thanks guys

[ Last edited by  Mike123 at 21-2-2009 06:44 ]

No, I'm sure she's a good family girl who hangs around bars because neither her parents nor her teachers understand her. She's looking for true love and is likely a virgin who thought she was going to 7-11 and entered the wrong door. Treat her kindly.

Just go fuck her already and be done with it brother!

she wont let me, thats my problem. if she's a hooker, then what the hell is wrong with her?

Just ask her straight out to come home with you. If she's a "good girl" she'll walk off, and if not then you start negotiating the price. No good wasting time, bro. If she won't fuck, dump her and get someone else.

she wants to marry you..

If she was a hooker she'd already have asked you to take her home ...

Sounds to me like she's a genuine girl who
  - wants to look demure in front of her friends
  - but likes you and wants to f**k you dry
  - and wants you to fall in love with her first

Yes, she's probably looking for a long term relationship, and yes, she almost certainly wants you to marry her and hand over your wallet.  That's the cultural norm in Philippines btw - the women handle the money - so nothing unusual about that.  But in between her expectations and yours there is room for play, she knows she can't hold onto you without giving you what you want first.  

She's probably also getting her friends to check up on you every time you go out, to get a feel for how much you play and what you say to other girls.  

If you like her, romance her, there's a good chance you could get a lot of free sex.  Always remember your own objectives though: watch your wallet, your fertility, your ring finger, and stay safe!  

That is why it is always better to pay for sex.  At least then there are no misconceptions, lies, having to try to figure out if the timing is right or not, does yes mean yes or does no mean yes and the only real question is, you on top or me on top.

I personally wouldn't bother.  I don't think dating the sort of girl who hangs around bars in wan chai is going to do anything except lighten your wallet bigtime.

Don't bother falling in love with her.

if you want to find real love, then date your work colleague like i do or date a proper girl (i.e non wg).

Otherwise u r just asking for trouble bigtime.

Just for balance:- I did hang out with a WanChai girl for abt 6 months once - had a great time and my wallet was intact throughout.  

Not true of all cases of course.  You do have to stay in charge.

totally true ... but that can get boring too ... sometimes the hunt is the fun part ...

it sounds like she wants a long term relationship...if this is what you are looking for great!  if not, play her out and see if she will leave with you...

tell her straight up that you are not ready for a relationship, but would like to hang out and have a good time with her...if she is willing...then SCORE!  

if not, you can either play her out and see if she allows or just move on.

if she is a good girl though, be nice and treat her as you would like to be treated!

I agree with the bro's comments.  She is unlikely to be a WG otherwise you would have been reminiscing about good times by now!

She's probably wondering the same thing about you.

Quote her a price after the next time you service her in the bar and see what happens.

I take it you mean how much she should pay bro Mike?  

Exactly.

And bro Mike - please ask her to post a report.