Dear all,

I've never have sex before so this is my first time. Yesterday I called papa to make an appointment with a cute girl, but I arrived the hotel before the appointment (I don't know it's near to me when I called papa) So.. I called papa and said that I arrived. He told me if I want to see the another girl. I thought that's alright, so I said yes and went to her room.

After a few knock on the door, the door opened and a cute girl hid back the door. Wow ok, I said to papa. She attacked me with the french kiss and I took her clothes off. We played in the bathroom, she made a fantastic BJ.(my bro. erect hard but I was not feel to orgasm, just feel good) After that I lied on th bed and she did the BJ again. When I made a signal she wear the condom with her mouse.
and put it in her....... What the heck!! I felt nothing. She did this with too many western so her sis is loose? (I'm asian, my bro is not big as the western's). After changing many positions, i still felt nothing. She is very nice, she try to help me with the BJ again. But my bro didn't erect anymore.
What the heck!!(again)

please tell me, what is the problem
1. I went to bed very late night 5 days in a roll
2. Her pussy is too loose
3. I didn't work out for a long time
4. My health is not good enought (I am 26 years old, 170cm  80 kg)
5. I was too exited (She is my first girl)

Welcome to the forum !!!

Your first problem is you posted this in the wrong section !

Your second problem is you didn't tell us which girl you're talking about !

Your third problem is you should not let a mouse wear the condom !

Your fourth problem is beleiving a HG does more Westerners then locals !

Your fifth problem is because you're a 26 year old virgin ... you're too old not to worry about not performing !

I will add to twice's comments:

You need to know HGs pre-lube themselves before customers.  Regardless of westerners or locals. there are people that are thicker or longer and they pretty much have to lube up to prepare for the multiple poundings daily.

Depending on the HG, if she has been working for a while, it is possible her pussy gets loose, which adds onto the pre-lube.

I'm very sory posting in the wrong section.
The girl is not in this site

Why I shouldn't let her wear the condom to me with her mouse? (Because the condom may be torn?)
How's about the BJ. You all wear the condom before BJ or not? You kiss the girl or not?
I may too clumsy about sex, please teach me

Don't know, but maybe you got the cat and mouse thing all mixed up.  When you say "mouse", are you referring to the woman's pussy (i.e. her vagina)?  If yes, then use the condom when entering "her mouse".  Or, do you mean "mouth" instead of "mouse", i.e. she used her mouth to put the condom on your small bro???

I think twice may be joking with you.  It is rather common for WGs to put a condom in her mouth and then use it to hold the condom onto your penis head by suction and then rolling it over you either by hand or by pushing down with the mouth.  The key word is "mouth", not "mouse" -- as in a rat.

I personally go for safety so I always have my BJs with a condom.  I know it does not feel as good etc but I minimize the difference by brining my own condoms (002 or 003) instead of the standard issue HG condoms.

It is OK to ask questions but also would be good to read up on the FAQs on this forum and on the Chinese forum.  We are all here to help maximize experiences.

Dude,

First you need to calm down.  When you go to visit a girl you have to be relaxed.  Do not get over excited.  Second, as this is your first experience with a girl your claim that her vagina was loose does not hold much water.  The looseness may in fact be accounted for the small size of your penis, and the thickness of the condom that was provided for you.  Your failure to ejaculate was caused by a combination of your obesity, your small penis size, the thick condom, and your over excitedness.  This is common so think nothing of it.

I would recommend that first your try to loose some weight, this will improve your performance.  Second, the next time try to find a girl that is young, 18 or so, and petite, very petite.  Third, buy your own condoms, sized for your small penis, and thin.  The Japanese make several brands that are wonderful in all these respects.  Check your local 7/11.  Forth, when you make your return visit,  be relaxed and calm.  Do not allow the girl to get you too excited with her actions.  You are paying, you are in charge.  Remember that you have already banged a chick, so this is old stuff, this is nothing out of the ordinary.  When you are banging the goal is to ejaculate, to help in this do not think of your parents or your sisters, think of maybe a movie star you like.  Finally, to help in your ejaculation do not masturbate before you visit the girl, maybe cut back to four or five times a day one week in advance then each following day masturbate one less time, so that three days prior to your visit you are not masturbating any more.  By doing this you will increase the amount of seamen in your testicles.

I think if you follow the above advise you will have a much more fulfilling second visit to a prostitute.  Good luck and let us know how it goes, we are rooting for you.

eh...is it just me or are you assuming he's obese.....i dno about you, but i think the less fit you are (nonmuscle mass) the faster you go? there's some guys I know at 170cm and 80kg who aren't OBESE mate.....

Maybe I'm just sensitive because I'm 190cm and over 100kg....But people have tried recruiting me for rugby and football. so....

Anyway....
as to your question Newbie *(Sorry forgot your name), bring your own condoms, they can make a HUGE difference.
I personally:
Put one on before she starts a BJ
change it aftr BJ and before I go between her legs.

I tend to think it is all in his head.  Being out of shape makes you go faster, not slower and I do not think he is that seriously obese.  I happen to be 178cm and 88kg and I do not think those metrics hurt my mongering performance nor satisfaction.

I do agree that he mainly needs to bring his own condoms and to learn to relax with the girl.  Hyper nervousness would kill any bodily instincts to get the tool ready and then anxiety sets in and then just a downward spiral...

I wonder if he could bring an adult video (may have to bring his own player) to help him relax and focus on the fun aspects.

Picturing the mouse comment had me laughing away. Guess our friend here just needs more practice and needs to relax a bit. Stress can be a huge factor.

How did you find this girl then ?

Teach you ? I think you're fuking with us !!!

Moving this thread to Q & A

Hi Date Hunting

I had similar experience to you when I first visited a 'walk in' WG, I had no problems having sex with gf, last relatively well under my control but she is on pills and I am used to bare back sex. When I first lost my 141 V-plate it was such horrible experience, losing hard-on after momentary penetration, it is even worse when she recovers your hard-on and you lose it again, extremely humiliating and embarassing!

I do agree that they could be loose, but i certainly agree with bringing some 0.02 or 0.03 johnnies, give it a try! Good luck mate

Well - put it down to experience.  Practise makes perfect, and I guess now you have more opportunity to practise now.  not as if you can become a virgin again...keep practising!  

man you just have to relax! may be you think too much during that moment and its like youre expecting too much from her? You have to do your assignment then.. like check some reports about the girl you that you plan to do and see to it that they are tight, pretty and etc... hahaha

Hey Twice!

  Bad day? I always felt you had a strong tendency to give the benefit of the doubt. Actually I was always quite impressed how far you took "freedom of speech" at heart in this forum. Sometimes when I read posts I imagine the sweat production building up across your face and am amazed about how you either cooled situations down, changed the topic or gave the benefit of the doubt. This is the first time I had the feeling you might really have been put in a average to bad mood :-)

Relax bro!

Thank you very much for all comments. i'm try to think that it's becouse of her loose pussy.
but the problem is i don't think she can make me ejeculate with BJ either. T.T

Oh, i posted the wrong. I'm 177 cm + 80 kg. And.... My bro. length is around 5 inch, too small???

don't you smell something rotten in Denmark ?

Well I guess you have more experience than me smelling dodgy things around here. But no.. I could not detect anything obviously rotten Or maybe I am just in a better mood than usual.

This thread has quickly degenerated into an episode of Dr Phil.