These are whores. Not girlfriends.

You should do it. It is a lot of fun and you get to see the girls in a different light (daylight after stumbling out of the bars/clubs upon closing). Wgs/sauna girls, etc are like any other girls. They just want to get out and have fun with friends too. When dressed in normal clothes, they are quite presentable and not cheap looking at all.

Sure, you will have to pay for the drinks, taxi, and meals (usually late-night snacks), but you have to do that too with civi girls. Unlike civi girls, these girls are very out-going and fun otherwise how could they have survived in their jobs. Plus I get to really get down and dirty and do some serious grinding and making out on the dance floor which has the effect of attracting all the other girls to come party with us. These girls are the ultimate wingmen!

Of course you have to be careful of how the friendship evolves as these girls also aspire to lead normal lives too. They are looking for serious bfs/hubbies.

I remembering (chuckling to myself of the irony) when one sauna girl told me that a guy offered her money to drink with him and she refused the money offer because she is 'not' that type of girl. lol, she was in her civi girl mode.

Just do it.

haha damn. i did want to do it... but manila is such a small place that im afraid i might bump into people who know me or my SO. much as i want to take em out clubbing or whatever, i just cant.

maybe when i go to hk a couple of months from now ill try an overnighter.

curious as to what you mean by these girls being the ultimate wingmen though. you mean they help you pick up civies in clubs?

Though I don't live with my SO, I am in the same boat as you are. That is why I only meet up with these girls only after 1am in the middle of week when I know most ppl I know are already sleeping for work the next day. HK has a few bars/clubs that are happening on mon, tues, wed, thurs. I never go out with these girls on the weekends. That would be suicidal!

Also whenever we are outside on the streets, I never hold their hands or hug them so as to keep up appearances in case anyone sees us on the streets and most importantly to remind the girls that I am not into them as a bf, just friends.


Ultimate wingmen...yes, they encourage me to meet other girls and would go up to civi girls to break the ice. At first I thought it would be disrespectful to these girls if I ignore them to talk to civi girls, but these girls encourage me as they think it is fun to know more ppl and it makes the whole experience more 'normal'. Plus these girls instinctively know that it would be extremely difficult for them to snatch my 'heart' so they might as well enjoy the night.

holy shit thats the first time ive heard WGs becoming wingmen. but wont the civies realize that they are WGs and then associate you with them? theyd be pretty pissed off i bet!

also, how do you go to work the next day if your out partying at 1am in the morning?

Man, the way some civies act/dress in the bars/clubs you would think they were wgs too.

These girls were dressed like normal clubbing girls. You wouldn't be able to tell where they work.

Yes, partying at 1am to 4am is extremely draining. I can do it once awhile when I know my next day's morning schedule is clear of any meetings so I can stumble to work late. A couple of times I went home earlier and left them to party into the next morning. They are insatiable when it comes to drinking and partying. If on days off/holidays, they can party everyday. I had to turn down their many offers as I knew I had a lot of work the next day.

cool, i will try that WG wingman technique next time... although im afraid if i ever go out with a WG, its bec i want to bang that WG herself!