So then, why do you punt? Lonely and feel like you need some (regular) companionship? Just horny? Trying out new experiences sexually that maybe your gf/wife won't allow?

Do you have a girlfriend/wife/kids? I've seen some replies on here with guys who have gfs, wives or kids - do you feel guilty when you go back home to your wife? At all? Any regrets? How do you maintain/hide your guilt?

And how did you guys get into punting the first time? How was your first experience?

Me - my first experience with punting was terrible. It wasn't 141-based, I hired some online escorts. It was dreadful. But I kept at it, and eventually stumbled upon 141.

I got into it just to try out new things sexually and once I found 141, I gothooked - so basically, I'm just horny. And it actually works out cheaper than trying to pick up girls anyway. It's also a fantastic way for me to pick up my Cantonese and Mandarin, I feel - in trying to get into conversations with these girls.

Also, friends with benefits are fun - but it's effectively the same person all the time. So you know each other so well sometimes that it just becomes mechanical. This is a way to meet new girls and therefore links back to trying out new things - and being guaranteed some action!


I don't have a gf/wife and I have no guilt.

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For me, I enjoy the transaction method, pay you to be my whore, and variety is the spice of life.  

I usually feel pretty guilty due to the S.O,  but when I do punt, i try to do it the day my S.O goes away for a couple of days, so by the time she gets back I am already over the guilt.  I also don't participate in FS anymore, just CBJ's and HJ's for me.  

My first punt was when I was 17 or something to a girl in Tijuana.  Here's a detailed report about it.   http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... ana%2Bscootermonger


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Interesting that you don't FS anymore. Is that because of the guilt?

Well, I don't do FS anymore for 2 reasons, guilt and STD risk.  I'd say 10 percent guilt and 90 percent the other.  I don't wanna spread anything to the S.O, let alone catch anything serious myself.  The many years of punting has sort of turned me into a bit of a std phobe.

Are you saying you've had some real scares previously, so now you are extra careful?

I am just about to start punting, single, no relationship now.

I live in Hong Kong and the relationships I have had (and those of my friends) seem to always be 'met in a bar'. Considering that I do not have much time for a relationship (work and travel), it seems that my relationships were pretty much transaction based anyway.

I am going to give punting a try as a more straightforward version to get my rocks off.

When I have the time to meet and invest in the right person, I will do so then. I cannot say if I would still punt if in a serious relationship, but probably not.

Not trying to be a dick but this is a silly question.
We punt for all the reasons you mention and more.
Basically, men have been paying women to have sex since ancient times
because men are horny and women need money.  It's the natural order!

yes, when you do have a busy life at this time its hard to have a normal relationship where you maybe off on business travels as often as i do. having a gf at this time isnt the best idea. as the time apart is just more wanting them beside you not only for sex but the personal feelings.

so for me right now punting is fine, you gotta do what you gotta do to make the money. so when i have time i go punt as well to release some from little jr.

i punt as it decreases stress and feels good

Simple answer.  I'm a horn dog and I don't get enough action if I don't.  I'm kind of leaning toward scootermonger's thinkingthough.  Just getting BJs and HJs.  Although I'm still comfortable with BBBJ even though I know there's still a degree of risk.

Wow just read your post.  I'm actually headed to Tijuana in the next couple of weeks.  I've been reading up on Tjamigos so haven't had too much time to spend on this forum and trying to catch up now.

Does the question ever come up with your SO where she asked you how you lost your V?  How do you explain that?  Or do you just tell her straight up?

It happened to me since three years ago, when I went to the same girl for many times and at the end the girl moved in my apartment for months.
After that, I feel so guilty or kind of heavy minded about FS any other girls. Although we are now no longer in the relationship, still feeling difficult to FS a stranger.
Since than, the only way I can have paid sex is overnight with a girl and FS in the morning if I get to know the girl thru the time.
I just don't know whether it is my age that retire me from sex or its my mental condition that cut my libido.

I punt because I want to contribute to the society.
most of these WGs need money to lead a better life.
so I decided to punt more in order to donate $$$ to these girls,
And in the process, I sacrifice my body so as to not make these girls feel bad taking my $$$.

This usually happens after you catch your first STD.    Just sit back with the pain and think W T F !!!!

I punt because its cheaper

I punt because most of the sex thing that I wanted to do with my gf she reply me that she was not a prostitute.
So I go to the appropriate person to do what I want and when back to home I do regular position...
Every time we me be careful and use condom.

I punt because of frustration!! lol

Let me see. Regular positions would include mish, cg, doggie, plus, plus, plus. What are you asking your poor gf to do?

My thoughts exactly What is he asking his GF to do, and what the hell is he doing with the WGs?!?!?!?!

I too punt because I'm single and horny.