Hi guys,

I believe everybody had an experience where the girl and the picture are totally different.
It happened to me a lot of times.
Looking at all those pretty picture make me pick up our phone and call the agent.

even it happened to me many times, I still never refused the girls, go out and cancelled.

did anyone do that before?
If yes, WHY? How did you do that? what did you say to the girl? how do you say/shit the agent?

If no, Why?

I never say no because I just couldn't make it. Feeling bad to the girl. I know they are also trying to make a living and couldn't bring it up to cancel after making an appointment with them.

guys, kindly share your experience

Haha, this comment brings to mind the first time I ever turned down a hooker.  

This was a few years ago in Canberra, went into a brothel and theytold me they had just opened (5:30pm) and they only had one girl working.  I sit in the waiting room and a minute later the "girl" entered.  She was probably about 100Kg and old enough to be my mother.  She looked at me and winked and said "want to go have a little fun".  Her teeth were yellow as well, and she was squashed into a kind of dress/underwear thing that was way too tight and bits of her were poking out at weird angles.  I think i threw up a little in my mouth.  

Needless to say, this one was EASY to turn down.  I just said, oh no thanks Im just taking a look around first.  I might be back later.  I never did come back lol.

But more to the point, these girls have seen EVERYTHING before.  I guaranteee that they have definitely had guys say no to then before.  Probably happens every day! And on top of that, who cares if she thinks you are rude? You dont know her and will never see her again!  You might feel bad or guilty for a few mintues afterwards but it is your money, and you can choose to spend it however you want!

So...just say "no thanks" and leave.  Simple.  Once you do it one time, it will be easy.  You need to learn to be assertive in this hobby or some girls will just walk all over you and empty your wallet!

Here in the Philippines, there's some sort of an agreement that if you dont like the girl, u just give some good will money called REJECTION FEE its about 300-500php (peso).
One time i met up with a PSP (Personal Service Provider). She wasnt my type so i just gave her 500php for her transportation back.
Another time i met a nursing student, at first i have doubts coz she doesnt post any pictures on the ESCORT site but she told me just to meet her up and there's absolutely NO REJECTION FEE, i gambled and to my surprise, she's indeed my type.
She's a certified nursing student and when we met up, she's in disguise wearing a bonnet and eyeglasses coz she doesnt want anyone to recognize her and know about her part time job.

@freshman
If I were you, I might leave too. 100KG LOL damn I am from Asian and I am sure that's like 150KG for me LOL

@devilgodspeed

I think giving a rejection fee is good and feel better. I might do this next time thanks

As a newbie monger earlier this year, I too was scared just like you to 'reject' a girl.

But you live and learn.

There are several reasons to reject a girl:

- She is not what you expected (in terms of looks)

- B&S where the other girl is of as good or even higher quality than the one you asked for, but you have your heart (or in this case, your penis) set on the girl you asked for

- Plain B&S where the other girl is of considerably poorer quality


Effectively, you just call up the agent, tell the agent that you do not like this girl and want to see another or see you next time or maybe later (or just simply walk out).

But what is MOST important is to treat the girls with respect. When I reject a girl, I smile and apologise to the girl I've rejected. If I'm told to wait in the room while another girl is brought up or while the agent is calling, I try to strike up a general conversation.

Don't make them feel like they are ugly/worthless - make them feel human. Just apologise generally (e.g., sorry - or in Cantonese; deuih mh juu) and either walk out or stay in the room striking up a conversation.

Sometimes, I have even gone to the rooms and asked "Are you [insert girl's name]". If the girl is honest, she'll say 'no'. I ask her who she is (on the DB) to make a mental note if I want to see her again - and ask if she knows [girl I asked for] or where her room number is or where she is.

Depending on the girl, you'll get good info. Make her smile and giggle too, even if you've rejected her.

In the end, you have to remember you're taking a service - and you want to be satisfied. Whilst the girl is obviousyl trying to make money, it shouldn't' be at your expense.

Go for the one you want, just remember to treat others with respect.

This is how I feel - bit of a long post, but I hope this helps you drum up courage to reject any girl that you obviously do not want to spend time with.