Subject: Guilty Feeling - Newbie Needs Advice
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Post at 21-5-2009 18:39  Profile P.M. 
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do and dun regret ;
by the way can anyone advise on hotel appointments....??
need to know if advertise rates has room charge included....???
thx
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Post at 21-5-2009 23:15  Profile P.M. 
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As my mama taught me

"The thing that you are must scared of you must face it again and again"

If you feel guilty bout what you did then do it again and again and the guilt will be gone!
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Originally posted by aliasone at 21-5-2009 23:15
As my mama taught me

"The thing that you are must scared of you must face it again and again"

If you feel guilty bout what you did then do it again and again and the guilt will be gone! :t ...

Ah, yes...  What was once a vice is now just a habit...  ;-)

Have fun, CGP
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Post at 23-5-2009 01:15  Profile P.M. 
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errr....socan anyone tells me...

...if advertise rate is inclusive of room rate...??????
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Post at 23-5-2009 09:01  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 gooner22's post

a friend took me to 18 once, first time ever in a sauna or just 141 in general. i probably had the best time of my life, was like a kid in a candyshop. but just like u, the guilty feeling came as soon as i was done. depression also kicked in, i was thinking wtf was i doing. and told myself that i will not do this again, and i have been good, since then i have not attended such establishment. it does help that i am a shy person, and i dont have an "entertainment" budget.
but i gotta say, the temptation is so intense, especially with a site such as this one, and the hotel reservation section . its been about 3 years (i think) since my first and last experience, and lately the temptation has started again, and yes i am still with the same gf and yes she is still as hot.

so then whats going on with the temptation, i really think men are just born "cursed", sleeping with as many girls as possible seems to be embedded in our genes. and once more i am trying really hard to fight the temptation, so lets see if i can last, but then i will need to overcome my shyness first.

[ Last edited by  rexia at 23-5-2009 09:16 ]
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Post at 23-5-2009 12:17  Profile P.M. 
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during my first few mongering experiences, i did feel the guilt...but as you do this, the guilt remains, however, not as bad as before...i think all the bros are right on but just different ways of wording it...overall, what we do is wrong in the current societal acceptance...whether you say from a moral perspective or a religious perspective...however, as a friend told me before, punting is only a physical activity.  as long as you don't put your emotions into the girl then you are ok...

the way i rationalize it now is when punting it is purely a physical release...as long as you don't get too attached to the girl or put to much emotions to the girl then i think it is ok.

not sure if this is right, but its the best that i can come up with so far...
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Post at 23-5-2009 12:28  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #25 rexia's post

cursed? how can this be cursed? I think its great that sleeping with many girls is embedded in our genes!! lol

its all in the adventure!
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Post at 26-5-2009 07:37  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #27 angst's post

ahhaha, i dont' be cursed in a bad way, but more of an ironic way where we just want to stick our ding dong into anything that comes along , i really wish i had the "balls" to just fuck away
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Post at 26-5-2009 10:37  Profile P.M. 
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but at times: things get turned-off....so its not easy to just "fuck-away"....
anyway: its in the adventure as mentioned earlier.....
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