To all my bros,
A most terrifying thing happened today and I need your advice. I went for a punt, I'll write the report whe I stop freaking out... It was a pretty good punt, but then the unthinkable happened... The condom fucking BROKE while I was inside her and We didn't realize it till I blew and pulled out! I don't know what to do! I'm so worried now that she might have given me something... I immediately bought some rubbing alcohol and rubbed my dick with it and took a piss... Hopefully this helps, cus it was DAMN uncomfortable! I want to get checked, but I don't even know where to ask! Is there any discrete health clinics that I can go to without havingto give my name and contact info?

I feel bad for the girl... She looked just as worried as me! Hopefully this means she is clean and that I'm over reacting... I wish I din't have to hurt her business, cus she was a nice girl and all, but I feel the responsibility to protect my bros.So I'm asking the mods and senior bros if I should post the girl's name and location? I really don't know what the protocol is for this. I'll be out of the mongering scene for a while at least till I can get checked and cleared. This has been the most frightening night of my life!

Please give me any constructive suggestions as to what I should do about rhe above. Thanks and play safe.

I usually go to the Raffles Medical Group in Central. They're a Singaporean outfit, the Central site is new and rarely busy. It's about $1800 HKD for a full screen (HIV, HSV, chlamydia, and the rest). Obviously you have to give your name or whatever, but they're thorough and I feel better about Singaporean health care systems.

http://www.rafflesmedicalgroup.c ... glish/overview.aspx

Ask her... How many punters broke their caps while doing her. If she says countless or I don't remember... Go for a check up. Humor aside... Get yourself checked. Going to the doctor also relieves your psychological stress due to the incident.

Here's a link:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=5101

No, don't post her name and location.  She doesn't deserve to be treated like a leper, the odds are that just about every working girl has experienced a busted rubber.

And the odds are in your favor too.  Don't freak, just be responsible about getting tested and keep cool.

Hong Kong clinics have a legal right to protect your privacy.  Dont worry about that - just go gest tested.  You'll feel much better about it all.  

The Men's Clinic in WanChai is fast and good.  Just google STD Clinic, Hong Kong for the addresses.

And dont freak out --- the odds of getting something are actually very, very low.  Even if she had something the re-transmission rates are still very low.  

I got an ugly rash once.  Freaked me out, went to the Clinic for the tests then immedidately booked a "work trip" out of town so I could avoid my SO until the results came in.  Turned out to be nothing more than a yeast infection.  Coulda came from anywhere.  Man....  thank god!

By all means do the tests but I think you are likely to be ok. Most significant thing is that your WG looked worried as well. If she had just shrugged her shoulders I would be more concerned for you. For you to get infected with something not only would she have to have something but you would need to catch it from her, these two things together reduce your risk as fair bit - ie. 20% chance she has something x by 20% chance of you catching during the period afte rthe rubber broke = 4% (I know my numbers are rubbery (pun intened) but you get the drift).

The same thing happened to me a few years ago also with a WG here in HK. It was absolutely terrifying and the worst experience. The chances of you catching something are apparently quite low but you should get yourself tested. For HIV however you need to wait a few months (2 to3 months) before your testresults would show anything. So you should abstain from Sex for that time which can be quite challenging depending on your SO. Look out for any rashes or alike in the next few days and try to stay calm.
All the best

maybe its just me but ive never had a condom break on me. maybe try using a better made condom and dont accept the condoms the WGs offer?

Thanks bros! Your words have helped me more than you know! Yeah, the girl seemed pretty wirried. She looked as if she was about to cry any second for a while... And she's pretty young, I'd say late teens early 20si it matters. I asked if she was ok, and she replied with a half hearted "ok" and a weak thumbs up... Gave me the impression sshe was just trying to reassure ME. Thanks for the suggestions about the clinics I'll look into them right away.

I noticed that in many clinics, you need to fill the form, but they don't always check your ID.

Buy a new sim card, just fill random names, and as long as you pay you can go through. Give it a try.

Calm down. don't be so panic coz u can't change the past.
What STD could possibly harm u?
- HIV? ---------- only God could help u.
- Herpes? ------- no need to worry, without breaking the condom, someone may also get infected by herpes,
by kissing the WGs, or licking their pussies, or contact with her vagina liquid. the virus will remain for the rest of your life
- Gonorrhea? ------ as long as i know, can be cured
- Chlamydia? ------ also can be cured

[ Last edited by  SilverBird at 4-9-2011 11:01 ]

Bro, please do NOT panic. You must be calm and patient and go for a test immediately. You'll be suprised how many clinics you will find once you start looking. Until the results are released, dont think about it and stay safe.

I don't want to encourage the same behaviour - but this happened to me once with one of the most popular WGs on this forum (don't want to reveal her name). She seemed abit taken aback, but told me that since we were already in trouble, we should just do it a couple more times without the cap. I ended up paying her for 2 more shots for CIP.

Had a subsequent tests, one 2 weeks later, and one 3 months later and both came back clean.

Thats sounds pretty stupid to me, thinking that it is not riskier to just ''do it again while we are at it''.

Dude, I never had a condom break, but I always get checked every 6 months and the wait for the test results is always a long and arduous one. Best thing to do is to keep your head screwed on properly and try not to worry.

Worrying is the worst thing you can do. The chances of catching something are very low, so just relax. Always keep it safe bro.

http://www.famplan.org.hk/fpahk/ ... es.asp&nscref=9

What was the brand of the condom ? Did it belong to the girl ?

Any clue it would break ? Like too tight, or didn't keep a air space in front ?

FACE PALM

this is a great example of what NOT TO DO in this situation. read the rest of the posts in here and learn what you SHOULD HAVE DONE.

If she practice safe sex, catching something ( STD ) is rare but still possible.  The more common like HPV Virus, Hepatitis A,B,C are more likely you will catch because they are 100 times more contagious.  

I think she is more worried about getting pregnant and having to get an abortion.


Bad Bad idea because the first time it broke, you might not have caught anything because you already had a condom. The second time, third time, NO condom at ALL, you have a bigger chance of catching sometime.

edit: grammar errors

[ Last edited by  Weelock at 5-9-2011 11:16 ]

Seriously? I mean seriously, you reckon that's a good plan?
Risk = Activity x Frequency
The next couple of times you popped inside her without a cap could be the time that you (or she) catches something, do it often enough it's like playing Russian Roulette with an semi-auto!  Ok, that's a slight exaggeration but you get my point.