Also, keep in mind that there's nothing wrong with asking her to go to the clinic with you.  Treat it as a mutual responsibility and that you'll front her cost for the test.  She'd probably appreciate the consideration.  

Like that you get yourself tested, but she also finds out her current status and like that you don't have to re-test in 3 months.

As to the worried look on the girl's face?  That could just be from the fear of pregnancy and have nothing to do with her disease free status.

I don't know what brand it was. It was one of hers. It didn't feel tight or wrong in any way, but SHE seemed a bit tight and didn't use any KY at first. We were happily going on her natural lube at the start.  In fact, till I pulled out and saw the dom was broken, it was REALLY good!

I wish you the best of luck, take it easy, you are probably 100 percent fine.  I've gone thru this about 5 times, you just gotta go thru the motions, don't freak out, don't google too much and you'll be fine.  

Go take the hiv dna test, its alot more expensive, but usually pretty accurate in about 10 days since your possible exposure.  Follow up at 30 days, if 30 days test shows up negative, you are 99 percent fine.  Some countries such as Australia I believe, go by 30 days, not 90 since they generally never see any cases of 30 days negative turning into positive at 90 days.

This is pretty much why I don't do FS anymore, tired of the freak outs, broken condoms, etc.  Drink some red wine, chill the nerves a bit.

Scoot

Thanks for all the suport and encouraging words bros! Sharing is caring at it's finest. I'm much calmer now, bit still a bit worried. Looking into the testing and all. I'm (at this point) done with mongering a,rivly... This is a big wake up call for me. Until such time as I get the results back clean (cross fingers) I will not be participating in any punts. To the guys whp said to ask her and sugested I take her to get tested... She spoke not 2 words of English and almost zero understanding of my dismal Cantonese... I doubt I could talk her into going with me at all. But it IS a thoughtful gesture. I think her being from mainland, she'd be too worried about the law to go for aomething like that and I can't risk my family to go up there with her. Wish me luck my brothers! One rhing is for sure... *IF* I ever punt again, I'm bringing my OWN condoms and some listerne!

It happens to me ones, and now I always bring my own stuff... It can't be a 100% safe but I believe mine are much safer than theirs... Let's face it, a regular condom (ie not a fake/badly made or with less regulation/proper size) well put rarely (very rarely !) broke.

Again, don't freak out too much, go test yourself and play safe ! This shit happens to a lot of bro and, hopefully, we and the girl all came clean and learned a lesson (at least in my case...).

The worrying point here is that a lot of WG (at least in mainland) are less educated about STDs and, as a bro pointed out, are more worried about getting pregnant than catching/having a STD...

I usually bring my own along as I dont trust their condoms. Especially the ones in China, they are quite small and tight, and I always have the fear that it will break.

Relax bro.
Try the clinic and the doctor I suggested.

See pm.

seriously onidragon....you need to calm down!

I know if this happened to me I'd be a nervous reck too but being a train wreck won't help you...

I'm also worried because you are so nervious you will sleep talk..

so please clam the fuck down!

Hey I once had a WG do me with Saran Wrap!   Yeah, I know, really dumb!

Anyway, it was supposed to be a blowjob only place, and when she brought in the Saran Wrap for the BJ I was somewhat disappointed but the girl was so damn cute I let her wrap me in plastic.  She really gets into the SWBJ and I'm fingering her till she's sopping wet, all her clothes are off now and she decides to mount me.  Well I'm thinking, "With Saran Wrap?  Really?  Is that gonna work? " I figured she's the pro and must know what she's doing, right?

Ah well, you all know the end to this story.  It was really good sex and when I pull out there isn't a shred of the Saran Wrap intact of course! She asked me if I "was clean" and said she just had her period so no pregnancy, etc., but it was a bummer sitting on the bench for the next 6 weeks.

Saran Wrap - OMG!!!

doent it hurt???

I know a lot of guys hate KY and other lubes but sometimes it is necessary to use it. It seems from my experience, most girls produce enough natural lube for about 8-10 mins (max) for serious pounding. Once she starts drying up, your risk for condom breakage goes way up as the friction and associated heat buildup works together to tear apart the condom.

I have become quite sensitive to the 'feel' as my dick strokes in and out of the pussy. I periodically check my condom during a session.  If it feels like there is some friction/tugging, I stop to inspect condom then ask girl if she has any lube. If she does, we continue on. If she doesn't, I stop right there and then and ask for a bj/hj to finish. Besides the girls don't like to fuck dry as it does hurt them too.

If the 'feel' feels really good, like really smooth and slippery, then it is usually too good to be true and that you may have a condom breakage upon inspection.   I guess you have to remember how bareback feels like and how wearing a condom feels like and keep those thoughts in mind as you shag.

One should not really blame the girls' supply of condoms as they don't want a condom breakage either. The only reason to bring your own is that you can bring condoms that you know fit you properly esp for those bros with big ones.

If you have a condom breakage with the girl, no need to panic. Stop everything, jump together to the shower to wash everything, then have a discussion with the girl if possible, Leave her a much bigger tip than usual (a few hundreds) so that she can go to either get a checkup or buy the 'morning-after' pill to stop the possible pregnancy. Then you head to a clinic for a std checkup.

A condom breakage is costly in monetary and psychological terms. So next time when you shag, leave some brainpower for the monitoring of your sex session and be ready to stop session.


Also another accident that occurs is leaving the condom behind in the pussy after you cum. This is not necessary because of an ill-fitting condom (too large) but because you decided to leave your dick in her pussy too long as both of you enjoyed the afterglow and intimacy after you/her cum.

After your dick has cum, it will begin to shrink. If you are too slow, the condom will come off in her pussy. So guys don't tardy and use your fingers to hold base of condom as u pull out so that it all comes out fine. I had to turn down some of those 'afterglow' embraces with sauna girls that would had enhanced our relationships just so I can be sure nothing is left behind.

check this out for the government clinic, specialize in std stuff
http://www.dh.gov.hk/english/tele/tele_chc/tele_chc_shcm.html

totally free of charge.  but i believe you need to wait at least 1-2 months to get an accurate test.

Paka, I feel alot better now! Npt completely over the svare, but I try to live my life by these words: "never regret what you have done, only regret what you have NOT done." That being said, I chose ro remember how GOOD the shag was... It was excellent! But also, I'm going to get checked out so I have the peace of mind that I am not passing something on to my wife, therefore won't have to regret something I've done. Now IF the test comes back positive... Well I'll cross THAT bridge when I get to it

Nope, if anything it's super soft and stretchy, unlike the compression you get from a condom.  All the wrinkles are annoying of course, but when Saran Wrap gives out you don't notice a thing.  I guess because it's so soft; whereas a condom stretches and snaps back, Saran Wrap just distorts until it separates.

So u guys get off the bench after 3 months when u clear the tests? Or u wait 4 months and longer?

Clean test = hit the streets.  If I'm in some sort of LT relationship and that ends then I will also test after that before moving on to the next GF.  So my basic strategy is: test after accidents, and test before a new, SO kind of relationship.

Ah so thats the drill for most guys then. Damn being on the bench is real tough......

I also steer clear of BB anal sex with crack whores behind dumpsters for at least a month or two . . .

Still on the bench...., don't tempt me

Although if BB is truly ur thing, u shld go Germany... FKK, partytreff and Bare O clubs. But let us know where else u puntso others can stay the hell away frm u

Imagine trying it when you have an SO!!  She still wants sex, and expects your usual horny self to service her.  This is tricky, and you bloody well dont want to risk passing something to her.

When it happened to me a couple years back I got the tests, and then booked myself on a week's business trip immediately.  Came back and pretended to have the flu for a few more days till the tests came back (my SO is flu-phobic.., she thinks every one is SARS or bird-flu or whatever.  Haha.  It kept her away from me, though.. but it was not a fun time trying to avoid sex with her during this period.