Sigh, staff being stalked, was alerted to the following messages this morning - all four copied in full.
1.Hi there, Arabella.
You have a lovely name. I remark upon it because that is you have set yourself to private and, other than how nice you look, it's all that I can say.
Anyway... I was browsing music and film people and, several steps removed, I came across this profile:
http://www. myspace. com/katiyana84
In it, she posts a blog that features a message sent to her. It's more than a bit complimentary.
It does repeat itself and the sender can't spell, but I'd love to know why you left the comment that you did. Weirdo? How come?
I posted a comment, which I doubt will be approved (as she has set it so that comments must be), to essentially say that its far better that he be complimentary than violent / abusive.
Women wonder why so many men are bastards and most don't do enough. I reckon there is no excuse for not treating the lady, with whom you are in a relationship, like a lady. That said, women need to demand more.
If men see women as treating care, attention and such decency as though it were worth nothing, psycho or that men who thought romantically were weirdos, then those men would never bother.
Women can't have it both ways. You can't expect men not to be bastards if you will not encourage them to be thoughtful and decent.
That guy's message sounds like teen / university angst, but his heart is in the right place!
I don't know him, have no vested interest in him, the poster of the blog or yourself, but I just wanted to say hello and hope that you cut folk a little more slack.
The guy probably came to realise that it's better to regret what you have said than what you haven't, saw someone whom he found beautiful and just threw out his thoughts.
You may not have experienced it, but the sight of a beautiful person can send someone a bit mad - which would explain his incoherence.
There's a lot of shit going on, in the world, without us condemning people for honest emotion.
Believe it or not, love at first sight does exist and people can still be in love after 30 years, let alone 3.
But... you'll probably dismiss me as a weirdo too.
I'm not. I'm just someone who cares.
Have a good rest of your day!
John X
2. 08 Jul 2008,
11:59
It seems that you did not receive my last message, so here is another copy: [Above Message Resent]
3.16 Jul 2008,
09:24
It seems that you did not receive my last message, so here is another copy: [A third time...]
4. 23 Jul 2008,
17:12
It seems that you did not receive my last message, so here is another copy: [Fourth...]
