dear all i have an experience now,i go to meet a  chic which is working in 141 hotel reservations list in this pass weeks and i do it with her at that time..and i found out that i have fall in love with her due to meeting each other in out side, i mean we have been friends,we see each other almost for 6 to 7 times,without doing any thing...just go out to have dinner or just walk around,i know you guys maybe thinking that i am stupid to fall in love with her,i am also thinking that should i stop for this thing...i have release a lot of money just to make her happy,what i can say is I dont care what she is doing right now...i tried to court her, and i told her what do i feel, i also told her the question " Can you be my Boo",she didnt answer that question, all she said to me is let time show everything,she told me we just can be friends at the moment,guys can you give me some advice...

Hang on, I remember you still have to write a report on Siu S

So before we answer your questions, lets have a look at your report first .... or is she the
one you think you're in love with ?

Meetin each other in and outside.......can u elaborate more....at what hours??
Want to learn something from you...

uhmmmm.............

Got some questions?

1/ What do she feel about you and her relationship?
2/ Did you ever ask her to quit this job or till when is she will be working on it?
3/ Did she do this job by force or willing to earn FAST money?
4/ Did you really ask yourself if you do love her or just like her, due to GF feels?

If all questions are sorted, will you be willing to surport her on the living and educate her to learn other things for a living.

It's not a bad thing to be falling in love with a WG, unless you won't mind of the job she's working right now...... I mean in the future..... you might think of her past job and some of us who had been with her might know who she was when walking in the street ..... hope you won't mind what I'm saying, coz this might happen

YOU BETTER THINK MORE CLEAR ON THIS QUESTIONS 1ST

never fell in love with any WG
had some serious crushes on a few in Korea
i was in the army at a very young age
back then not many youngsters like today
got stationed in korea
my first WG were in the ville just off Young San
had some great tutors also
the guys in our tech shop
the boss took all of us down the first friday after each payday
AND HE BOUGHT EVERY MAN THAT WORKED FOR HIM A BLOW JOB AT LUNCH TIME
god
the good old days
but there were a few young girls about my age
had some serious cruches
but most of them either feel fasinated or frightened by the fact that i had two
hahahaha

the report will be post soon dont worry...

mostly we meet each other in night time, we go out for dinner...

1/ she have told me that she dont want to think it a t the moment,but i can feel that it will posible to have a relation with me because she also told me that when she will go back to china she will live that phone number to me,and she also promised me that we will go to her hometown to meet her parents. she also told me that she was scared that maybe i just lie to her...
2/not yet i will tell her soon
3/i did not ask her regarding that question.
4/i can say is even now i dont know... but due to meeting her i dont feel the GF feel...

Guys give me an advice please!

I am really very flattered that you think so highly of my opinion that you are willing to govern your love-life based on what I say. But I know nothing about you or the girl, and you don't know anything about me - so maybe you should make up your own mind. You don't want some stranger telling you who to love, do you?

In any case, you will get two different opinions in this thread. One will tell you that a WG is no different than any other girl; the other will tell you never to trust a WG.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 16-1-2008 12:40 ]

I'll give you some advice bro, based on 27 years experience with hundreds of Asian WGs - walk away and don't look back.

Yes, there's a small chance that things would work out with this gal but the odds are stacked against it. Why take the
chance and risk screwing up your life. The world is full of fantastic girls who don't resort to prostitution to make a living.

WGs are for short-time fun and sexual pleasure bro, not for long-term relationships leading to possible marriage. Walk away.

Go ahead and have a fun relationship with her, you don't care about money so...keep her happy and bonk her when you can.  Whatever you do just don't think about marrying her.  If you are thinking about this or when she begins to think this then you need to have a cold shower.

Miguel22 is talking about falling in love with this gal - I think it's too late for a  ... 'fun relationship'. Time to make a break or it'll just get
more and more difficult.

It's arrogant, irresponsible and ignorant to think that any of us here are qualified or wise enough to offer advice to a perfect stranger on who he should or shouldn't love. I would hesitate to council my best friend on marriage, and this is a guy who has written 30-40 words in an anonymous forum. I cringe at the idea that this guy might go out and act on the advice he receives here.

And miguel22, if you let these guys sway you, one way or the other, you need to grow some balls.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 23-6-2009 15:18 ]

You have 2 ah?????

I don't agree. When it comes to WGs, I think we're the best people in the world to give advice.       
Tell me, who's better qualified than us?    

In the country of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.

Being more qualified than everyone else, doesn't make you qualified.

Totally agree with you Jake.  Whores are whores are whores.

There are just too many factors to worry about.  I won't even list them because it would take my whole workday.  Like you said before, there is a plethora of girls out there who are NOT prostitutes for him to fall in love with.  You pay one way or another but putting your heart into a WG is a lose-lose situation.  Chances of it working out?  I would say one in a million, and I am being generous.

Miguel:

I have seen these whores in action.  It is just not worth the risk.  Tell you a story about a girl named May.  Worked at an AMP/Whorehouse here in NYC.  I had a great rapport with her, we were really good friends and she told me about this sushi chef who was in love with her.  They (WGs) know the game well and know the way to a man's heart if he is stupid enough to let her.  She retired from the business for a few months and married him.  I bumped into her and she invited me up to her house for tea.  We banged the whole afternoon on his bed while he was cutting up raw fish at work.

She continued to work at a small AMP far away from her "husband" without him realizing it.  I visited her frequently and always had fun.

3 years later she received her greencard and divorced him.  Sent for her real husband and kid in China immediately.  Went back to the AMP to work full time until her family came to the States.

It has been over 7 years now and I occasionally see her and her family having tea in Chinatown once in a while.  She still works at an AMP (disguised as a legitimate tui na place).  Same prices and I still bring my own condom whenever I get a massage from her.  

She tells me that the money is just too good to give up.  Used to making 4-6k USD monthly, there was no way she was going to work a 16 hour day/ 6 days a week job for a measly 2000 dollars a month if she is lucky.

This is only one of my experiences with whores fucking up guys who fall in love with them.  Out of the 20+ situations that I know of, personal and impersonal, not one of them worked out.

Simply put, you just can not trust hoes!

How can you possibly say such a thing?! So you know for a fact that less than one in a million WG's would make a good wife. I would be embarrassed to make such a claim. It always amazes me to hear people throw statistics around as if they knew what the hell they were talking about. Since you cannot possibly know this, all you are expressing is a prejudice about WG's.

It is precisely because of people with such irrational biases as this, that miquel22 should not turn to a forum for advice.

I have had a relationship with 3 French girls. All of the relationships turned out badly (this is a fact). Therefore my advice is never, under any circumstances, get involved with French girls, because 100% of all French women on the face of the earth are selfish bitches.

Then where else can he go for some sound advice?  We are all mongers here.  Combined, we probably have more than a million experiences, personal and impersonal.  Hell, Jake is one of the older ones and probably is in the top ten in total WG experiences and I would think he had at least 1000 experiences, on and off the court.  I myself at the tender age of 32 have seen more than most men in their lifetimes.  I don't care what anyone says.

QUOTE ME!  I DON'T CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS!

I know enough to tell my fellow brothers to NOT go there with WGs.

Even the suckers who did marry WGs and other counterparts who think that their marriages are good, etc...  they don't see the other half of the situation.  A whore is a whore is a whore.

I am giving advice as a brother.  We are a community here.  I know it is a touchy subject and lots of us do not want to voice our opinions but I feel it is my duty to steer Miguel away from this danger.  You want to throw him in the fire?  Go ahead!  But I am voicing my opinion and advice that Miguel solicited.