Wander, I don't agree!

We are not bad. We are just driven by our hormones. Maybe we have a bigger amount of
the hormones driving to do what we are doing or we have more courage, than the average men?

But this is the natural thing, it's the males task to distribute ones seed. It's what men have
been doing for thousands, tens of thousands of years. We just forget that the environment
has changed so much during the last few generations. Also the rules have changed but we are what
we are and the evolution takes much, much longer time to adopt to environment changes.

So we should not feel any guild. It's nature doing it's work! We are doing what so many other
animals are doing around us.

Sorry to repeat, but read the book I've mentioned. It explains in details with plenty of
interesting info and tips in dealing with the oppsite sex.

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=38665

some of the topics which hit to this chain of discussion are:

- why men can't help themselves?
- the rooster effect?
- why men want "just one thing" ?
- why women make love and men have sex?
- sex drive and stress
- what men want from sex

kim53

Lots of good info here.  The glitter comment is something I totally forgot about.  Sometimes in the dark it's hard to see it.  I always make sure I check my self in the mirror thoroughly before going back home.  One thing I'll add to the list is never to monger in an area that you and your SO may visit.  I say this because I once ran into an SP on the street in mongkok.  Luckily my SO wasn't with me. She recognized me right away and it was an awkward convo cause i hadn't seen her in a while. Scared the shit out of me.  Now I'm a lot more careful and try and not see the same SP too many times so that I'm more forgettable.

I'd imagine for safety covered everything (unless the reason you're punting is lack of sex at home in which case you should be ok..) would be the safest bet. Not as much fun but given the latest news of untreatable STI's appearing it's likely the only way to go.

There have been a few threads on protecting your identity from WG's and most of these apply the opposite way around. Punting phone, don't carry too many identifying items etc.

One of the best bits of advice here is not going home with glitter on you or your clothes. A friend of mine hooked up with a non-WG girl once in a bar and got home. He'd had a wash etc before returning to his home but there was glitter on his lapels (not lipstick or makeup, just a little glitter) but his wife noticed it and gave him absolute hell. He managed to talk his way out of it but he suffered for a while after that. So try and be aware of whats on your clothes too,not just your skin.

The final thing, sadly, is if you need to go through hell to hide your tracks you might want to consider if this is all worth it. There might be easier ways.

Yes been there with the glitter and walked in with some on my shirt  luckily my SO  had fallen asleep on the couch so when she woke when I came in she was too sleepy to notice

I think some of these girls wear it to get us busted its like they're marking their territory

keep on mongering

Nice tips in this thread. My SO is usually upset if I came home with smell of cigarettes. Both she and me are non-smokers.

I usually just said it was from coworkers who are smoking during break.

To keep a separated shirts, pants, etc for mongering in the office is a plausible idea. Just drop it in a cheap laundry service during lunch break.

The most difficult thing is to be sure not to get STD. I don't have anything so far that can talk me out if I should get one.

The smell of the soap is a problem if it is different than what you normally use at home.  I have one of those travel size soap bottle that I bring with me.  It fits nicely in the pocket and not noticeable.