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[ Last edited by  aliasone at 3-8-2009 12:17 ]

If I can recall, your story seems really familiar to me, I read it somewhere or some bro actually posted the same story before......Anyway,

PLEASE DO NOT SEND THEM MONEY!!!!!!!:bash:
After you fuck her, you left some $$ compensation behind, that's ok.

I tell you this, based on my experiences with PRC gals:
1) 50% of KTV gals I had  - after 1 overnite, they called, telling me some sobbing stories. Why? They want me to give em' few Ks to survive for the rest of the mth.
My Reply: I see first. When I see you next time, I give it to you. I never see them again..period.

2) ALmost 80% SN Gals - sms / called me - when are you coming back again? I miss you this and that. Why? They want you to fcuk em' more and earn more from you.  
My Reply: I see you soon. I call you when I come to town...seal with a kiss. I have yet to retry any SN gals twice in China.

3) Escort (PRC gal in overseas) - called me to rescue her out of the business and go home to China. Need 6K (not a lot at all) to get the return overdue Visa done, air ticket and poenalty to her arse pimp. I did send the money over but to my fren's account, initially there was deed involved and I agreed to give her the money. I smell something fishy and her explanation doesn;t rhyme. I hold the remittance. Cut her off.
After 2 mths, she called me again from her hometown in China, clarifying this and that. I still don;t buy it. Bye bye.....

4) FBs - For good few mths, free fcuk. I pay for the hotel, entertainment and foods. They never dragged me to Dept Store digging me to pay for their shopping. Max spending appx 1K on gift for them during Xmas / V-day. Even bought me gifts and take me to nice dinner at their own expense.
One day, one of the FB called me. Why? Can you lend me 20K? I am in debt to my ex-employer.
My reply: I don;t trust people easily, including you. I do not want to make this a habit by giving you $$$$ when u said you need it while your lifestyle does not justify that.
If I give you this time, you gonna asked again next time. You are on your own babe!! And please get a real full time job and stop spending unnecessarily. Best I can do, I pay for your rental (only 2K) this mth. Hang up, goodbye!! At that point I already decided not to see her again.  she was mad and heart broken, thought she would dig me easily after all this whie..........

After few days later, she called again, tellin me to forget bout her $$ request and just be like before, continue as FB and just have fun when we need each other. She said will settle her own debts. No hard feeling........
question is: Is she really in debt? or she just want my money, fast and easy!!??

Btw, we still see each other, no $$$ was discussed so far. I send her off the other day to another city, she found a FT job and called me every single day.....I hope when she return, she become filthy rich and I can ask money from her ...lol!!!!


When I punt out there, I behave and play like a noob infront of the gals, maybe that;s why they think I am a big time"waterfish"!!!! But they do not know that I am cold blooded badass and forum legend of 141....lol!!!
Call me skeptical or cheapo, but if you want to Monger and punt for the next 50 yrs, you need to be a son of a gun!!!

They all get down to $$$$$ at the end of the day........perhaps I have not met one yet ....wish me luck!!!



So kid!!!, my advice:
STOP GIVING HER MONEY!!! GO find another gal / back up!! ........Get over with it!!!!

[ Last edited by  hunter at 2-4-2009 01:17 ]

okay im guess you are like what early 20s? 1st of all..dont really know what to say, dont know if we should call u a nice guy or an idiot because we dont really know the truth behind this girl..my suggestion is stop sending her money..but hunter pretty much said all the stuff i wanted to say..so as advice from the bros..get over it!! thats the only thing and smartest thing we can advise you to do

Sorry if i'm going too straight but :
1) Only working a few months/weeks/days in this business is the regular answer.
They never say the truth about how long they've been working in that. Only when it's really obvious.
2) The family allways has a problem and needs money. Of course !
That's nearly allmost the reason to enter this business. They don't need to work like this (and make money) to buy a flat or to budget their next world trip.
3) They never asked directly for money.
They just talk about their problems and difficulties in such way that if you are good guy and goodheart you will suggest some financial help by yourself... in this way you can never complain later about their request.
4) They hate to work like this. Of course !
How many women would be happy to sell their bodies to any kind of men even if they (the women) love so much sex or are nymphomaniacs ?
5) They claim trying to go out of this and work with normal jobs. But destiny push them to go back to it.
Well, when they have catched a good fish, what better explanation they could give to get some help from the good fish ?

Long story short :
1) don't fall in love with WG
2) never send money like this



Especially when you are not spending 24/7/365 of your time with her !!!!!!!!!

[ Last edited by  Chiron43 at 1-4-2009 18:06 ]

Your girls story is pretty generic.  They must have some 'standard' sap story they tell to all the punters.  I hate to tell you bro, but hunter's right; you're being taken for a ride.  She cried wolf and you sent her dough and now she's pulling on your heart strings again to get some more.

I've been known to get caught up in the moment, but if money, moving in, or marriage come up I know it's time to move on.

I suggest you run, don't walk away.  And find another chick to help you forget.

Good luck bro!

Do yourself a favor - listen to Hunter..  Enough said..

I wanted to say the same, "once a WG , always a WG" (unless she love u unconditionally).........but since Marsupial is not around....buit who am I to judge !!!??

Found this old thread relevant to this topic. Bro aliasone, go thru it, words form the Senior bros but u can skip the bashing part:

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... Bsulasno&page=1

[ Last edited by  hunter at 2-4-2009 01:29 ]

Another one!

Dude, either take her out of the WG scene totally, or take yourself out of her scene totally...

Alias, if you don't mind me asking, how much are you in for her at the moment?  In other words, how much have you given her (besides paying for her services)?

Thanks for all the bro's advice.

What Hunter said is right - really good advice there on how to prolong the so called relationship with a WG / FB

BMF852: I'm in the mid 20's and rather young in the scene you would say.  But as some would say I could be making the rookie mistakes.

CL: Wish I could take her out of the scene. Its hard when I'm many time zones away.

BPB: I'll pm you about how much I'm in for

Plenty of fishes in the sea right?

I think you should trust your instinct and see if you would like to help her or not.

One thing you should keep in mind is if you help her this time she might ask you to help her next time and the next time too.

the first letter of your girls name isnt 's' by any any chance??

is yes, have you given her 50000 hkd already??

money can be spent at any amount if necessary, she will just have to provide some sort of prove...

I guess you have your answer from all the bro's.  At the end of the day this is your decsion, only you can weigh up what you want to do.  However, having come on to this forum and asked for advice and the advice being so consistent you need to make a decision. Good luck!

dude...you obviously like her and want to fuck her...so what you really need is to just fuck her as much as you can for a whole week straight and see if that gets her out of your system.  If it doesn't, repeat a couple of more times.  You pay of course to fuck her but don't send her money for nothing.  That is like advertising on your forehead that you're a sucker.  Hopefully, you will feel that you've had enough of her after you've had your fill.  Remember it is impossible for you to be with her longterm, or support her longterm.

The last line from HeMan..."Remember it is impossible for you to be with her longterm, or support her longterm"  woke me up from my stupor.  That rule is cardinal rule #1 in dealing with WG's.  Here's my tale...

(deleted by tangoll to protect the WG's private matter.  I had to delete all my comments about this matter because if a certain person happen to read this, he would know who this WG is and might cause her a great deal of trouble.  So better I delete my entire description that I had written previously.  Need only to say that the WG and I are still on friendly terms.)

In Bangkok, where I live about 7 - 10 days each month, I only go to Chaophraya II and Caesar's Entertainment MP's.  Never go to the bars, Soi Cowboy, or Patpong.  But those are other posts.

[ Last edited by  tangoll at 23-4-2009 19:14 ]

Why settle for 1???

Look for spare and back up WGs.........

aliasone:


...thx for sharing your experience...

...without trying to sound too harsh...bro, you have said it yourself above...this is frigging naive of you...just get over it, she is a whore and you met her while she was working as a whore...no other ways about it...there is nothing you can do to change that perception...even if you get over it now and have something wonderful going with her, one day it will come back to haunt your arse...

...good luck mate...

Simplytheguest: No the girl doesnt start with a "S" and dropping 50K is absolutely nuts - wish that brother good luck because he's even way over my head.

HeMan: Need to find the time/place to just fuck her a week straight. Probably right about getting it out of the system. If only I could turn back/forward time. Just dunno when I'll be in HK next

Tangoll: Your story about the WG is really heart felt. I fully understand why the lawyer would want to get the girl out of the trade.  Cause personally I had the same feeling as well that I didnt want the girl I was involved with to be in that industry - which is why I sent the money.  Its good that the WG you see is having the white knight to come and save her.  I wish her well and quote the woods of HeMan - better get her as much as you can before she becomes exclusive or retired.

[ Last edited by  aliasone at 3-4-2009 00:18 ]

Oh!! I forgot this. and I always asked these 2 questions to myself!!

How many WGs can you save?

Are you gonna be the good samaritan to all the WGs who comes to you?


final note, you can;t even be with her all the time since u mentioned you are not in HK, which means you are not able to go accross the border during weekends to visit her.
My dear friend, let it go.........It is a jungle out there, do not let one tree hold you back or the chinese saying "Do not sacrifice the whole forest just because of a tree"!!.....

[ Last edited by  hunter at 3-4-2009 00:44 ]