Now that you broke her in and told the ropes she will probably be working the WanChai DH circuit before long.

Oh yeah about the offer:

I offered my honor
and she honored my offer

SO..................................

I was off her and on her all night     

I'm just saying.....

Che'lu

Ahem . . .

"He offered his honor,
She honored his offer,
And all through the night, he was on her and off her"

Hmmm, I don't know if this good or bad.  But I gotta think good just because she seems genuinely happy.

Here's the latest... I get am sms from Eva just now;

"Hehehehe.....  Nice guy want to fuck me!  He gonna pay too.  Gonna buy clothes for my sister!  Hehehehe.".

What to think?  I sorta pulled her off the edge of doing it....  Kinda feel bad, but also happy that she can earn.  

Hmmmm, I dunno.    Bad?  Good?  I dunno....

So I am sitting in Queen Vic with a long-time mate of mine discussing this very girl.  Yeah, he knows my sins...  He plays too ---- though not very often.  He gets a hoot out of watching me.
  
Anyway, a couple gals stroll down the road.  One is super-hot.  What a face, eyes, smile, ass! Mmmm, Mmmmmmmmm.  

And she suddenly heads on over to where I am seated on my stool, gives me a huge cuddly hug and says "Mmmmm, hi Wander baby, sorry gotta go now, but I be back.... Wait please".  Kisses....

And then gone.

My mate says "Ummmm, WOW, which one was THAT?".  I say, "Ummm, I don't know!".  Wish I DID know!  She was hot!!!!  

How I can possibly forget a super cute gal like that is beyond me...  I mean she was REALLY REALLY pretty!  But --- absolutely no recollection at all!  Fuck!  

It is so weird having that conversation.  "You don't remember me?". "Ummm, yeah..., of course baby???!!??".  Really sucks...  thank god I'm in HK, as anywhere else the gals would crucify me!!!!

If she was on the edge she would have gotten there eventually. Better you than some smuck with bad intentions and insight.

Her sister will need some coaching too

Ever thought of opening a school???

O.K., first: lol for the sister comment.

But second: it is your opening line that betrays the dilemma about 'breaking in' a new girl.  On the one hand, it's nice for the girl to have her first time be with a nice guy (albeit a 'nice guy' who can't remember her OR her name! ), but the dilemma is that experience misrepresents the profession she's about to step into and label herself with for the rest of her life.  And I think that's what Wander is alluding to in his earlier post about being ambivalent about breaking her in; she's a sweet girl and she's going to have some fun, but she's probably going to have many more ill mannered slobs than she's going to have handsome, considerate, forgetful clients.

So is it better for the girl's first experience to be with a 'typical' punter, or even one of the assholes ("yeah I pounded her hard!"), or is it better for her to be broken in by Prince Charming?

Don't get me wrong, I like a very large pool of girls to choose from and play with, but I also like to think they know what they're getting into.  I've broken in a few as well in my time, so I have the same ambivalence as Wander about the whole thing.  Personally it can be a fun experience having a girl who's anxious to dive into the deep end of the erotic pool ("come back! You no fuck me doggie yet!" Classic!), but I'm also cognizant of how a girl forever limits her options by choosing this track.  I think we all agree that it's right for some but not all.

I guess I wasnt really thinking that I was any better for her first-time than most other Bros.  Most Bros seem to treat the gals well - certainly the subset of Bros that post on 141 all seem too.

I suppose I was just thinking that her getting into the life at all is sad.  Yeah -- I do know bargals that have fun for a while.  But the fun wears off quickly...  as they age their options vanish and their earning power diminishes.  

On the other hand, today she'll wake with $1,000HK more than she had yesterday - which is a lot given her weekly DH salary is only $1,100HK.  A week's extra pay for some fun on her day off. Not a bad deal, right?  Anyway, her life, her choices.., she seemed awfully pleased about it all, so there ya go...

Her story is rather interesting:

She was a from a very devout Muslim family back in Indonesia.  And was "sold" by her papa to be the wife of a guy who owed him a lot of money.  He could not pay, so instead he agreed to marry one of his daughters.  

She was Wife #5.  Wow....  Such a different world to how I grew up in the west.  

Anyway, she was treated very, very poorly. Wife #5 is essentially a slave that might get fucked every now and then.  she wore the full burka and during sex they used a sheet that opened only to show her pussy.  That was the only sex she knew about...

Finally, after 6 years she was able to divorce and flee.  Cigarette burns sacr her arm (not done by the husband, but by wives 3 and 4).    It was enough, finally.. For her papa to allow her to leave without killing her for the family disgrace.  (Fuckin hell!!!).  

I learned all this after our "doggie session". I asked her why she never tried it before, as it is not uncommon.  She told her tale....  I was her first "regular" sexual encounter she's ever had.  Hence her nervousness.

Wow.  I, for one, am indeed fascinated and moved to learn about the lives of the gals I am with.  Some BS a bit to get the sympathy-vote - but I am pretty good and cutting thru the lies and getting to the core....a lot of practise, I suppose.  

Eva now sms's me pretty much every day (damn...., but okay.., it'll fade naturally.., always does).  

My point?  Getting to know your girls is wonderful...  It's a free education, (with perks), its fascinating, and it brings you closer so quickly.  I know many want to get in and get out without a single serious thought or emotion developed -- (fine) but I say -- try it!  

Next time, bros, give it a shot and ask the questions to get to know her.  (Not in an interrogation style, mind you --- it has to be a natural back'n'forth, remember that being comfortable and having fun is rule One!