he knows his girl is just a nice, proper young lady.

I think he's playing games with us and himself. Pretty insincere, if you ask me. I don't like being jerked around like that.

It's a cynical view but in my years of experience, I'd say it's probably true. At least, the chance of it being true is way too
high to risk it - no matter how you feel about the gal. No. 1 rule of mongering - never fall for a WG.

To be realistic, all categorical statements like 'all x are y' when applied to people, are always wrong. To say that 'all WG's are incapable of love' is just the same kind of dumb stereotype as 'all black people are stupid' or 'all Thais are lazy'. Anyone who cares about the impression they make on others, would be well advised to avoid such assertions.

Beyond the logical considerations, what you say is completely contrary to common sense. The idea that as soon as a girl accepts money for sex, she suddenly changes into some different kind of human being incapable of love is so bizarre, I cannot understand how you can believe it.

I know that you've had a few experiences that have given you this impression, but to then apply that to all others is a mistake.