Okay, so I usually don't punt in my own home town for a number of reasons [most of all is that the issue of bumping into someone I know is not that attractive concept as well as my SO being around] and usually this is not a problem.  However I had a great session with a high level WG some time ago while travelling in the US where we both really had a brilliant time and the session went well over what is the norm.  During the session she said that she might travel to Australia sometime and if she did would I like to see her.  Thinking that this was just small talk I immediatley agreed.  We exchanged phone numbers etc and made nice comments about each other as we parted and I thought that was the end of that.

She has now emailed me saying she is planning her trip and that she would love to catch up with me and asked if I would have time to show her around my home town.  Now at this juncture I have to say that our session was one of the best I had ever had ANYWHERE. - GF, casual, wife, WG - ANYWHERE EVER!  I thought it was just me, but I have a feeling that we must have clicked pretty well.

The lure of following up with another session is strong but I think she will want me to show her around a bit and probably spend the night.  This is not too much of an issue as I can always master an "overnight flight" to some other part of the country for the purposes of keeping the SO happy but I guess I am not sure if this is something I should do.

Having such a great first up session I feel that anything subsequent to that might not actually live up to it and might in fact diminsh the memories of the first session.

The logistics of the charade I would need to play to find the time to see the WG might be excessive and risky.

The thought that I could be seen with someone who is not my SO and the subsequent fallout would be catastrophic.

The lure of another session [probably overnight] of the best hot sex I've ever had is more than alluring.

I am looking for some thoughts from those of you with wise heads........

Stick with what you know best - and that is a that you do NOT monger in your own hometown.

Australia is a HUGE country, so tell her GREAT I'll meet up with you but NOT at my hometown,  Instead I'll meet you at XXX town which I know equally well.  As you know I am married etc etc.

Believe that you're honest in all your dealings? Well, the same applies with WG's - and nly more so as WG's ARE professional at what they do and will easily understand/oblige whatever the client wants/require

Just my POV
SEAJ

Seems like your SO matters a great deal to you.

IMHO, the risks outweighs the fun. I wouldn't do it if I were you...better to pass this one on and have more opportunity for (perhaps better ones) the future.

I think SEAJ's POV is valid too and that's probably a good alternative even though it may not be 100% risk free.

My 2 cents worth and I wouldn't want a bro to experience the kind of shits I've been through with mistakes I made.

Hey bro ... not sure how big the city you live in but you'll have to decide if its big enough on the possibility of meeting frends and relatives ...

how about an alternative ... meet her in a near by city and show her around ... at least the possibility of bumping into anyone should be less ...

I'm with SEAJ on this one ... unusually ...

Australian cities are tiny, and towns even more so

definitely better not to risk the chance of being seen by someone who knows you and your wife

If you live anywhere other than Sydney, how about saying "my town is small and boring, how about I show you around Sydney?" ...
and if you DO live in Sydney, you can say "I'd love to show you around but it wouldn't be a holiday for me, how about we go to Gold Coast?" and take her to Brisbane ...

AND ANOTHER THING make sure her flight is via Hong Kong, and she does a stopover for a couple of nights here!!!  Let me know her flight time and she'll be well looked after

Your SO won't do a doubles?   Maybe you tell her that you got her a "pro" for Valentine's Day?   You never know until you try!

good suggestions by SEAJ, Twice and DT.  I think the solution is to meet with her in another city.  DT I live in Melbourne which is very close to Sydney in population but still run into people I know.  I really need to see her again so I think organising something in a nother city is a good compromise.

DT, as far as suggesting her to visit HK on the way through....hhhhmmmmm.....I dont think so.

Yeah, right.  Like thats gonna happen.  You go first and try it with your SO and if it works I'll follow suit!  

Go camping in the outback, perhaps?

Wacko: I reckon a follow up overnighter would not disappoint...

Why not just treat her like a normal friend and show her around the city with you as a tour guide?  Think of her as a friend coming to visit.  Don't think about sex.

yeah Freelancer.  Sure.  She is smokin.  So apart from the fact that every time I look at here I get a hard on and remember what we did between the sheets, every other bloke will be visually undressing her with there eyes.  I haven't had sex with that many friends and then played tour guide.  Might be a bit difficult.  

Bro, Sydney (4.5 million), Melbourne (4 million), Brisbane (2 million) are substantial cities by any standard. But I still bump into people that I know. Perth (1.6 million) & Adelaide (1.2 million) even more likely to bump into people.

I have had a similar rule, never punt at "home" in AUS however In have broken it a few times to punt interstate when I've had a visitor I am particularly fond of. Flights between capital cities are so cheap now days if you plan a little in advance, why not set up a business trip or a trip to see your football team play etc and do it out of town. Even then... I wouldn't be walking around down town holding hands.

I'm with SEAJ on this one, better leave it alone and just let it be. You know what happens when someone gets greedy, right? Fond memories are just that, memories... if it was meant to be, then go visit her the next time you're in the US.

Sounds like your SO means a lot to you so just leave this WG along. The risk is too high!!! Think with the Big Head

The size of the city does not matter IMHO - if it is your home town.. How many people will you know?

It is not worth the risk. I am speaking from experience, I did it at Christmas and came very close to getting caught

Like to guys have said above, if she really wants to see you and you her, ask her to stay one town over...

Do be careful with your email too... People are varying levels of nosy out there, and you never know (well, technically you can find out) if your SO has access to your email...

There you go: perfect excuse

In comparison to Sydney, Melbourne is quiet and laid back, and not so much to see ...

... easy sell ... Sydney Opera House / Harbour Bridge / Bondi Beach / party scene / etc ... tell her you'll go all the way to show her the jewel of Australia, and she'll not feel short-changed that it's not your home town.

I would flat out say no. I have a policy of never making a mess in my backyard, and won't do any mongering in my home town or anywhere nearby, just in case an inconvienent acquaintance passes by and spots you in an awkward position.

If you have a SO, then you'd have an established relationship, and you've been so careful because you don't want to jeapodize that. So continue to stay to your plan, and stick to your decision not to do anything that could have large lifestyle repercussions if you are caught! Its a small chance, but do you want to risk it?

Folks, we all read here several weeks ago with some amazement (at least I did) of the punter who lived in a house with his wife and kids next to a house where a new family moved in and the Amah was someone he had met and spent some time with before. She would SMS him when the coast was clear and he would hop over the fence and do the deed (one time uncapped,  if I recall) and then hop back over to his home.  

It seems to me you could get busted two ways:

1: by the family coming home unexpectedly and they see your (hairy gwailo in my case ) ass bouncing up and down on their couch in front of their 60 inch flatscreen TV and Buddhist shrine with red lights and pix of their granny while sweating all over their tiny Amah who is smiling and moaning , or

2. you could having done the deed hop back over the fence with a smile on your face and your wife is in the back yard asking you what you were doing in the neighbors house and why are you sweating and your fly is open and acting nervous   and at the same time suddenly your phone makes a tone indicating you got another SMS from the girl and it says something like "that's fun see you tomorrow" "I'm still cumming", or "come back for sloppy seconds" etc

The first one I could recover from but the second one would be death for me.

The punter who told us the story actually lived with a wife and kids so this is really a case of shitting (or fuxking) where you sleep . He must have a deathwish or it is really a case of, as one comedian says, when you have an erection all the blood goes out of your brain and into your dick and you can't think straight.

For Christ sake  I live in XXXX but do all my fun stuff in TST, Mongkok and other areas far away from where I live, work, hang with friends, etc .

Yes I read about some choice providers in my neighbor hood and I would like to try them but I don't want to be seen by someone who knows me or my wife coming out of a shop as I walk out of some dingy walk-up with a smile on my face and have to explain why I was in that building .

Indulge safely and intelligently

Keep on mongering

[ Last edited by  gwailoplayer at 8-2-2012 22:19 ]

most people will advise, don't play in your own backyard.
although i do agree to a certain extent, but spending time with a WG in place that you are familiar with.. is a blast..
she will feel especially special and generally much happier.
when it's time to go to bed, the sex will be super GFE.

sure, the risk is there... but life is short, enjoy to the fullest.

Thanks for all your input.  From the general consensus I conclude that I should fly to another city and bang my brains out.  Sounds good to me.  Kaka, I take your point about the gfe, but I have that already.....and more!

I have a few months before she arrives and should be able to wrangle an overnight "business" trip to sin city.  Sounds like a good compromise.