Subject: Is cuddling a thing?
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Post at 16-10-2023 08:33  Profile P.M. 
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Is cuddling a thing?

Still pretty much a newbie to this hobby, but I was wondering if cuddling is a thing?

I enjoy the GFE part of the experience, so anything that seems as close to GFE as possible would enhance my personal experience. Seems to be rare that providers would do it though, although maybe I just don't ask for it?

So I was wondering if cuddling is just generally not done except in rare cases, or if maybe it's just my own experience that has been lacking. Any tips on how to initiate or get the provider to cuddle?

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sexyloser   17-10-2023 08:34  Acceptance  +2   Majority would provide cuddles if I cue/asked for it. Some wont and would lie 1-2 feet apart, though.
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lonelychopstick   16-10-2023 09:06  Acceptance  +4   Assuming you are in the Bay Area, many girls will default to massage after, but politely decline and ask for cuddling
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Indeed cuddling is a thing. And clearly enough of a market that some folks do seek it out.

Depending on where you are as @lonelychopstick pointed out. In the SF Bay Area, you could check out https://forum.sex141.com/eforum/ ... &extra=page%3D1 or Cuddle Comfort

You also mentioned GFE. So I am assuming you are looking for FS together with cuddle. Personally, I find that if I book a longer (such as hour or more) session with a GFE or MSOG provider, I can get some cuddle time in. I may or may not go for the second pop so we relax and unwind either with some mutual touch or massage. The ladies generally don't mind cuddling since I think that is generally more low key vs. trying for a second pop. For me, maybe max 1 in 5 times I get to a second pop so no pressure anyway. That's my strategy in a nutshell for extended cuddle and relaxed session!

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Post at 16-10-2023 13:12  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 woot2's post

Usually book an hour and cuddling is not a problem. Favorite time was when he power went out and we ended up in complete darkness just holding each other. Kissing is less of a sure thing but usually can do some of it.

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woot2   17-10-2023 02:18  Acceptance  +2   Seems like booking an hour is worth it for me considering I like cuddling and I usually bust pretty quickly anyway
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For GFE and 1hr+ session, just ask for it. They know most guys need time to recover after a pop, and if it's a good provider that doesn't rush you out, they usually allow it to kill time.
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