Subject: bad thing about reading reports
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bad thing about reading reports

Hey bros,
When I bang a girl and I have such a good time thinking the girl also liked me and had a good time because she said I am handsome and I am big, I feel great.
Then, suddenly you read a report on the internet of the same girl another customer had and realize somebody else had an even better time and received much better service. Does this ever damage your ego? Does it depress you? I was thinking about it and it kinda does to me personally. It's like somebody else got his way with the girl much much better than I did.

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gwailoplayer   14-1-2012 09:57  Karma  +1   you are mongering to ejaculate into strange women, not to think!
halfclover   13-1-2012 00:39  Karma  +1   This thinking will do your head iin friend.
JackTheBat   12-1-2012 22:50  Acceptance  +1   nah. WGs say stuff they think u wanna hear. if u like her, visit again!
TheButler   12-1-2012 08:33  Acceptance  +1   What? The girls are fucking other guys besides me??
DArtagnan   11-1-2012 18:39  Acceptance  +1   nah. it makes me get back in the game :-)
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Post at 11-1-2012 10:57  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 haton's post

Some girls do that GFE thing to get you to come back for her services. Dont involve much feelings.
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Hmmm, you know what...yes, I used to feel a little bit like that.

But then I think to myself "Did I have a good time?" "Did I get what I paid for?"  and the answers are usually yes.  If you spend you whole life worrying that other people have better stuff than you then you will always feel a little insufficient.  SO now I try not to think about it that way and just enjoy my own experiences.
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Reply #1 haton's post

That has honestly never bothered me, I try not to let my feelings get in the way of it.

Some WG's you click with & have a great time, others the chemistry is just not there. If I have had a really good time with a WG I do not care if someone else has had a better time.

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JackTheBat   12-1-2012 22:51  Karma  +2   well put. a good punt is a good time, enjoy it, file it in the memory bank.




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Post at 11-1-2012 12:26  Profile P.M. 
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Good, healthy perspectives from preceding replies.

Having said that, yes, of course it's natural to feel jealousy.  There are clear
evolutionary reasons for being or preserving the illusion of being the alpha male.

Many bro's here wouldn't admit to it, but they've all felt it to varying degrees at some point.
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Post at 11-1-2012 12:52  Profile P.M. 
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Never think about it. Too busy bangin the next girl  
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Reply #1 haton's post

Reading another bro's glowing reports doesn't bother me as much as it should because how much of it is relevant to me?

There are just too many factors that would have had to come into play to make you feel the other bro got better service. Here are some : maybe it was the girl's horniest day of the month, the guy's dick fit her perfectly, he reminded her of an ex-bf (who wasnt even handsome), he spent more money, she wasn't tired, time of day, wasn't hungry, his pheromones clicked with her brain, the other bro was exaggerating on his exploits, who knows....

Basically you cannot compare notes (and become jealous) because you were not there when that other bro was getting his rocks off.   


The situation when I will usually become jealous occurs in a bar as I am watching a girl, who just earlier turned me down, leave the bar hand-in-hand with another guy who is less handsome than me.   In this case, I can see everything and cannot rationalize away why the girl chose that guy over me.

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JackTheBat   12-1-2012 22:52  Karma  +2   precisely. everyone has their own experiences, be a gent and have FUN!
Freshman   11-1-2012 18:31  Acceptance  +1   Other guy is Wander...mystery solved
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Post at 11-1-2012 13:30  Profile P.M. 
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business is business.

How many times did I have to go to dinner and socialize with a client that I didn't really like and make nice conversations with them and pretend that I liked them so that I could get his company's big order. Did I do a good job and make him feel like we are good friends after we had dinner and drinks so I could get more orders? Maybe I even spent more money to get some girls to take care of him for the evening to show how good a friend I am. I told him how great his company seems to be doing now compared to when I was working with the guy who had his job before him. I told him that the way he handles his job he is a genius and I wish my company could learn from his advanced business skill. I suggested he take 2 girls instead of 1 since he looked like a strong guy and probably too good at sex to have only 1 girl.

Believe me I don't take these customers to dinner and drinks because I like doing it.

If he wants to know how I really feel, come back another time when he isn't charge of placing orders anymore.


Business is business.  The girls on here are not there for dating. If you felt good when you left and you feel you got your money's worth... then there isn't anything to give a second thought about.
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Post at 11-1-2012 13:49  Profile P.M. 
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Never happens to me...

All those "other bros" who get treated like a king cause he shagged her so well she forgot her own name????   That was me!  

Hehe

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halfclover   13-1-2012 00:28  Karma  +1   Too funny Wander
TheButler   12-1-2012 23:43  Karma  +1   Oh no! Did you get rophied AGAIN?!
JackTheBat   12-1-2012 22:54  Karma  +2   LOL! gals all over Wanchai checking their IDs cuz they forget their names!!
CunningLinguist   12-1-2012 15:30  Acceptance  +1   Bet they didn't forget their actual real names though...!
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Reply #8 superich's post

YUP!

and perhaps some of you guys are forgettin' that it's all about the money?  It's not as if you're gonna fall in love with her or go off into the sunset hand-in-hand.

Paid for it, satisfied (or not) - time to buy another piece of meat. NEXT!

And OP - are you 100% sure that what the other guy(s) writes about is what he actually got? That he's not gonna exaggerate/over-rate just to make himself feel/look good to others here?

And then there are of course those who masquerade under membership here to post glowing reports in order to gain benefits from the agents or are even agents themselves!

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By reading some of your replies it sounds as if the girl really has much more control over us than we actually think and realize. It seems it is best not to care about other bros. I'm glad to know we have been there at some point in time. Sometimes I think so much about what goes on in the mind of a WG. Right now I am thinking... When you are fucking a WG does she think you are trying to give her pleasure and make her feel good???  Or does she think you are just humiliating and degrading her???
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Reply #12 haton's post

I also thought about this a few times too.

I think most likely she is thinking "When this guy gives me the 500 bucks I can buy those new pants I wanted".

Basically just think about it in the most cynical and pessimistic view possible and I reckon that would be pretty close to the truth!
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I think its important to remember what the girl does for a living, and not to overly read into her behaviour. Like people have previously said, the GFE experience isn't a real experience, and is only to help her expand her business or make more money, since that's their goal at the end of the day.
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It's all a matter of perspective, and what was good for you may be great for another bro, depending on what he is comparing it to! And vice versa!

Only thing I know for sure is when I bang a girl, she stays banged

Slipped back into my alternate reality again, still stops me feeling jealous.




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Originally posted by doghead at 11-1-2012 13:01

... In this case, I can see everything and cannot rationalize away why the girl chose that guy over me.

Er, wouldn't you just apply what you said in your second paragraph?!




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Post at 12-1-2012 00:43  Profile P.M. 
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There are always going to be differences in how they treat each of us.
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Reply #1 haton's post

Hey haton, welcome back. Thought you would have worked out all your issues by now, guess not!

Btw, how's your adult business doing?

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Reply #1 haton's post

Alot of times two personalities dont mesh well with another. In addition, wgs generally treat repeats better then one and done clients because they feel more comfortable with them thus giving better service. I am sure there are times where the wg gave you better service then another bro as well. Various factors also come into play as which number of client you are that day as they get tired and worn out. I wouldn't sweat it bro just think of each session with no emotion and you will be good bro

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SEAJ   14-1-2012 08:47  Acceptance  +1   Pls do re-read comments in Post #18 by JckJr - a Mod.
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Come on Bro JckJr, I am not that messed up just what you call rather inexperienced compared to some bro's here. It's good to know other experienced bros have already built up their logic for this part of the emotion associated with punting. Thanks for your help bros.

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SEAJ   14-1-2012 08:40  Acceptance  +1   Ahhh..so....THAT's who U are! LMAO!
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