Subject: Dilemma - dating a WG
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Post at 3-4-2009 05:33  Profile P.M. 
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WG's ways and attitudes...

(deleted by tangoll to protect the WG's private matter)

I had also been seeing another WG (to add to hunter's comment above) in Fa Yuen street in MK.  Also got to know her in more than the normal customer-WG relationship, and got into the routine of meeting her for lunch, then up to her room.  But after I had told her that I made some money from selling condo units in Bangkok, she started asking me to fund some of her purchases -- a small refrigerator, Addidas sneakers, a Gucci bag, the latest Nokia mobile phone, then another because some punter stole that latest one, expensive herbal products from Manning's, a desktop computer for her 10 year old son, and a sofa for her flat.  She may be struggling financially, but one thing she knew well, was brand name goods.  The total amount of these purchases was not much, probably about $15K, but it was her attitude -- that whenever she saw me,  here was the opportunity to hit me for a few thousand dollars to get whatever she needed or wanted.  And I paid her the $500 in cash each time I saw her in her room as the official customer.  That sofa was the last straw and I have not called or seen her since.

I think the point is, if you're going to have an extra type of relationship with a WG, not much good can really come of it, and it will cost you big in some form -- money wise and/or emotionally wise, probably both.

[ Last edited by  tangoll at 23-4-2009 19:07 ]

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its ok to ask the WG out for lunch or dinner right? wouldn't mind some company since i'm on a solo trip
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by tangoll at 3-4-2009 05:33
I had also been seeing another WG (to add to hunter's comment above) in Fa Yuen street in MK.  Also got to know her in more than the normal customer-WG relationship, and got into the routine of meeting her for lunch, then up to her room.  But after I had told her that I made some money from selling condo units in Bangkok, she started asking me to fund some of her purchases -- a small refrigerator, Addidas sneakers, a Gucci bag, the latest Nokia mobile phone, then another because some punter stole that latest one, expensive herbal products from Manning's, a desktop computer for her 10 year old son, and a sofa for her flat.  She may be struggling financially, but one thing she knew well, was brand name goods.  The total amount of these purchases was not much, probably about $15K, but it was her attitude -- that whenever she saw me,  here was the opportunity to hit me for a few thousand dollars to get whatever she needed or wanted.  And I paid her the $500 in cash each time I saw her in her room as the official customer.  That sofa was the last straw and I have not called or seen her since.

Tangoll, Man I had a MK gal as well, same case as yours........same attitude, same gold digging type.   


I also pay her $500 per visit (thought for few hrs). Last I saw her is before CNY when I paid for her jacket and she did not pay back to me (usually she always give back the net after the $500 fee).
I CIM her twice that nite. Got dress and walk out that door, she sense that I was pissed bcos she rip me on that jacket. Well, I don;t mind paying premium to a WG if she is worth the price, but ripping and extorting me in such away make me feel like a fool / waterfish.... I walked out and tell her I will not see you again. Sometime it gets down to the attitude of the gal, they want $$$ too fast, not looking into long term......their big mistake!!!
She called a few times after that....I hang up on her.




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Reply #22 ksoz's post

Ksoz - if you're just passing through and on your own, of course you can try and ask a WG for lunch or dinner if they are just into meeting you as a NSA friend to talk/drink and not a walking ATM.   My thoughts are if she knows you're just passing through she will either decline (cuz they might think it's just a waste of time with nothing in it for them) or they will see if a nice traveller like you will splurge some money on them (buy something).  But I think I understand how you feel...its nice when travelling on your own to have a WG's company for lunch/dinner/drinks.  

tangoll - you must be a really nice guy with a sympathetic heart bro.  Good for you, not many people like you around, but need to be more cautious when things get beyond the regular fees especially when they are requesting it.  Good that you cut the rope when you did.  It's okay to give a gift once in a while to your favourite regular girl.

I had a short friendly relationship with a WG a while back.  It was a bit strange actually.  I visited her just a couple of times, then she stopped...and worked just on and off as a substitute.  After we did things like lunch, gym, MJ etc...I was sure I could have had "freebies", we went swimming once and we were all over each other.  in fact she was probably wondering why I didn't move forward with that.  But for whatever reason I didn't.  Later I lost her number...and I check once in  while if she's on the DB.  But throughout I never bought her anything, nor did she request or hinted at wanting me to buy something.
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Post at 3-4-2009 12:32  Profile P.M. 
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WG Baggage

No girl willingly chooses to become a WG; there's a financial need that makes them become one initially, and then they pick up all kinds of emotional baggage to go along with the financial one.  So if you take them on as your responsibility, you pick up all their financial/emotional baggage as well, and that's a heavy load.

(deleted by tangoll to protect the WG's private matter)

The WG from MK couldn't speak or read English, but she sure knew the brand names well -- Goochee,  the 3 stripe one (Adidas), Nookeeah,  ellu vee -- but they also knew enough to stay clear of the really expensive brands, like Channel, Bulgari or Hermes are totally outside their realm.  Which tells you that Gucci really does a fantastic marketing job in being able to have an image of a top brand while still tapping the mass market.

The comments from some of you guys really make this thread a classic.  Many of your reports are about how you pound away and bang the sh!t out of these girls, but this thread shows that many of you have a softer, emotional side as well.  Of course, that shouldn't be surprising but for you to come out here and tell us about that softer, human side of you, that shows character as well.  I don't look down on any WG in this business; they each have to do what they do to survive, to care for their loved ones and family members, and they are only selling whatever skill or service that they possess.  It takes a great deal of courage and fortitude to do what they do -- dealing with the bangers here, those who demand special service, the weirdos who prey on them, steal from them, maim them, kill them in some cases, etc.  If I were a girl and a real looker with a stunning body, I would probably end up as a WG, thoough hopefully dealing on the high end scale.

[ Last edited by  tangoll at 23-4-2009 19:09 ]

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QUOTE:
Originally posted by tangoll at 3-4-2009 12:32
No girl willingly chooses to become a WG ...

I used to think that too, and I still think that a high proportion have some degree of pressure or bullying that puts them over the edge.  But some really do choose it for the lifestyle, for no other reason that their hourly rate is much better than the alternatives (shop assistant, secretary, etc.) and some are attracted by freedom from authority and being able to choose their own working hours.  Of course it's for the money.  That's the only reason any of us get up and go to work, right?  But there's still a choice.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 3-4-2009 13:13


I used to think that too, and I still think that a high proportion have some degree of pressure or bullying that puts them over the edge.  But some really do choose it for the lifestyle, for no othe ...

It's true.  Although the reason is always money and many have some sort of financial burdens, I know more than a handful of WGs who do this because they just like 'fast' money.  Sure they could get a 'regular' job, but once they're exposed to this it's really hard for the to stop.  Furthermore, for every monger who says he's going to retire and returned there are 3+ WGs that have echoed the same sentiments.  So once their in, good luck trying to get them out unless you're willing to provide the same amount of support they're accustomed to making while being a WG.

I have nothing against their chosen lifestyle.  Just be extremely careful with your own emotions if you choose to embark on a more than business relationship with a WG.




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In my short trips to HK I sometimes take them out for siu yeeh (supper) if I'm the last guy there , often no strings and its a couple hundred $ nothing serious.

A couple of them have actually attempted to arrange fake marriages with me being a UK / German passport holder X amount to fake marry etc....


I'd also disagree that there aren't some smart cookie WGs out there, Maybo for example bought 141 flats to rent out and owns several floors in Fuji, a few others in Fuji also buy more flats to rent out etc. In that all glory is fleeting and a WG eventually has to retire or go over to the 161 site.




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Reply  #24 HeMan's post
sounds like she was looking around for someone to hang around with. WGs are people after all, they want someone to pamper them too, don't they?

Reply  #28 Kennichi's post
Supper with a WG after a session? sounds good, having some food after a workout session
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I wonder if you start working as WG you can have normal life again.

How many men will date a WG and finally get married. Unless the man doesn't know she is working as WG in the past.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Kenichi at 4-4-2009 08:08
I wonder if you start working as WG you can have normal life again.

There's always exceptions, however the majority cannot.  It also depends on what your definition of 'normal' is.

[ Last edited by  bedlam at 4-4-2009 15:57 ]




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Reply #28 Kennichi's post

If it's true about Maybo buying and renting flats then that's great. I haven't seen her in ages. I can't help but wonder how much of her flat deposit I must have contributed through my visits over the years.

Is she 100% retired now?

Good luck to her.
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Reply #30 Kenichi's post

They can and they do, I know a couple of UK WGs who did this purely to fund their university education , sex in the UK at least seems very liberal , alot of women sleep around heavily anyway and think hell I might as well get paid for it.

In the UK we call them slappers. And fucking hell some of the WGs in the UK are shockingly ugly and yet still have plenty of clients...

If you have ever seen the swedish night clubs vs UK night clubs alot of them look like the newcastle nightclubbers.




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Reply #32 princeandnpg's post

Pass I only report back what I hear from WGs themselves, and thus it could be completely untrue or it could be real. It seems a smart move though in that the happy ending often falls apart quickly and thus this is backup. As glory (and the looks of WGs and thus their earning potential) is fleeting.




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Final update...

For those who had read and recall my earlier postings about this WG that I kinda fell for, well, I did go to meet her again.  To tell the truth, I couldn't decide which I wanted more; to go meet her, or to have met her and then come back here and post what happened, because I know that her tale would make for interesting reading.

So, I did meet her, and after hearing all that she told me, I came back here and deleted all my previous description of her.  If another person happened upon my description, it would identify her and would definitely cause her a great deal of trouble and problems.

Suffice to say, all's well, and I leave it at that.  Peace.

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haha, nice post...thank you for your experience and tips!
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Fuck I'm pretty pissed.

As an update.... I did all that I could to try and save this girl from working.  She said she hated it and promised to me that she wouldn't go back to HK for work.

Little do I know now her picture is on the fucking DB.  I'm pretty speechless and choked beyond belief. FUCK FUCK FUCK!!!

Don't really feel like continuing on with what happened maybe when I cool down and let off some steam I'll tell
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Reply #37 aliasone's post

Man.....what do u expect, she is a WG. $$$ is priority.  Move on and lesson learned........




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Reply #37 aliasone's post

aliasone:

sorry to say this but you have no one to blame but yourself...

have to stick with the facts that you met her as a wg and under those circumstances, you set yourself up by having false expectations...

its better when playing this punting game to stick with the sex and stay inert to anything else...
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Reply #37 aliasone's post

Damn bro....looks like you've dumped a lot of cash and feelings on her.  Thats tough man, my sympathies on letting your emotions rule your head, every punter has at least one such experience.

....but what did you expect her to do? she's got to earn as much $$ as she can while she has the and looks.  Thats about all that WGs think about.

There's a lot of new girls now, you can let off some steam during the weekend ! Don't letthis episode spoil your game.
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