I usually masturbate first before I do it with her ,When you are about to come halt for a second and do something else besides your dick ,Like kiss her body or cuddle them (They usually like this) ,Experience and timing here is key to premature ejaculation or lasting long in bed. When you get what I mean you would be thinking if you satisfied your partner or not. This is also one reason I would want to last longer than my partner so that I know that I also did/try to satisfy her ,When you have this attitude the women or partners you have would want you even more
