also if the girl uses too much ky, you don't feel anything and I start to loose it and cannot even cum

I actually last about 5 to 10 the first time in the day and 15 to 30 minutes for the second nut.  I always do the working girl after jerking off earlier.  No point in paying money for a fast lay.  But it mostly depends on the girl.  I had one of the sexiest girls before but bad attitude prevents cuming.  I had a girl who made me mad and i pumped away for 1 hour just because she pissed me off.  I kept thinking of unsexy thoughts to make her work for it.  But a cute girl who is nice and enjoys it can make me go in 10 to 15 minutes.  Its all about the service.  Bad technic is a turn off too.

For me, it just depends on the situation. I have no trouble cumming in 5 minutes with a hot massage girl's hands around me, if she's acting sexy.

But last Saturday, I spent literally 4 hours making love with a girl (civvie, not reportable here), of which probably only about 45 minutes was "hydraulics" (3x in total). The rest was other kinds of body-play - bj/daty/dato, erotic massage, etc.

So the bottom line is: Pumping/bj is probably the best way to get to orgasm quickly, but maybe not the best way to make the enjoyment of sex last a long time. But tough to find that kind of connection with an "hourly" girl.

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Glad to see everyone chip in their two cents on their sexual longevity!

Rather than reply to each post individually I'll do it all in one go here:

1) marathon fitness definitely does not equate to sexual longevity. I ran 3 full marathons across 3mths, all about 4hr duration, yet I can't hold my cum for longer than 8mins with my wife in the very safe and standard slow missionary position!!! Hahaha

2) having a hot girl touch you up and make you feel sexy sure helps accelerate the feeling and cum. I have tried to jack off before going, but it only prolongs the enjoyment by afew mins, but the 2-3x time extension some have enjoyed! Damn...

3) conversely, a girl with seriously lubed up vagina is so slick that you don't feel any friction. At that point I'm thinking "why bother?" And end up either flaccid or just want to quickly get it over and done with. If you're not enjoying it, why would one want to prolong it?

4) thanks for the tip about having a hybrid-cialis tablet. How much are they and are there any side effects? I heard from WGs that they can tell who took a viagra: blue lips and it gets painful after 10-15mins and still rock hard. They don't enjoy it much after that (of course, only a small sample size I asked). I am intrigued to try, but don't want to give tell-tale signs to my wife that I'm having side dishes!