Subject: how do you last long?
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Post at 18-4-2011 09:22  Profile P.M. 
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IMO, it's a mental thing first and foremost.  You have to own it...  And before you say it, yeah I know, it sounds like a bunch of bunk.

The orgasm originates in the mind, yeah there are chemical signals and friction at play, but it's all a mental thing.  Even if you're breathing right, in great shape and all around ready physically for the act, you're not going to last if the whole time you're worrying about whether or not you're going to blow - esp if the girl knows what she's doing.

I used to have problems in this area and would always feel bad because I was too fast.  It's a mental block that you need to overcome.  Some tips:

  • The breathing exercises mentioned in other posts help.
  • When you feel you're close, slow down:  you can adjust your position, have her change position, whatever.
  • Enjoy yourself.  You are having sex after all
  • If you pop too soon, well it happens.  Don't beat yourself up over it.
  • Most important though, is to not obsess over it.  It's hard, I know.


You want to believe that you can last.  And yeah, I know that I sound corny, but it does help.  If you spend too much time concentrating and obsessing on the negative, you may miss the positive.
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Originally posted by Wachovia68 at 12-3-2011 21:59
Stick it deep into the girl and don't pull out too much when you thrust. Basically limit the length of your thrusts. That will help you last longer.

yeah.. agree with you bro..
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Post at 21-5-2011 23:21  Profile P.M. 
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whiles you try to last longer, is it really a good thing to last longer or just cum faster, I take a long time to shot, and the girls say they get really tired, may be they just want a fast one, and continue with their next customer.
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Post at 22-5-2011 16:47  Profile P.M. 
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TBH, how many of you really think about lasting longer? And what is lasting longer? 20 mins or 30 mins or 40 mins? Rather than trying to last longer, enjoy the pleasures of doing it! Then before you know it, 20 mins passed. Dont obsess about lasting longer, just do it! Like George says, the more you think about it, the faster you will cum!

For me, from start to finsih the norm is more or less about 30 mins. But i have also cum within 10 mins after the action started! Hell sometimes even less than 5 mins! hahaha!
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Post at 3-8-2011 10:58  Profile P.M. 
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Have anyone tried spraying Nyquil Throat spray on your dick? This helps numb your dick and too so you can't feel anything when you fuck.
You can switch positions. If you haven't tried 69 that position will last quite awhile and you get to lick some fine pussy!
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Reply #45 oscarmandude's post

How does anyone discover Nyquil Throat spray numbs the dick? Was it from that day your chick had just taken some Nyquil then bbbj your dick then started complaining that you were lasting too long that day?

I can imagine it now: Your SO is grouchy and generally unhappy because of her sore throat. So as the best bf/hubby ever, you offer to help her out and give her a big lozenge to suck on. So with your generously sprayed Nyquil Throat dick, you proceed to do the 69. From deepthroating you, her throat gets direct application of the Nyquil instead of the usual hit-and-miss application and her body/mind gets some blessful relaxation as the oxytocin kicks in from the numerous orgasms she gets from mindful daty. After 30 mins of close medical attention from Dr. you, your SO is so much closer to a quick recovery.

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Post at 3-8-2011 12:54  Profile P.M. 
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i actually have the opposite..... lol i last too long and the wg's or so's in my civie life gets sore and tired...
well i guess some enjoys it and others just can't keep up..... but anything to make me last.... shorter? lol
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Reply #47 a_dot_c's post

how long is long? haha

look, not every1 is a porn star banging chicks for an hr
but sex is meant to be enjoyed
if ur talkin about numbing ur penis to last longer, r u really enjoying it?
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Reply #48 jsmithj88's post

I think I'm in the same conundrum as the rest of you. I punt to enjoy, to please myself, but also I want to last longer as a matter of pride, and as a matter of getting my money's worth. Which one is more important?  I mean, if I cum faster, I can fit in a 2nd, 3rd or maybe even 4th shot! To hell with lasting longer! (Except if it's with the WG's that state strictly it's a one shot deal, then I'm going to last 45 minutes if I paid for 45 minutes!)
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Post at 3-8-2011 19:47  Profile P.M. 
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Last longer that works for me:

- Move slightly in and out
- DO NOT punt after a long period of no sex/masturbating, its going to be more sensitive
- DO your Math! I dont care if you do linear algebra, confidence test or sheep counting, just do it.
- Relax, dont get carried away, especially if they start that sexy moan
- Kegel helps a lot, practice makes perfect
- DONT forget to breatheee lol

@xavierkk
Read somewhere that multi orgasm for us men can be achieved by holding it back the moment you're bout to Doing it again and again will see you more intense than usual. Tried it and it proved to be correct but I dont know if I would call it multi though as its only one at the end.
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Post at 3-8-2011 20:56  Profile P.M. 
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Just a warning, I would be relectucting to put the suggeested nyquil, tiger balm, numbing liquids, etc on your LB because chemicals can raise the possibility of condom breakage.  whatever it is, there is potential side effects.
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OK, i've got it ALL figured out now.

first, spray Nyquil all over your dick. then coat it with menthol toothpaste, and a desensitizing condom 10mm thick.

then do 99 situps, Kegel exercises, pound down a pint of tequila, memorize long boring lists and rub Tiger Balm on your balls.

oh you studmuffin...you'll last at least 47 minutes, call the Guinness Book of Records, come here baybee. oh YEEEEAAAAHHH, oh shit, OK, now i'm thinking of fat naked guys on pogo-sticks, ha, i'm a sexBEAST, oh NO did that toothpaste wear off? OK, think fast: Washington, Monroe, Jefferson...oh, who was fourth, oh, oh, OH OH OH NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.....

                  

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I haven't worried about it.  For me (at least now that I've gotten started punting), it's more about the excitement of ML with a beautiful different woman every time.  Something I definately missed out on before getting married.  I don't concern myself so much with lasting longer...so long as I enjoy
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i think of an old lady taking a shit.

seriously though, i usually change positions when im about to come. the few seconds break is usually enough to set me back a couple of mins more. if all else fails, i just straight up tell the girl to slow down bec i wanna take my time. works well enough.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by disktroyer at 13-3-2011 16:18
A friend told me that he has tried using toothpaste to apply to his tool.  The menthol/mint in the toothpaste seems to numb his cock a bit, thus he was able to last longer.

I haven't tried using toot ...

DO NOT USE TIGER BALM ON YOUR COCK!! I trued this on my inne thighs when I was studyin karate. I thought it would relax the muscles and help me get a better stretch... THEN it got on my balls and johnson... Many many different sorts of  badness ensued! NOT fun!
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Reply #55 onidragon's post

LOL! Tiger Balm on balls? I imagine it would feel like getting kicked in the balls, but constantly for 10-15 minutes! Feel it right in the guts/stomach area!
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Guys,

You know my medicine for lasting longer....30 mins to 1 hour?

Doesnt work for most ppl, but work perfect for me.....


WXXD.......shhhhhhhh




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Reply #47 a_dot_c's post

I'm with you man. Most of the times I think I last too long and it gets them really sore/tired. It gets them frustrated and then it gets me frustrated, prolonging the session even longer
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Reply #58 Hkpunternewb's post

lasting too long isnt really fun unless u r having fun
anything over an hr is a lotta work
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I find when you dont concentrate, you dont release...
like by watching tv, concentrate on the tv show for a bit and you will be ready to continue..
but friends told me to think of a girl that emotionally screwed you and it should reset
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