Hi everyone!

I am coming to HK for the first time and will be staying in a hotel near HK Island from 2/Jan till 6/Jan! (:     A close male HK friend of mine will bring me round (we're just normal friends) and I doubt he will bring me to go mongering or whatsoever.

I lost my "virginity" if you were to say .. when I was 16 years old. I was at Sydney then and visited this Korean Massage Parlor where the girls are 101% genuine Korean girls. The experience was MIND-BLOWING!

On my first virgin visit, I did not allow the girl to BBBJ me as I was shy and I ended up fingering her while she HJ me(: I got scolded when I tried to taste her juice.
On my second visit to that place, I managed to get a BBBJ and a HJ with a different girl , of course.
On my third visit to another parlor, I was 'entertained' by a MILF which I deeply regretted. She BJ me with cap and HJ at the end of the massage.

I entered a strip club with a group of friends in Canada and they , unknown to my prior experiences in Sydney, 'forced' me to have a lap dance with one of girls. Nothing much.. just a white cloth covering my entire bottom and rubbing over me with her nude body. I can't touch her pussy either , only her boobs.

All these happened when I was 16/17/18 ~ I think .. that was  years ago.

Recently, in Singapore, I visited a massage parlor and had a discreet HJ by a China woman in her mid-20s - she allowed me to fondle with her boobs and rub her pussy.

Of course, when I was 16/17/18 - I've got receive many comments that I am VERY young and stuff. I did try to dress up and look like I'm in my early 20's back then.


ALL OF THE ABOVE are my entire sexual experiences .. I had.

To top it off .. I only have one 'fake' relationship with a girl that I didn't like. I did took advance of her by going deeper .. to the extent of having french kiss and tried to have her to touch my rod and me .. trying to finger her with her skirt on .. that's all I have and till now .. she haven't given up any hope on me and I really do not like her..   
I travel often and reside at different places for several months to years.

I've yet to pop my rod at any WGs yet and is totally clueless about it. Even those massage parlors that I went to .. where I get to "finger" the ladies weren't really a true experience because I was practically rubbing her entire pussy .. not her clit.

I'm worried that I might get addicted should I have my first time on a WG.. although past experiences doesn't say so. I'm in my very early 20's and definitely I would want someone that's 18/19/20 and not >25    

Yet, age doesn't matter I guess as long as I get to have my first pop with someone.

I understand that this question has been asked over and over again .. but as written above .. am I still a 'virgin-virgin' since I've HJ/BJ/BJJJ before .. but not CIM/Bareback/intercourse yet ...

What's your thought ?                        I came from a country where prostitution is illegal and most of the WGs are imported.

Save it for my future wife/gf or just go with it since I already have all these experiences?

Fuxk yeah! Sydney ! hahaha which place did you go to?

I do not know if I am allowed to post the details here but I'll just censor part of it! (:

Mid*s
5 GE**LD STREET
Marrick**lle NSW 2*04
AUSTRALIA

Kinda expensive! AUD$120 or AUD$160 for an hour of nude massage!
Ask for Coco, that's if she's still working there! It's been awhile since I've been there.

Do not go to this Chinese massage place near Town Hall area - served by a MILF and felt cheated.

Sadly, I'm located in Melbourne now and under Vic's law, it's illegal to have rug and tug massage service

[ Last edited by  dwintersun at 29-12-2011 04:15 ]

I'm sure if you look back at previous postings you'll notice that there are two viewpoints on this question.

The first is that if you get used to having sex on demand, with whoever you want, just the way you like it, you will find it more difficult to develop a mutually satisfying relationship with a GF.  

The second is that by becoming more relaxed about sex, by starting with 'easy' women, you will be less intimidated by the whole prospect of navigating the whole sexual relationship thing from start to finish - you'll have a couple or three under your belt - even if they are just training wheels.

I tend to belong to the second school of thought - but I guess the key is to know yourself.

Agree with Yazoo. I think that you should start with a civvie rather than a wg otherwise, its like thinking that sex irl is like sex in porn movies, its not (well not always! ;) ). A HJ is very different from FS and this id why most of us look for FS.
You can go tp one of the massage places around your hotel and make up your mind there (between hj, bj or fs). How old are you now? 20to 25?

While it is true that sex with a WG does not represent a "real" GF relationship, I gotta hunch from your post that you understand this well enough.

So, go relieve the pressure, demystify the "act" and pop your cherry.  Di it a few times and get comfortable.  Then go bang that civvie who is chasing you and every other civvies you can.  I bet you lack confidence with gals right?  Well, they sense this and it is rarely attractive to a gal.  So go get some confidence, even with ugly chicks, till you move up the food chain.

My first "bar pickup" was a Milf - not uber hot but nice tits and a great fuck.  I felt awesome afterwards and it boosted my confidence much.  (plus she confessed to her friends that she fucked me and I managed to bang one of them a few months later because she did).  Talk about a good investment!

Wander, u need confidence boosting? Is that possible? haha...Happy New Year..

sounds pretty good to be in your position.

for one thing, you're already on 141, so you're way ahead of all the clueless 20-somethings out there.

Many thanks to fellow bros here for your kind replies!

This goes to show that fellow forumers here are actually kind and doesn't really give any attitude to newbies here(:

I am 19YO and going to be 20 in a couple of months time.

I would say it isn't that much of concern for virgin guys as compared to 'virgin girls'! (:

But the thought of losing my first time to someone older / stranger to me is kinda weird to me (that guilt feeling).

HOWEVER, if you were to look at my situation from the above, I've technically 'given' my first virgin sex-perience to a Korean lady for the first time - where I get to feel boobs and a little of pussy.

I'm worried for myself too. When I'm "restricted" back in my own country, I didn't really go out to have these kind of fun.These temptations arise ONLY when I'm bored and have got nothing to do. It's semester break now!

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I don't know if I'll get flame for saying these .. but just a feeling.

You see.. I don't have any feelings , romantically, for guys here. They're disgusting and I'll only like girls and girl's tits/boobs.  However, sometimes I've wild thoughts of how a dick taste like and even thought of having 3 orgy! LOL these are fantasies but is it wrong to have thought about dicks?!?! LOL but I shall state that I love and enjoy pussies!


HAHAHA hope I can find a cute girl when I'm in HK!   Will the budget of HKD700 be too little/much? Where I can explore every part of her including frenching and giving a good 69?

In the past, this forum have had many posters asking these same questions, sounding sincere by telling us they are inexperienced or virgins ... asking for advise on just about everything under the sun ... most times these people truns out to be trolls having fun at the expense of the helpful nature of bros in this forum ...

The way you are sounding is starting to pretty much fall in line with what I said above, I can give you one advise, what you have are problems in your head ... none of us here are qualified to give you proper advise ... go and see a shrink and don't present us with your problems again !

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