I can last as long as I want, sometimes I dont need to cum to enjoy myself. I keep myself in good shape by doing a lot abs, press ups, etc and when I have sex, I have a mindset that the lady have to cum first.

Watch out bro. Not cumming after being stimulated for such a long time can be detrimental to your health. It'll become what the laymen call "blue balls."

I'm a "fast gun" shooter

Haha... in like 20 min usually. Gonna work on improving my stamina.. aiming for 30!

In general, if you masturbate frequently then it becomes harder to come from regular sex.  And the problem then is either 1) you become desensitized during the sex from the prolonged friction, 2) you become physically tired and can't keep on with the thrusting, or 3) you get "psyched-out" worrying if you are going to be able to finish and that makes it even harder to finish.  All in all, I'd rather have the come too soon problem.

for me its all in the head. ive been jacking off everyday for the 25 years of my life but i sometimes still come too soon! especially if the girl is really hot! but try fucking that same girl again and again and i find i last lot longer!

Hk_justice. Well here a few all natural advice that can make you last longer:

- If you are really aroused by a girl you should plan to have two pops in a session. If it's a WG you don't have so much the pressure to be ashamed of having sex the way you want. Her job is to release you – unlike like a girlfriend who you would have to please first (unless you're not a gentleman). So start the session making clear you will cum once very quickly and then you'll have another go 5 or 15 minutes later,depending how fast you can get it up again.
When I was a teenager to do this with my GFs. I will have a very short and intense session without condoms (never do that with WGs) and cum in 5 mins. Then I would ask them to do something I like in order to get hard again and I would put a condom on and go at it for ever– until she had an orgasm.
But with WG you should go straight to something that makes you cum instantly. Then wait a little and ask her to perform something that makes you hard every time (for me: I get them to get on all four and spread their pussy for me). The second time it will take longer to cum for sure.

- Having a wank before having sex is definitely the best way. There was a number of time when I got totally horny looking at the ads on 141 that I popped once before getting on my way to the girl I wanted to shag. I didn't wanted to come to loaded and cum in 5 mins.

- I find that going really hard at it can make you last longer. When I mean hard at it I mean really really hard – like running a sprint. There is so much energy that goes into pounding the girl that you can't really come and the girl might really like it (although not all girls like to be banged really hard). My experience with 141 girls was that if they seemed to like you they also accepted and enjoyed some very hard banging.

- I've tried once a technique that consists into pressing very hard on the back of the scrotum to prevent the cum to go out. It's a very weird sensation, not painful but no pleasant. I think it paralyses the muscle that ejects the sperm. It sort of works - you should stay hard and can get back at it. You should practice alone.

- Thinking of stuff which are not sex related. When it's starting to get to good start thinking of work, or of something technical, think ofa problem you can resolve. That should get you away from exploding too early.

- Take brakes. Pull out when you feel that the pressure is coming and ask the girl to lick your nipples or ask to change condom. That will give you a 2 or 3 minutes brake that will buy you time.

- Take your time with the lady. Don't just let her do the work and pace things by taking control. Spend time cuddling, massaging her (not only her pussy and ass), etc.. If you have a good build up and do a lot of foreplay it's actually pretty good to come quickly and have a huge orgasm.

i think 20 minutes is good enough bro. u can rest for a while and then start the second round.
30-40 minutes just make u lose lot of stamina and it will be difficult to do the second round.

Sometimes I masturbate so much that I have to try really hard to cum.

Once I went limp on a girl, so embrassing

Yea I definitely agree with Davy on this! After workign out for a few months, I've lasted a lot longer in bed!

Fucking brilliant. Love it hahahahaha

I keep doing that nowadays...maybe I should get started on the V.

Hello guys,

I had my laughs reading the one that the candy went in her hole!!!!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!

anyways... i think I cum too fast as well.. LOL.. i remember JUST RECENTLY in thailand... i came in like 3 mins.. i was like fark!

well.. i read some of you saying .." when you are about to cum" u take the thing out.. but when u take the thing out it sorta shoots already ahahha

maybe I need a controlling technique.. LOL

REGARDS

Funny when I first started I had tough time cumming...I could fuck for 1 hour! Now, it takes me no less than 20 minutes ...oh gosh...

Anyway, read some ppl reporting about manhood massage which supposedly can make you last longer with a stronger erection. Anyone tried that kind of thing before?

a buddy of mine is the opposite. hes always worried about being too nervous or not cumming... so much that he ends up thinking and worrying instead of enjoying the girl hes banging. and he always has a problem with cumming. its either he gets tired or soft or whatever. not very enjoyable to punt that way.

Thx, to so many great ideas to last long.
Mental training and mental adjustment worked for me more then well.
Depends mainly on the situation.  If I want a marathon fuck I can do.
Important is that u set the time point for ur cumming.
1. No time limit. Have time with a girl LT, from 9pm until 10 am next morning.
2. If possible, make it clear before with the girl. Joke like: I like to fuck u all night long, ok?
3. Start with low pace, u have time.
4. Learn about ur Point of no return. That is the artful part. If u pass this point, forget a long time fuck.
Slow down. Think about some stupid thinks, like micky mouse or ur next tax declaration.
5. Have a clock in range. Sometimes u think u fuck already 2 hours, in fact it was just 30 minutes.
6. Some Girls can really push u to jerk off, then stop movement and suck her nipples, no move!
7. Think again about ur next taxreport.
8. Let ur LB stick in her, even when ur LB is only 70% hard.
9. Pump ur LB up until u feel good again.
10. Ur must be in control any time, do not give her the lead, never.
So if u like to fuck for 6 hours u can do it.
It is just a question from ur mental adjustment.
Use some extensions how mentioned by bros here:
- Thick condom (Durex 56)
- Jerk of before (not my way)
- Take some V or C and/or alcohol ( can run in contrary; u like to cum, but u can not)
- change positions
- penisring (first hour nice, later ur LB suffer from too little oxygen)

At all it is good to have unlimited time and a briefed girl for long time fucks.
Happy long time fuck bros!

The lasting longer in the morning is quite a norm, in fact my science teacher once told me about the theory in biology.
In fact, I find the experience much more gratifying the same as you do in the morning.

But to help the on the topic, probably don't let the lady rub or play your nipples when in action on bed. For most men, it is too pleasure it encourages earlier climax.
The other way to last longer may be this:- missionary > rest and kissing > doggy > rest and cuddle > continue until you wish to cum. The technique is always resting in between. The crotch area can get overheated, so take it easy :-)

Well I'm a young guy, Does that have to do with my mentality? I cum fast because I just love pumping a girl fast and want that pleasure of cumming fast, but ittakes time to recover and go at it again.
That patience is so hard to build up! I just want to come all over everywhere hahaha

That's different from when I was a young guy. I would try to last as long as I could .. wanting to impress each and every girl that I was banging. Now that I'm old, it's just about me.

If you're already just all about you and you're young, I wonder what's going to happen when you get old?

erm sorry to be rude but...any way to cum faster? I'm always running out of time within the given slot for some reason.