This is a really strange fantasy.
I rather enjoy my wife myself

... so does Hornychap ... he just plans to enjoy her in a new way ..!

Most guys are so jealous and/or insecure that the idea of the wife having a good fuck with somebody else is too threatening for them to even countenance. Yet these same guys have no problem window-shopping the Gal'DB for some sweet young tush for themselves.

If the wife/GF were to sneak off, like we do, every know and then for a little inconsequential rut with a young bod, would it really make any difference to our relationships? I can even imagine that it might reawaken the dormant sexual animal in an otherwise bored partner.

I thought about this a lot when I was married, since there was obvious inequity to the fact that I was playing around, while my wife was not.  I finally realised that I would actually have been rather overjoyed if my wife had gone for a romp on the side.  Because that would have signaled there was some possibility that she could actually enjoy sex at a pure physical level...  Never happened, though...

Have fun, CGP

Actually, I've found that it can be quite difficult to leave women who won't screw. It can be very hard emotionally to accept the fact that a woman just doesn't want to have sex with you. It becomes a big challenge to prove one's worth. You keep trying to find ways to convince and cajole her into having sex; and the more you try, the less interested she becomes. I've had two GFs like this - and for some reason, it always seems that these women have particularly strong, seductive personalities - and in both cases, when the relationships finally ended - and I never had the strength to walk away, tho in my own defense I was very young - I felt very relieved and kicked myself wondering what the hell I was thinking. It turned out that neither of these girls had ever had a sexually fulfilling relationship with any man, and now, thinking back on it, I'm sure they both were strongly attracted to women.

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You're not kidding it's tough to leave!  Yes, my wife was extremely physically attractive and personable in every way...  Every guy thought I had the catch of the century.  Add three kids, and it made walking away virtually impossible.  I played around for 10 years before she found out and kicked me out for good...  and that was only because my mistress' ex-BF called my wife and read her the contents of emails I had sent to my mistress (after he hacked onto her computer and found them).

It took me about two weeks of depressive silence sitting alone in our vacation house in the mountains to realise that our relationship was totally dysfunctional, and that the ex-BF had actually done me an invaluable favour.  It is now obvious in hindsight that we were two trains on the same track, headed inexorably toward a collision.  Anyone viewing the trains from above could have seen what was going to happen.  But for the two of us, each riding our own train, it came as a big surprise...

I don't think my ex-wife is attracted to women in the least.  I think she is simply asexual.  I should have seen this coming...  She identifies very strongly with her mother.  Her father walked out on her mother when she (her mother) was 39.  The mother later went out on one date -- decided it was too much trouble -- and never dated again.  I am virtually sure that her mother has not had sex with a man since her husband left 43 years ago.  There's a message there that I should have read more carefully, LOL!  And I would be willing to bet good money that my ex-wife will follow in her mother's footsteps...  and never have sex again either.

I guess I'll have to do the Lord's work for all three of us!    

Have fun, CGP

Hi guys, I totally understand the skepticism and I believe we have to exercise extreme caution when trying anything via the internet. But I assure you that I am totally legit.

Some of you have correctly pointed out that sometimes fantasies are meant to be fantasies forever. Hence, my wife and I have been struggling and continue to struggle with this idea. The fantasy drives our passion to incredible heights when we make love. But we still cannot overcome the dangers, such as meeting psychos, getting infected with sexual diseases etc.

Accordingly, my initial plan is just to meet like-minded people and leave the possibility open after everyone has become good friends and feel totally comfortable about taking it the next level.

If there are like-minded people out there in hong kong willing to try, please let me know. For a start, maybe the guys can meet first. To avoid pics floating around, we could share pics in person without losing possession over them. Then if the guys like each other and the pics they have seen, then maybe we could go on a group date and take it from there.

What do you think?

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Consider going to forums and looking for some swingers meetings.  These are where couples come together and swap partners.  Many meetings have the members wear masks so no one knows who the other partners are.  Basically an orgy style meeting for sure sex.  Great for couples who are both open minded and looking for some fun beyond each other's company.

wow..thats a really weird fantasy

may i ask what about taht turns you on? why westerner? why no black?

you know bro caligynephliac,

some girls dont need sex... or don't show it anyway... i don't know why.. some girls i don't don't even like it... or can live without it.. us bros., sometimes it's hard to control our sexual desires either it be just looking at hot women on the streets or actually going punting in hong kong china..

now i understand why so many guys go to china to get the wives is because some of them are less materialistic and simply.. u get what u want...!

Hey, honestly there are such things that are ongoing.
I heard of some "yahoo group" email list where they update you the location and time so that you can bring your girlfriend or wife for foursome or mass orgy where you can see your partner having sex with someone and you having sex with another.

For you info it's free thou may be illegal in most countries.

Yeah I've heard that one a few times ... "I went x years without sex" ... as she demands when we're going to meet next!!

But then, I know some GUYS who don't seem to need sex - like, once a month satisfies them ... no comprendo ... but it takes all sorts ...