I've had a lot of WGs that became girl friends ... and yes it always comes down to money which is fine and good
but I've never been hit with requests in the half million region - no where close ...
not even in the crezy cash rich days of the early-mid 90's
They tried to hit you for 500k and multiples of ????
This sounds to me you're going out with 'super class' girls ... movie star type ?
my uneducated guess is - you are a criminal lawyer !!!