My wife has wanted me to wear a condom for a while now. Nor because she knows about my  adventures inCV, but because she doesn't want to get pregnant while she's doing her masters degree... NOW I'm willing to comply, I just have to come up with a good reason WHY I changed my mind.. I always insisted on BB with her till now.

Talk about good luck.

Now you have a cover (pun intended) story and can still continue your sex sessions with SO without any unexplainable interruptions necessary. Plus now you have an excuse to try out the entire range of condoms available in HK so you will know which ones to take with you on your mongering trips.

you are over-reacting. What is done is done. Remember the likelihood of catching anything at all is already quite low. A one time thing like this gives you a very small chance of getting anything. Also, beside HIV of course, almost all other STDs can be treated easily with drugs.

Just go to the doctor and do the regular battery of tests.

Refrain from punting for the next while until your tests get back. Even after you are tested clean, wait several weeks too in case symptoms are delayed.

Good luck man. And bring your own condoms next time.

Oh yea, and DON'T wash your dongle with alcohol!

Easy, just look shocked after the next orgasm and say, "Damn that was a close call!  You feel too good honey, maybe you're right and we should be using rubbers.  I almost came inside you!"

Problem solved!

Not sure how bros will be protected if the girls' identity is revealed... (unless you had something which you may have passed to the girl, in that case you have bigger things to worry...)

Regardless, get yourself checked out, and pray for the best....

So did u wait 3 months or longer?

Just cleared the 3 months and cleared the test. Get off the bench or wait a couple more weeks/months?

Nono! I meant the GIRL will be protected as ppl won't avoid her because of this. But if I told you bros, you could protect yourself just in case. I'm fairly sure I was clean (at least BEFORE this) as my wife was a vieginad my last gf before her was 8 years before... Not the slightest hint of anything up ro this point both in my wife and I... So that's like 11-12 of no symptoms of anything...

Just slap a condom on the next time you have sex with her.

If she mentions anything to you about it, just say "sheeesh I thought you wanted me to wear one."  "some people are hard to please, OK I won't wear it from now on etccc..."

If she doesn't say anything yo0ur in the clear as well.

Just a thought.

Che'lu

Had the same situation. At first, acted like a big guy and cool headed but it started really bothering me and stress me after a few days. To make a long story short, I was drunk, didnt really want to punt and still ended up doing it because I was drunk..., the kind of decision you regret. Had sex, condom blows and then hell start.
I held on to my coolness for 5 days and then well, like any other idiot, went on the Internet where 99% of the things you read (not here! So far I've read only reasonnable comments) are crap and scary. So I freaked out. Went back to the place I had found the girl and asked her to get tested with me. She said no, so I offered her the same money as when we punted. Guess she was stressed also as she said, if she had std, she would be sent back to Philippines. I promised it would be discreet. We went to the clinic and got tested together I paid for everything (the most expensive punt of my ongerer carreer! ).
The doctor was great and totally discreet. It took him a split second to understand the situation and I could tell I was not the first one to come for this (went to a clinic on the piers). I paid for both tests (quite expensive) and went home.  I was really depressed but I wanted to know. At least if I was infected I had to get treatment, whatever that was.
After a few days cant remember how long, it felt like weeks to me but it wasnt) I got the results. Negative for me and minor Stds for her. I called her for the results, she said she didnt want to go and pick up the medecine so I went (with the help of the doctor) and brought it to her, that was the least I could do even though as of now, I dont know if she took the damn medecine. i hope she did as the doctor said she wuild never have kids if she didnt and she was 21.

Now, I only use my condoms (reinforced ones!) and check regularly if their ok and never use the ones provided by love hotel (fyi this happened in Victoria Hotel...). I also get tested, and all punters oit there should do it for themselves and for the girls they punt (but this will never happen, am being an utopist here ;) ).

So my advice, stay cool but for your mental health, you could get the girl tested with you as I did, if she doesnt have anything you'll be settled right away, if she does you'll have to wait longer but still that wont mean you have caugh anything, the odds remain quite low in any case (and whatever you do, if you read odds and stats on Internet, remember that those stats are only valid if she is infected and that many girls are as scared as you are of stds!)

Take care.

[ Last edited by  Frenchexpat at 8-9-2011 19:00 ]

Interesting reading of her motivation - didnt want to get sent back home, I guess maybe they would mark her passport or something like that. But any stright thinking person would be thinking about long term for their life, not being able to have kids is a pretty big incentive to take the meds.

Other thing about all of this is that your mind can really play tricks on you and you end up imagining syptoms that aren't there. I've been worried about STD's a number of times and always tested negative (touch wood) but I can really get myself in a state if I let it get to me - get all itchy and irritated. The mind is a powerful thing.

yea interesting story and seems like youre a pretty responsible dude. good for you.
i wonder what problem the girl had if the doctor said she might not be able to get babies later in life.... one of those slow silent diseases i guess

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On a trip to Bangkok - with - wait for it - an African girl (mention that b/c I presume they have higher incidence of HIV).  I noticed right away, stopped immediately, showered up, then recapped and went back at it after she helped me get back up.  I just had an HIV test six months later and I am clear.  I read a bit when I was worrying over this from time to time and the likelyhood of transmission of HIV in one incidence is quite low, even if someone is positive.  Its a freak out, for sure, but odds are you all right if this bad luck comes your way.

Hey F,

I'm guessing by the way you use the term 'minor' that it wasn't HIV, and by the way the doctor said it could make her sterile, that she must have had something like Trich or Chlamydia?  The only reason I ask, is because you got tested so fast after the event.  Was the doc cool with that and did you have enough time (1-2 weeks) for a Chlamydia infection to show up on your test?

Hopefully this will help put some easy to your mind. I've read statistically >80% of prostitutes use a secondary form of birth control so your odds of this girl being being protected is quite good. Also any girl in the business SHOULD know there are "before/after" pills one can pick up at the pharmacy, if she wasn't on the pill she would have probably grabbed the emergency pill right away.