GFE is as hit-and-miss in punting heaven as it is in Civvie-Land ... depends on luck, and it depends a bit on you ...
You can increase your luck by reading reports and picking a girl who has a welcoming attitude
You can increase your luck by giving a good BFE
You can increase your luck by visiting more girls, until, well, you get lucky
and you can increase your luck by becoming a regular to a girl who gives you more of what you like than the rest
Some girls realise a guy wants more than a quick release, and learn how to fake GFE well
Some girls genuinely like you
But must WGs don't connect with you any deeper than your skin, and would really rather you cum quickly and go just as quickly.
@kiwigandalf: yes, you can find GFE even if you don't have a single word of language in common. Nonetheless it's better not to EXPECT it from any given girl, that's up to your game and the mood of the Chemistry Gods!