Hi bros, its been awhile since I wrote anything decent here, not been punting much these days, a quick shag here and there with random WGs but nothing to write about, I am sure some of the bros here knows I have been going to see my favourite massage lady, a few months back while she was still doing her massage job she decided to setup a beauty parlour/veggie massage with her mates, she kept asking for advice about it with me, my dilemma was will she ever go back to her non-veggie massage job? (which i would miss badly) she said she would if the business is quiet or goes out of business, I have been helping her and the company set up the design and concept and the place was launched 2months ago, since then I have been popping in to her and going out for lunch or dinner but for me the spark has gone, I feel she still likes me, she has given me alot of free veggie massages in her company which is nice, she has some of her old punters coming in but would not massage them she would call someone to help them as she said she now the boss i would not massage anyone except me (well of course since i have been helping her and her mates a lot!) like I said I feel my time is up with her and the company, i am bored but don't know how to let her know about it, i am sure she be hurt, i feel she has a BF somewhere which i am not too bothered about. Funny enough her mate (Which i know) is using her old place for massages, and she is one sexy woman but dare not to go up yet unless I ditch my fave massage lady.....oh dear....what shall i do....my heart feels guilty...

move on i guess? not much else to do as she herself wont offer anything to you besides veggie massage right? if youve already tried hinting at about sex but she still doesnt put out, then what can you do? im sure she knows that youre also after sex and not just friendship. shell understand if you see other girls.

I think the only thing you can do bro is just be honest with her.

If you continue to delay by worry of hurting her, she may get more attracted to you and it would hurt her even more??

With problems like this there is no easy solution. Yes she will get upset, but in time she will get over it.

IMHO - probably way much more of a dilemma for you than it is for her.

I hate to say it, as it sounds so condescending - but girls of that persuasion are very practical and KNOWS the realities as it is.  You just got to come clean with her, discuss it properly and move on or get back to how you want your relationship with her to be.

No need to pussy foot on this.

SEAJ

Have you flat out asked her to spend the night with you?  There's no way she's going to boink you in her shop now that she's the boss. These girls are very particular about rank and hierarchy and she's unlikely to risk that by breaking the rules of massage parlor etiquette.  You've had her out to dinner, so see if she'll spend the night at your place afterwards.  The only competition you might have is the business itself.  These owners will work 24/7 to make a gig go, and will ditch BFs to make that happen.  It's nothing personal.

Listen Bro, seems like you care about her a lot more than you are letting on.  

Anyway, if the spark is gone, why are you still seeing her?  Just stop going.  I am guessing she has your digits and you the play the sms-game?  Lots of "goodnite sweetheart" and all that?  If she doesn't have your number (or does but doesn't sms you all the time) than it really isn't that serious.

In the end, your problem isn't any different than a billion other boy-girl relationships.  Each one is different, but mostly the same when you get down to it!

Just go to Coronet Court, you dilemma will be solved instantly.

she pulling a poignant harp against your heartstrings...
you've obviously have feelings for this lady sadly, she's not conveying to you the same
i'm with hunter, move on... time for a new one!

One of the best things about WGs or former WGs is they are very practical. They've seen it all and done it all, be honest that you prefer some action with the message. They will understand, you can put it out there that you will still help the place with the business side of things even if you don't go there for punting if you want.