damn! the fact that she still asked you out despite knowing you already have an SO already means she wants you! if she didnt want to have anything to do with a married man, she would have told you outright. she probably just doesnt want to be the one to initiate sex so she doesnt feel guilty after sleeping with you! ask her out again!

Got that right!  Wander may need to take the initiative as he obviously seems to be the top candidate for being the "rebound sex guy".  Lucky dude.  May take another phone call and some more drinks but you should well be along the way...

So what are your wan chai plans this weekend???

I was devastated this morning, I could not be bothered with it this weekend. I totally forgot their was a dancing competition in Bar 109

I am going in early Sunday for lunch then 109 around half 1 I think! Unfortunately I have to work all day Saturday so I will notbe doing much on the Friday, debating a trip to Macau or Shekou....

Probably best to make your plans thru pm so that your plans are not known to a much bigger audience ....

Invisibledog: You are probably right, but not necessarily. Girls think differently to guys. I love them. The way they move. Their smells. The subtle things that drive every testerone-fueled guy crazy. But, I have given up trying to understand them. What they hear is not always what was said.  And even if they heard the words, in their mind, ''never'' doesn't necessarily mean ''never''.  
As long as they have control over your little head which ultimately controls the bigger one, then they always have that window.
If wander's girl is half as crazy as some of the wanchai girls I've chased, she's probably picking out her wedding dress even as we speak.

To InvisibleDog and Bohica...,

You can be sure I wasted little time in letting her know I hope to fuck her brains out...  she still played the "good girl" and wouldnt accept out-right.., but then asked me out dancing on Wednesday shortly thereafter....

It's a game..., keeping guys on her leash, and she is a super-hottie, so she's played it her entire life with a million men drooling over her.  I will invest one more date, ply her with a few drinks, and take a direct shot for the net.  If she's still plays her good-girl game fine.., I'll move on and let some other guy get blue-balls over her.  We'll see tmrw nite.  (and at the very least on the dance floor I am finally going to get my hands on those wonderful tits of her.., I'm dying to find out if they are real or not!)

I'm glad this story is still updated, was just surfing around on the forum and saw that this thread is still on the first page... you're seriously a lucky SOB after such a crazy story they still invite you back to the penthouse and stuff

good read...look forward to hearing more

As TD pointed out so well - there is no figuring out women!  We go out and have some drinks.  She tells me point blank - "I don't look good naked".  Ummm, okay.., let me be the judge of that!  Such a great opening from her  I figure I got it made. But  5 minutes later - we can only be friends.  5 minutes later - grind on dance floor (with a nice grope on her lovely tits to sooth my mind).  5 minutes later - she needs to go.  5 minutes later - "I want to spend my time with you".  WTF!!??!!  Insanity!

Yeah - this is another reason we punt..., so much frickn more straightforward!!  

I have no doubt now I can bang her if I move at her skitzoid pace and direction - but I just can't be bothered!  

....On the other hand... Those tits were awesome!  Hehehe.. Maybe one more attempt?!

The words that make most men's dicks go soft: ''I want to spend my life with you''. Does your child have a pet rabbit by any chance?

Have patience you are more than 60% there.  Or maybe you are so unaccustomed tobeing patient this seems like a big waste of time.


I was at LKF with some friends who are single and much younger maybe mid twenties to almost 30.   They would find a girl or two in the club and small chitchat nonsens.for 3hrs....WITH NO MOVE forward!   I kept thinking they would go for something butno!  At one point I asked one of the guys.....I don't get it, this is not going anywhere it looks like he has zero chance of hooking up with this girl, why are these guys wasting so much time???

He said it's a long term strategy....they exchange numbers....keep in touch...maybe after a few get togethers......UGH!   WHO HAS TIME FOR THIS NONSENSE!

Maybe cuz I'm older, I'm busy, my time is more valuable to me, I cant imagine goingthru that process.

But the sad thing is, Wander is already further along then these single guys....

Yeah Brother MCHK, it is an effort - and I put a lot of effort in pleasing my WGs regulars - but I know the payoff is 100% guarranteed!  I do like the thrill of the chase and inching ever closer to the net - but man.., some chicks are like the Enigma Machine:  you need a fucking decoder ring to figure 'em out.  

With this one my plan is stop the chase completely - make her think I've lost interest.  Let her chase me for a bit if she wishes...  (I've always found this works wonders for those chicks that are stuck in neutral).

In the interim - I screwed a civvie last nite!  Funny things is, I thought she was a WG and that I had screwed her before.  Wrong and wrong.  Haha.  We did recognize each other andd she came right to me in LKF.  I bought some drinks, we went dancing in WanChai, but I couldn't really recall where I knew her from.  After a few hours of serious groping and DFK'ing she clearly realized I had the wrong idea and actually asked me: "do you think we've fucked before?".  "Ummm, haven't we?".  "Noo!  I know thru xxxx (a civvie friend)."

Shite!  "Well, we need to fix that". Hehehe.  Back to groping and DFK'ing.  A good screw too - very, very horny ('course, my hand rubbing her crotch all nite probably helped get her in the mood).

Seems like something straight out of the pages of penthouse.  Nice story.  With civvies, you need to be extra careful and selective.  All you need is one pissed off civvies who sees you on the train with your wife and your world comes crashing down.  Fucking civviies is good for the ego, but it's best to stick to 1 or 2 civvies to limit your exposure when away from Nathan Rd and such; otherwise you spend too much time looking over your shoulder when out and about with SO and family. Having one civvie living in the same city is stressful enough.

The thing is - if I had thought she was a civvie I likely wouldn't have been quite so bold with the DFK'ing and my hands...  But because I WAS so forward I got her hornier than shit and she fucked the hell out of me!  Hmmmm, maybe I'll try this with that cute barista at Pacific Coffee I see every day!!  Haha.  Just pretend I have already fucked her and then act like it!

.....Hmmmmm.  And then I go to jail!  

....Again.   

Hehe

[ Last edited by  wander at 1-7-2011 13:42 ]

This has been fun to discuss, but I've now brought it totally off topic and totally off the point of this forum (WG adventures).  I'll drop it now.  Cheers.

came back to check on the updates hahaha, anyways... you shouldn't feel the need to drop the topic this post is in the monger section anyways... and your stories are quite entertaining