An Ode to Xiao Xiao

Am inspired   to go ahead and put up this thread by what    netlan, wander, bigswingingdik and bonkers89    are commenting/asking about mainland Chinese girls on my thread:

School teacher turned to WG – what a waste! http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... id=32854&page=2

  NOTE - this is actually a C+P of a couple previous posts I had put up on another board about a particular BBS girl Xiao Xiao.

I got to know her well and really cared about her/had quite a long lasting relationship with;  a REAL trooper who was always honest with me - and a 100% performer ever so nice to me at all times.  

I’ll try to put up some pixs of her when I get back to the office computer – but meanwhile:
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And talking about memory and old girl friends etc, you remember Xiao Xiao?
The gal you kept on asking me about after my suggestion for you to do her?
Did you ever do so in the end?

Another really great gal - and certainly NOT one of your lazy post 90's generation!
I really miss her and wish her the best.
And yes, I think and really wish that she's out of the trade now.
But I don't put too much hope in that.

And just to be reminiscing, it’s the old Pimp and gal story.
Only this time a lot worse about Xiao Xiao IMHO.
This gal had originally been just a factory worker, got wined and dined as usual by the pimp and fell totally and madly in love with him. The worst part is that this bum was also a heavy duty drug addict, and so he turfed her out to work at a Longang BBS for RMB 100. YES RMB 100 per pop, with her keeping just RMB 70, whilst the mommie kept the 30.
He even taught her all the WG skills and she really is one of the best blowers I've had - all the PSE action and everything – ALL from the BF’s coaching.

And this gal loves this bum so badly that she would a lot of time just rush back home after doing a client and give him her RMB 70, just so that he can get his "Sniff" right away before going back to work.

Well, he got caught and was sent to jail. And can you believe it?? Even when he was in jail, he had some kind of Svengali hold over her and she went to CP to work AND saved all her money to 1. Pay the bribe to see him in jail (and here I THINK the BF was in cahoots with the Jail guard and would split the supposed "bribe" she paid) 2. Give money to him when she does see him. 3. Save money to build up an amount that they could use to be together when he gets out. And all along, she would hardly spend a dime on herself – not even to eat!

Remember how painfully skinny she was?
That's because she would hardly EVER go out to eat by herself, preferring to instead wait for her clients to treat her for food or snacks and she saving her money.
I asked her what happens if the client does NOT treat her to something to eat and she was really hungry, and she replied me that she would then be forced (Yes, she used the word "forced") to go and eat at a MaaLaaTaang stand but that she would limit herself to RMB 4 there. Pitiful, really pitiful!

Lately, the BF got out of jail and she went off to be with him with me wishing her all the luck that she truly deserves.
I've respected her wishes for me NOT to call her - She's got my phone number still and she's promised me that if she was going to go back into the business that I would be the first one she would call.
And up to now, I've NOT received her phone.

Good luck and my best wishes to you Xiao Xiao!

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OK. Time for ME to go back and also reminisce about Xiao Xiao.
That gal who sold herself for her useless drug-addict BF (PIMP!) even though he was already languishing in jail.

Xiao2's stoic and dignified willingness to pursue life in the tenuous and dangerous world that paid sex is, just tugs at my heart-strings. No, not grit or determination and conversely not just resigning herself to fate, but her cheerful and naive willingness to sacrifice herself for that worthless manifestation of what a human being could degrade themselves to, truly speaks volumes about the kind of person she is.

Like I said, I would have been truly honored if she, or anybody else for that matter, could love me as unconditionally as she does her BF. And to a certain extent, it does reveal the basic generous / self sacrificing nature of Chinese women-folk.

SEAJ

Ps edit
A few of my pictures I managed to "Lift" back from the other forum - just as a meanwhile!

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 3-9-2011 15:08 ]

Hmmmm........ now i'm considering to find a PRC girl to become my wife.

Especially if there is one like her

[ Last edited by  SilverBird at 2-9-2011 23:55 ]

holy crap, after reading that story, i would gladly pay her (without even laying a finger on her..... ok fine.... maybe just once ) to NOT go back to that boyfriend! Keep her out of that shit.

Looking through the "other forum" searching for some more pixs of Xiao Xiao etc - I instead saw a few of old pixs of other gals I had put up.
And DANG - some of these pixs actually look pretty good!

Hope you don't mind me putting up some random ones.
And before you ask - yes, they're all my own pixs! LOL

First one is of "A" Kuen - an assistant mommie/WG from the old Swan Lake KTV/BBS and the second one is of a Sauna girl from Chang An - I think TFML while I cannot think who the third one is - maybe even the same sauna gal?  Whaddya think?!

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 3-9-2011 15:53 ]

Nice story, but I think very common with Chinese girls.

I also had that experience with a Chinese girl, not that I am a drug dealer and pimp, but sometimes you really think Chinese are very naive and not always realistic, giving themselves 100% in a relation. When it happens to you, it is very touching, seriously

Those girls are the proof that people don't always put themselves first, and that Chinese people are not intrinsically individualistic as we often hear in western medias.

And thus why I posted this in Monger's lounge;  But since I did post up my checklist on the  
SUGGESTIONS/GUIDE FOR NEWBIES" thread,
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... page%3D1&page=2
Guess it'd be best if I myself would use the checklist!!  LOL!

Date of session: For about 6 months on and off a couple years ago
Location: Chang Ping, Dongguan, Guangdong province
Name: XIAO XIAO
Link: None, but she worked out of the Jun Hui KTV/BBS and then switched to the Li Hao KTV. Believe she's now gone back home
Face: 7/10 - VERY good looking with make-up on (near 9/10) but not so great in the morning! Small eyes is her biggest draw-back.
Body: 6/10 Very skinny, small but nice boobs; very well proportioned with GREAT skin. You tell me what you think!!
Skill: 9.5/10 knows just about all the tricks in the book! Will not do Anal/never asked her for?
Service: 8/10 Even with me, she refuses to "Tea bag" or even lick my scrotum - under strict instruction from her Pimp BF that such is reserved ONLY for him.  Even when she's with me/ANY customer, the shadow of this bum looms large.
Estimated age of the girl and/or actual age: 20 at the time
GFE: a solid 9.5/10 as she was truly a good friend of mine...and treated me accordingly
PSE: again a solid 9.5/10 and IMHO, one of the best BBBJ/CIM I've had
Price: When I first met her 200/600 but then she became a 2/5/8 KTV gal; I always just pay her whatever.
Agent: At first, "A" Lien, the Jun Hui Mommie who's now no longer around.
Language: Just about only Putonghua unfortunately - but understand all of my lousy Cantonese accented "Bai Tong Hua" well!
Pros: A very straight/honest person willing to do just about anything for me; She'd "hunt-up" great colleagues either as Double or even Triple-Fly's or just for 1-1, loves to just hang out and is more of a friend rather than just a WG - but who nonetheless WAS one of the best, most consistent and enthusiastic performers I've had. Nice gal!
Con: What else - that she's so much under that Pimp BF's influence etc
Summary: Sorry that you guys cain't experience her no more - but let me assure you, there ARE tons of these type of gals in China!
Detailed report of your experience: Please refer to above post #1

Whew....That REALLY covered a lot of ground!   If I may say so myself - that IS a pretty good check-list!!

You guys oughta have a gander over to that suggestion thread and consider using it for your next report. THANKS!

SEAJ

Ps edit:

Just thought of something!!
That perhaps using any checklist to include just about ALL the pertinent information etc may NOT be such a good thing!
One writes up reports in the spirit of sharing and caring AND/BUT also to get recognition by way of K point awards; but if one already puts up ALL the pertinent data/info right off the bat, then there's hardly any room for any questions/asking for more information - and we all know that such questions etc is what keeps a thread alive...and in the eye-sight of more members...and most likely more K awards!
So perhaps using a check-list ain't such a good idea after all!
Like I said, just a thought.

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 3-9-2011 14:51 ]

Your story reminds me of the character Sharon Stone plays in "Casino". Madly in love with James woods and giving him everything even though hes such a bum.

most if not all Chinese girls including my SO think their family is #1, then their kids, then their husband/SO.  Thus, a fucked up relationship happens a lot of the time.

Yeah - the old saying - "the rougher you treat a gal, the more she comes back to you" many times applies;  I mean I've seen some pretty grotty handling of gals who instead of just going vamoose will instead dote on their tormentor.  Strange how gals can be.

But this case of xiao Xiao is just way overboard IMHO!! I actually couldn't believe how she or ANYBODY could have gone through what she had (and probably still going through) and to do so with such utter lack of hesitation or even questioning; she just went through it all as if it was the most natural thing to do...enthusiastically to boot!

Sigh.....! I truly would be honoured if ANY gal would love me the way that Xiao Xaio loves that bum

SEAJ

I can attest to the loyalty (and somewhat foolishness) of a PRC girl (not a working girl), this one was my girlfriend for three years who lived over here in Australia. From the get go she knew my family situation and I was very clear that I would not leave my family in any circumstances. She agreed to this but never truely accepted it as I found out in the course of our relationship. We had a couple of holidays together and she kept raising the idea of buying a house together and these conversations never went well as I kept bringing her back to rule #1 - we leave the family out of it. Totally devoted and never tried to get money or gifts from me, lovely, lovely girl and incredible in bed.
Yadda, yadda,ya - tried to end it with her severl years in but she went a bit crazy on me. We agreed that she would end our relationship at a time of her choosing - strange but true - which ended up ok but not without some dramas.
Live and learn, i'm probably just a bastard but do feel that if you are upfront with girls they should understand what they are signing off for, this is certainly not the case in my experience. Much easier to pay to play, relationships primarily based on sex (even mutually satifying in that regard) are just too much trouble.

Women (maybe men too?) make poor decisions when in love.

i've had relationships with several chinese girls like this. my current HK SO is just like this. when you really sit down and have a hard think about how loyal they are it does pull at the heart strings.

Same here, bro.

Fear does crazy things to a person.  Methinks he's all she's got and he makes her fear for her life to a point where she just submits to her situation.

In China, Fear > Happiness...

Thanks for the feedback - guys.

But up to here, we've all  just been pointing out the unique trait and characteristics of the Chinese female - or perhaps even just a  "females" in general.

The thing I wanted to emphasize in this thread is the unfairness of Chinese society - where the dichotomy between the haves and the have-not's is just too glaring and ......too unfair to the down-trodden. (or maybe I should do this on the A Ching thread i/o here?)

For people who have chosen "noble" professions such as teaching, nursing or even the brick layers, street sweepers etc ( please don't tell me that these are NOT noble professions!), the odds are so stacked against them.

And it's such a pity - and have also gone a long way to forming the Modern Chinese society as being just about money and not much else.

SEAJ
edit in italics

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 4-9-2011 01:04 ]

sharon stone was a gold digging junkie/alchie who deniro was truely in love with in casino

sad story.  thanks for sharing.  i think in a way thats the best part of mongering in china besides the mindblowing sex is the atmosphere and attitude there now.  yes they are wg's but you can hang out with them and develop quasi-relationships.   contrast it to here in the states whereyou can't/don't want to see the hooker in your real life.

my question out of curiosity is that since you know a lots of these chicks for extended periods...did you ever keep any officially as er nai?  and what is your stance on that? let me know if its too personal.

yeap such a different type of WG you can only find in china it seems. They are wg but they never see themselves as a wg, its kinda strange how some wg block it out of their mind.

Yes, IMHO WG's in China are a lot less "hardened" than in most other places.

Most of these gals had decided that the only way they could get ahead in life is to go and sell themselves - LITERALLY whilst they still could. Most plan on only doing this until they can get enough to build a house for their family, help out their family out of some immeditate needs, start some kind of business or even put together enough cash/net worth for them to be able to pick and chose who they marry - the thinking being that if they have more net worth, then they can "match" guys/famlies that is "worth" more.

In most cases, they'd be out there for 3 or 4 years max and do revert back to "Civvie Life" after this "golden period of their youth and most beauty" which they truly feel they must take advantage of or it would be just a waste.

Oh of course I'm generalsing which may not be good for there ARE WG's in China who're nothing like I described; but these - I'd offer you the explanation - are those who got caught up in the life-style, the high living, the easy money - and also in many cases, drugs, gambling and worst of all, a Pimp Boyfriend.

But since PRC tastes are what they are, any gal over 25 have a hard time making any kind of living as a WG and thus the reason why there are "Older" gals working in Hong Kong and other places around the world.  Some also hang around Shekou in SZ and in more "western" venues like Zapata's in Shanghai, Susie Wong in Beijing etc.

On keeping "er-nai's" well, this is quite acceptable in China/Hong kong historically as well as is the present practices.  All one needs to do is to think about our Casino King, Dr. S. Ho and his 4 wives! In fact, it was only in approximately 1973 that an actual law got on Hong Kong's books that made polygamy illegal - but it still goes on quite a bit and in a lot of cases, quite in the open. Dr. S. Ho's mistake was to have actually kept them all for so/too long - I'm sure to his chagrin as he had recently been embrolied in a feud between the various wives and their own set of progeny on his "estate" - and the guy's not even dead yet!!  LOL!

SEAJ

I find it really sad some times, though we all take advantage of these poor girls.

As promised - some more pixs of Xiao Xiao.

I've also included a couple pixs of gals she introduced to me - one a wild gal who's up to just about anything and a Mommie with quite a select clientelle as she's a genuine squirter (and don't really need too many more clients)

SEAJ
Ps - and before any of you guys complain about the blurring - try using CL's method and SQUINT your eyes at the pictures - enough to get a pretty good idea but not enough for full identification!  LOL!!

PPS Edit - some more pixs of these 3 gals on the Idle Chat thread http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... mp;extra=#pid373857

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 7-9-2011 22:07 ]

Still got quite a few more pixs of Xiao Xiao and her friends - might as well not waste ALL of them

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 8-9-2011 13:26 ]