Hello all,

Of late I have been looking at the girls database here and I have to say it gives me the urge to just hop in a taxi and make my way there! But due to work and my other halfs presence I can't really get the time to slot myself in for the trip. But of late, when me and my girlfriend are in the "business" I have been closing my eyes and fantasise that my girlfriendis in fact one of those girls in the database.

I asked myself this question when I was in the shower last night and just wanted to know that do any other of you bros do the same out there?

And is it wrong to do so??

Thanks!!

Oh man sparky, don't you know that's sooo wrong?  

The only thing in your mind should be the girl you're inside ...

... according to the girl anyway!

Its nothing wrong with it. Mens are the way we are now. We all tend to look for better than what we already have. You just need to know the line between having and cheating.

everybody likes variety
the database is like a smorgasbord
a buffet to choose from if you please
we simply like to try something different once in a while
simply put; we're just curious and fantasiese about the what if's...

don't think there's anything wrong, just human nature mate

LOL !

Responses made me chuckle a bit, appreciate the replies fella's, but i do understand what you all mean, when I first met my girlfriend she was stunning and every male that walks past her will give the "eye" ..

I love her to bits, but I guess that even if you are with the worlds hottest woman, you would still get bored .. right?

But like cookiemonsta said, this database is like my little blackbook, but online hahaa

OH, and why is it that everytime we go out with our other half, there always seems to be stunning girls around ya, but unfortunately we cannot stare and catch the eye of them since im holding my grilfriends hand and everytime they see stunners themselves they will always try to catch you out .. Where as .. when im by myself there aint no good lookers to be seen anywhere !!!

'cause you wouldn't be going to women's department stores on your own... *would you?*
...lol...

basically, you're not going to places where you would normally go with your SO where other of their kind are around... *hint*hint*

If you put it that way, I can see your point cookie !! Hahaaa

i think most of the people on this forum here don't have to fantasize about doing it with the wg bc they ACTUALLY do it with them so that takes the mystique out of the equation.

nothing wrong at all, u dont think shes fantasizing about tom cruise?
haha, as long as u dont call her the wrong name u shud be kool

I guess calling out another girls name whilst in the groove with your missus is every bros worst nightmare! Putting that in perspective, I wonder if any bros on here had actually got BUSTED by their partners for visiting WG or HG? I guess it's over if they do?? I'm scared on my missus finding me surfing this web page let alone doing it. I'm using this webpage on my iPhone only as I don't to leave any marks on the pc

I guess calling out another girls name whilst in the groove with your missus is every bros worst nightmare! Putting that in perspective, I wonder if any bros on here had actually got BUSTED by their partners for visiting WG or HG? I guess it's over if they do?? I'm scared on my missus finding me surfing this web page let alone doing it. I'm using this webpage on my iPhone only as I don't to leave any marks on the pc

good idea to not use the home PC
im very sure there are poeple that have been busted by the SO
verrrrrrrry sure

Simple solution to that one: don't EVER UNDER ANY CIRUCUMSTANCES, WHATEVER THE TEMPATION, speak or even think the name of your partner during sex.  ANY partner.  Never.  

Plenty of alternatives most girls actually prefer: "honey" "my love" "darling" "bitch" etc etc

that way you've got a chance that if you are asleep, or half asleep, or getting lost in a fantasy deeper than Inception, whatever comes out has a chance of being fail-safe.


sure it happens

happens a lot

no 1st hand experience beyond being seen walking with a gf, but you can find reports here.  Go searching.  

honestly, think about it: the majority of the work done by counsellors and therapists relates to couples fighting over something, and the majority of what they fight about is sexual cheating.  I believe few people go to see a counsellor BEFORE cheating, neither men nor women.  

Basically two rules:
  until it happens assume it will be the end of everything as you know it, and act accordingly.  Partition.  Build Chinese Walls.  Constantly scrutinise your cover story.  Maximise plausible deniability.  Reflect on backup plans. And above all keep things as normal as you can.  
  WHEN it happens (and assume it will happen), do NOT assume it's the end of everything as you know it ...

what happens next is completely unpredictable, as it depends 100% on your unique individual circumstances, and further depends on what happened and how you were caught, and culture, and history, and her personality, and your personality, and, and, and ...  It ALSO depends on what your own intentions are, and your skill in handling a tense situation.  

If it's not worth the risk, don't do it.
and a corollary: if there's any less risky way to do what you need to do, choose the less risky way.

[ Last edited by  DArtagnan at 22-8-2011 10:56 ]

My mate got caught.  Happened over 3 years ago and although they are still together his wife still breaks down randomly and cries her heart out.  They'll be fine for months and then something will trigger this response.  

Be careful Bros!!  

Or ---- go so stark-raving nuts with your exploits your SO would never believe for a million years you would do something like that!  (:> Works for me.  Hehe.

It is up to your discretion to think about those WGs while you are with your girl. But obviously it isn't good for the relationship.

Wow... After reading Darts reply it just kinda makes me think our Lil bro below is a proper asswipe, I mean at the end of the day it's still going in a juice hole, right? So how comes we always seem to have an urge to" dip into another sauce" hahaa.

I always ask my girlfriend would she ever get tired of my Lil bro and have an urge to try elsewhere.. And she answers " nope, why? Are you getting bored of me?"
Awkrad (brain malfunction, can't remember how to spell awkrad? iPhone wont auto correct me too) silence , pure silence, my brain was tryin to conjure something up bit was really hard, and then she carries on by saying women don't have the same vharateristics as men in terms of gettin bored or having the urge to dip somewhere else!

Surely this is nonsense? I mean girls must get the urge to dip somewhere else too , surely!! ...

I have this page saved under kangaroo on my phone hope she doesnt decide to check Joey out lol

Fact 1 Women are different from men

A woman's body releases large amounts of oxytocin when it orgasms - that's the hormone that causes attachment, same way as a baby goose attaches to the first thing it sees when it comes out of its egg.  She cums, she latches onto whoever she's looking at (sound familiar, boys?).  So yes, most women tend to hold onto a sex partner rather than want to mix n match ... but that's "most", not "all" ... because


Fact 2 Women are the same as men

It's been found that women have testosterone too, not just men ... but some women have more than others.  Why do some girls get horny and jump your bones, and others don't?  Now you know why ...

Some women DO want to try other guys,
not just for biological (or hormonal) reasons,
and with DNA testing there's plenty of examples being found of "dads" raising kids they didn't realise are not theirs.  
It's a cliche that a woman wants one man to be a reliable and subservient provider, and a completely different guy for horizontal entertainment

Come to think of it, some of the bros know this one very well

BTW, men also release oxytocin when they orgasm, just not as much as women.  Guys get attached too ... remember that sinking feeling?  Yup, it's chemical.

you wouldnt have an explaination as to whats going on when women hate us would you?
haha, that would be extra helpful

Actually I do, here's how I see it:-

Firstly you have to understand that whatever a girl feels (actually same applies to guys too) is all about her own beliefs and interpretations, and it actually has nothing whatsoever to do with who you really are.  If she loves you, she doesn't really love you: she's just chosen you to attach her feelings of insecurity and loneliness and desire for sexual fulfilment to.  [OK it can happen, but it's very rare, that a girl should truly accept you and want you as you really are, as distinct from the guy that you represent in her mind.]
BTW that model also explains very neatly why it is that girls want to control their guy so tightly.  

Secondly - a bit deeper - everything in the Universe only exists in relation to its opposite.  
This is also true of the mind: nothing exists in a vacuum, and every thought appears in balance with its opposite.  

Ergo love only exists in relationship to fear.  (Anger and hate are special cases of an expression of fear, the "fight" versus the "flight").  
Ergo intense feelings of love, attachment, desire, longing to be with someone, etc. automatically bring with them all the worst fears of rejection, loneliness, abandonment, fear of death, etc.  

A bit deeper, the sort of possessive love that we often see has less to do with love, than with fear of loneliness and a desire to take control.  

All of that together means that any time we ("her" guy) fail to match the template she has in her mind, she experiences panic, and blames us for it.  Getting angry is just a way to try to take control ...

A very illustrative specific case in my own life, in my 20s I was part of a diverse social group in my town.  Everyone was very nice (really, not fake) and we got on very well.  Except for one woman, who hated me, and although I never knew about it she would go around bad-mouthing me to anyone who would listen.  Some years later a girl in the group, who was my girlfriend at the time, told me about this woman and suddenly burst out laughing "I bet she's actually attracted to you and wants you for herself!" she said.  So there you have it: the observation of a woman about a woman's view!  


Now, for my next trick, watch closely as I prove that black equals white and .....

Good thing women can't read our minds.  men would all be in big trouble.

But don't be fooled, she is thinking about other guys huge cocks sliding in and out of her pussy