Subject: What do you do in this situation?
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Post at 3-6-2010 22:09  Profile P.M. 
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I probably would have said something like "If I knew you had the same hobby we could go out mongering together earlier"
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Reply #17 geoduck's post

hmmm... since i don't have any sisters then i don't really know what i would do. i can tell you that i'll probably be more scared of him telling my family what i do then him being scared of me telling my sister.
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I know my brother in law mongers because he ask me if i like to go with him in the past.....this was before i started to monger myself.
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Thanks for all the advice brothers! I guess there's more mongering amongst our friends and family than we can imagine, so its not a surprise to bump into someone from time to time. I won't go as far as 3 or 4P but I guess sharing info would be good, and maybe a Dongguan trip, as its safer in numbers.
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Two questions: Are you related at all?  Does he have a hot wife?  There is always swinging.  Then you won't have to pay!
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You must now know how it feels to be a nuclear power!
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Reply #26 conqueror's post

i don't get this statemment
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Reply #25 pandaboy's post

This is probably the craziest question to ask any Chinese guy.  Although I am sure there are Chinese swingers, I sincerely doubt the percentage is remotely close to minuscule.  I wouldn't fuck another person's wife unless he was a total stranger which I have done before.
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That is one of the reason why I have stopped doing walk-ups and only visit HGs. I'm more worried about bumping into a work colleague than a family member.
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Reply #29 Goose's post

You're the boss ... just put out a notice/warning in your office and forbid anyone to visit walk ups !  
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by yeah9911 at 1-6-2010 19:07
I had the unfortunate experience of bumping into a family friend during a mongering trip at one of those walk ups. We both were unaware of each others mongering ways and therefore it was very awkward. ...

well, to begin with... what are the chances of this person having a presence here at 141? Now THAT would be interesting!

does this person have as much to lose as you? similar situation? if you share "similar circumstances" forget about it, he'll keep his mouth shut. If on the other hand, you are the family man with 2 kids and he is the young single bachelor type... potentially a little more complicated.

Another thing I would consider is how well do I know him? for example, if we are good friends, no drama. However if he is just an acquaintance, if he gets caught, you don't want to get pulled in to the same problem.

in other words, it really depends on various circumstances.
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Post at 7-6-2010 19:24  Profile P.M. 
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would be so damn awkward, or you say I saw you on the street and followed you to say hi and do as if you dont know what kind of place it is.

Also wonder if you know he is cheating on someone by doing this or not.
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