I like to know that it's not like a Big Mac in a McDonald's meaning that the girls don't offer a standardized experience to every customer.  If a customer is a dick, then he gets poor service.  If he reminds her of her ex-boyfriend, a movie star, or she likes the guy's voice or his manners -whatever- then she goes all out for the guy: she may have a real orgasm, let him stay longer than she should, etc.  

One of the things i don't like about reports is actually when guys reports that a girl went all out for them.  Such as DFK, or anal, BJ till coming in the mouth, and a second round 15min later, all for a $400 (or some silly price like that).  And the guy doesn't realize that he was just having good chemistry with the girl and writes it all up as if it's the girl's SOP.  Then the next guy comes along -who's read the report- and he doesn't get half of what the other guy got, and he's pissed off.   So the thing I don't really like about reports is that it might discourage the girls from offering extras when she feels like it, for whatever reason.  As a result, when I've had an exceptional experience with a girl, I tend not to report it.  On the other hand, if a girl is just very pretty or has a very nice smile, or seems to be someone who's always in a good mood, or she's underpriced, I'd report that.

heard this years back and it's always stuck with me.

u need to get somewhere and u need a taxi. u stick out yr hand and wave down a taxi. guy stops, u open the door, he starts the meter and takes u where u wanna go.

maybe (esp in HK) the taxi-driver just smoked a cig and the air is foul. u open a window. other times the car is spotless, u settle back, send a few text msgs, whatever.

after awhile u get to yr destination. sometimes traffic is bad and it's a bit annoying. sometimes it's smooth and no aggro. you're early, u can stop by a nearby shop and pick up something u've needed for a week.

then u pay the guy and get out of the taxi, and someone else gets in.

now, do u fret about who might have taken that taxi earlier that day, yesterday, whatever? do u think: wow, that taxi-driver must not have driven me as well as he drove the next passenger?

no. u don't.

of course, WGs are not taxis--they're ppl with feelings, they get tired, they might have had a string of rude clients, they might be seeing u for the first time. u might have had a bad day at work, argument with SO, whatever. sometimes we ALL have to take one for the team.

or u might have seen them a few times, u bring them some fruit, they're happy to see u. and u end up having a great time. so it's more complex than a taxi-ride, BUT...

both the taxi-driver and the WG are doing their jobs. just as we do our jobs--like another bro pointed out, u might spend time with clients because it's part of doing biz, and that too is work. we do our jobs, they do theirs. sometimes work is fun. sometimes it's a chore.

but no one ever thinks: OMFG, just who was in this taxi last week?

JtB

[ Last edited by  JackTheBat at 12-1-2012 23:19 ]

Com'on brother, that's business.

you should feel grateful for it for receiving such feeling from the girls, some simply made you feel "work done" and "let me get paid"...

last but not least, let's take reading report as "target hunting" but not "performance review"!

If you're feeling any sort of possessiveness or jealousy over a WG then use that feeling as a barometer of your emotional enlightenment and work on evolving this.  Learning to let go of this kind of emotional greed will be good for you not only in this hobby but in your life and work in general.

I'm not arguing for an uncaring attitude, but rather a mental place that is open, accepting and tolerant of others and the reality of their lives.

Jump into multiple, simultaneous, emotionally-charged, ultra-sexual relationships with an armada of gals (both current and former WGs, plus civvies from all over).  Jump into the deep-end with your emotions, and hers, while embracing the gifts this world gave us.  

Then repeat.

And again...

If, after 2 or maybe 3 years, you have the strength left to make some toast in the morning.  You are worthy.      

Sit back and fondle your rolodex....  It will serve you well for years to cum.

The grass is always greener gents, in every way, especially when punting.
There no need for comparitive advantage when punting, it is an endless quest for an impossible goal.
Enjoy the moment.

"Impossible Goal" what's that?  You mean Anal?

with all due respect, the taxi ride and the WG "ride" aren't at all analogous.

more apropos would be any service where preferential treatment is deliberately given to certain customers -- like an airline staffer who bumps up good looking couples to first class, but never does for you and the aging missus.

not only does it engender a sense of unfairness, it also indicates to you, in no uncertain terms, that you don't come across as the kind of person people naturally want to please.

This issue arises quite frequently amongst the Philippines mongering community because most punters there are old white men.  If you tell them that women are only after them for money, they usually get very defensive.  They'll usually say "Filipinas like white guys" or "in the Philippines, age doesn't matter".

Of course, guys are saying this because they truly want to think that the girl likes him.

When I monger, all I care if she gives a damn good blowjob.  No matter how well she treats me, I know she probably won't do it if money wasn't involved.

That being said, prostitutes are human too so they are bound to become geuninely interested in some of her customers.  Unless she does things for free, like agrees to spend time with you for nothing, I think it's a safe bet that you're being treated as a customer and not a love interest.

In all my years mongering in Hong Kong, after 75+ girls, I can say only 2 of them seem to genuinely like me.

Actually many Filipinas specially those in Angeles City are used to dream the American Dream. They want to go to AMERICA.
Before the Americans have an airbase base there at CLARK and a naval base at SUBIC so many of the girls there were taken as mistresses/wives by the American and many had children with these GI JOEs.