(A rambling, woolly post)

I heard this a few times (thankfully not in the context - you are sh*t in bed, it's all the mongering your doing).

I can see the argument.  With a WG you don't have to please her, you can just lie back and be pleased.

Or, you can think you are pleasing her, when really you ain't.  (Hopefull SO has the manners to sometimes do this too.)

But I feels mongering is making me better, I'm practising more that's for sure.  But I want to give a good performance, in part so as to get better service but also cos that's how I want to be.

On the hand how can you truly trust the feedback.

Dunno, any bros with any views?

Actually, for me is the opposite.
I can now cultivate the art of lasting longer and able to control my cum.
2 years ago, my SO claimed that my dick grew thicker and longer.....shut up!!!
(Prolly I got stretched too much by thousands of pussies)
She receive more pleasure (multiple cums) now than before.

She love me banging her hard and last longer. Letting her ride  me till she cum....

It works better for me now.....yeah baby!

But I still cant master the art of DATY,  I just refuse to go down South due to Musky Smell Phobia...call me inconsiderate

[ Last edited by  hunter at 4-8-2011 09:47 ]

That's like those ads all over the internet.

"You too can have a thicker, longer penis.  Simply follow our 'thousand pussy program' to reach your full potential."

I too can prolong better.  For me I'm being a cheapskate, I want to get my moneys worth.  Shame, quickies can be fun.  Maybe I should do my multiple shots-style punting.

Actually I think I can guess how many punters will agree with the title of this post.  ZERO   Whose gonna say: "yes it's true, I am now sh*t in bed."

[ Last edited by  bcs74 at 3-8-2011 19:21 ]

It's made me much better.  Like all things, practise makes perfect.....

You also learn about people too as people skills go up.  Learn some new positions that some prefer.  I am sure there are little tricks people learn to optimize a more wild time.


If its worse in bed, you are doing something wrong.  Change the routine or change a new girl

For me personally it has made me more experienced, when your with a w/g your are able to relax more. And do
More things, than you otherwise may not try/do with you g/f.

It's a completely different experience for me.  When I'm with a WG it's more about just sex.  I don't concern myself too much with her needs.  When I'm with my SO, I'm much more attentive.

I can't say it makes me a better or worse lover.

definitely made me better! i remember how i used to fuck when i was just starting out... couldnt even pump consistently as my ab and thigh muscles werent used to fucking. id fuck for a couple of mins and id get cramps.

i'm a strong believer in practice makes perfect
however, i get asked the silliest question after an exhausting conquest: 'how many partners have you had?'
--> never given a straight answer... always danced around the topic<--

i think i got better.... i guess with mongering means more sex
which equals more practice and we know practice makes perfect

so when i'm with a civie i know i have more experience than most guys she's been with, so i wouldn't say it makes me worst but quite the opposite

My pussy fingering skills definitely improved.
Was coached by my sauna mentor.
She taught me how to find the G-spot.
Doesn't work all the time, but at least I did manage to please some chicks.

But I must admit, going too often to China sauna had made me a fucking lazy fucker.

how can it make you worse?  practice makes perfect!

This is so true.
Sometime I get piss off because she refuse to give me a BJ. (Me bad I know!!)
When she gave me a BJ and I expect a CIM but pull off her mouth away on the dot, I got so mad.....
Sometime, after CIM, I still want another pop after 5 mins rest (thinking about multipops Sauna ) but usually end up we both fell asleep.
I know, we are spoilt.
But I forgive her........

Also, I get so tired and lazy going missionary. I rather let her fuck me and always finish off with CG.

Unfortunately it seems like I'm the only one who's gotten worse since punting! After being with so many beautiful women who are willing to do everything  (almost) I'd like, I've found that being with my SO in the past few years has been quite "boring" and hard for me to stay erect at all times. Maybe we need to spice things up in bed?

Might make ya a bit spoiled but not worse.

I do think whats worse or best depends on the girl though. Some like it longer in bed some dont, some like many positions, some dont. I havent monger yet but I guess I do agree if mongering makes you more experienced in bed, coz what I feel, having sex again and again only improves not worsen. Maybe by being with different person often could see you understand how to please each of them.

Worse in bed for you or for her?!?    I find that when I'm with non-WGs, I still know how to please them and do whatever it is that they need to get off.  However, I still prefer the BJ and CIM that I get from the WGs.  I guess that I find my performance and stamina have changed for the better, but my expectations for the worse .

Hey Bro,

I get what you are saying... how do you go from "porn star experience" back to your average sex with your SO?  I gotta ask you though..., do you truly love her?  Sorry for the maybe-too-personal-question, but I ask because of my own experience:  I have been with my gal for more years then some 141 members have been alive.  A long time.  I can fuck for hours with a WG (or three) and only cum when I decide I'm "done" and let 'er go.  With my SO I have to concentrate to NOT cum!  Still!  After all these years, hearing, seeing, feeling her get worked up and close makes me want to blast my load and I gotta fight it back.  

There is no question that the emotional attachment makes the sex better - even if it is only the simple missonary position over and over.  No pussy has ever felt better than hers.  (to me).

Anyway, punting has made me much better as I am confident as hell in trying anything.. and confidence gets a girl hotter and more accomodating than almost anything else.

i have definately gotten better
its good practice esp since u r picking a hot chick

Of course I love my SO still, but I think our emotional attachment is much stronger than our physical attachment now. Sex maybe once a month. But we enjoy greatly our time together. Cooking, shopping, watching movies, tvs. We still PDA even on the MTR, but in the bedroom it's just getting boring.