Exactly the same here... the emotional attachment is still there and is stronger than ever, but physically it just doesn't seem to matter so much anymore with each other, especially as you're getting older.... In the bedroom I would use techniques I learned from outside with WG on SO, but it's just not the same..

Well I think definitely the aging of the body is a major issue. I've grown fat, compared to my younger days of being nice and chiseled. She's no longer in the same athletic shape she was when we first met.

practice makes perfect, that's always true

I dunno why but I got desensitized after mongering and as well as losing interest in having sex with my SO... all I could dream of is mongering some more with top notch performers at saunas where I don't have to do a thing.. The perfect BBBJ ..ice/fire... The slippery massages.... Telling me I'm so big.....sigh..

You and me, mate. We're very much alike. I'm like the guy in the movie "Hall Pass" and try to take mental pictures of girls I'd love to shag, just so I can use as material with having sex with the SO. And no, I'm not totally like the guy in the movie - I don't wank off in my car.

this is the difference between driving ur camry/accord etc... everyday to work
and going to a car lot to drive to test drive a new exotic car
that allure of the new will always have us drooling

LOL. Especially when the camry/accord slowly becomes a Previa/Sienna ...

The hobby has definitely improved my skills.  It gives one the chance to practice particularly nasty moves beforehand so that you don't screw it up with a civvie.  Introducing a civilian girl to a new bit of debauchery requires commitment and a certain  momentum during the act.  If you pause you lose the moment and opportunity and she's almost required to say, "oh no!  I don't do that!"  Keep the speed up and she just goes with the flow, comfortable in the knowledge that she's not as bad of a girl as the act she's currently doing simply because it wasn't her idea!

I think it makes you better. The more you screw, the longer you can last. With women, the longer you can last, the greater chance they will orgasm.

On a side note, after all the mongering I can really appreciate how different pussies can feel. The tight ones with muscle control are just amazing.

LOL. Are you talking about slipping it up her backdoor here, mate?

I don't feel like I can last any longer than when I started...but one thing for sure, I've gotten lazy on bed. I think skills to arouse women probably got better. Especially when I bring back deadfish KTV girls...I have to try make them wet to get them into mood. Easy some times but hard once in awhile...

dead fishes are  the worst
makes me not wanna do anything
im paying to bang a dead animal on my bed  

If you have been mongering  long enough, ml sessions with your gf/so would be like 20-30 minutes on average. If your gf/so realizes as to why you always end on that mark... Maybe because you had way too many one cum punts... In my case, I try to last long within the 30- 45 session as to get value for money. That can be a good thing as you can last long. Kinda like your body has memorized to last that long in sex. So imo I don't think it doesn't make me worse in bed. just be careful of the auto response after sex with your so....  One time after we ml I took my wallet and started counting money....  I realized what I was doing and told her were gonna go shopping... Good thing she didn't suspect anything. Haha!

Not really. I basically now have 2 methods in bed.

When mongering ... usually the girl has a script or is in control, so I just kick back, relax, and enjoy the ride.

When in real life ... it's usually me in control or guiding the action, so I have to kinda direct/push the action where I want it to be.

I think experience and practice in both of those situations have made me much better in bed. I can also pick up the female cues of when they're having fun a lot better. Before mongering, I would basically get hard, ram til I pop, and be done. I was horrible. LOL.

haha, thats hilarious
did u ask her for her QQ?? haha

dont u think u get lazy.. like you dont need to bring ur A game. because you know u can have sex with them again??

makes ya fuck your regular gf like she's a porn star....then she's thinkin "WTF?"

Perhaps I'm weird but a decent part of the enjoyment I get comes from seeing/hearing/feeling that I am turning on the girl I'm fucking, whether she's a civvie or WG.  So I know my skill set has improved over the years as I've just gotten a lot more experience in both foreplay as well as actual intercourse.  So that's good for my "real world" relationship as well.

backdoor, frontdoor and down-the-hatch!  It's amazing what some civvies haven't done in their lives but secretly wished they had.  There's an amazing number of girls who've never had CIM, but if you get them to come along in the heat of the moment they will revel in all kinds of nastiness.  I remember one civilian who had never done oral OR anal but she just got so into the pace of things that she was intent on taking it in every hole.  Sadly, my fourth round with her was back to oral (the prior rounds were: cum in mouth, cum in pussy and cum in ass) and, whereas she had choked and gagged down the first load of the evening, this time when I got close she pulled me out and licked and jacked my member right over her face (she was kneeling I was standing) in a clear desire to get her face splattered.  Well, as I said, it was my fourth orgasm in less than two hours and the cum factor was VERY underwhelming the poor girl wasn't sure if she should display confusion or disappointment.   I got a big fat droplet on her nose that kind of dribbled down to her nostrils, so minimum splatter, maximum cum smell: a very poor return on her investment.

I agree with the idea practice makes perfect. Being new to monering, I learned quite a few new techniques and seem to last longer. I thought without the emotional attachment I would cum faster since it is all about the physical  rather than the emotional. My DATY skills hopefully got better or the WG are just great actresses.

The few WGs that I had a great experience with was because we hit it off really well. Chatted up a bit and flirted. It is all new so you get a bit of the emotional side and a lot of the physical side.