When I was a virgin, or before I had my first HE massage, I was super excited by the fact. Now I've done about 10+ He massages and a Civie and 3 WG's... And I just dont feel it anymore. I'm working in Shenzhen now, WG's are 100, 20min walk from my house or HE massage is 200... My salary covers me to go everyday.. yet i go just occasionally

But I'm still excited by the fact of fucking a friend or having a girlfriend

I think the emotional part of sex is becoming more important for me now.. But it could also be the attitude of the 100RMB working girls being too much of a quickie, or it could be that I haven't been lasting too long recently to justify the cost and the cost of getting out there and back..

So what is it that attracts you guys? because I quite enjoy just watching porn and masturbating.. thinking of getting a fleshlight STU soon

On reading your thread title I was thinking of a few sarcastic comments to make, but having read that you're living so close to presumably some hooker alleys, I can possibly imagine how you could begin to compare using WGs to masturbating!

I guess in your current situation, think about not having to wash the WG after you've blown your load?

LOL

for me, the difference between mongering and masturbation is the stimulation that only a twitching pussy can give

of course, sometimes a quick release with a hand that knows just exactly how to touch is fulfilling

but at the end of the day, wanking leaves a hollow that can only be filled by that feeling of involuntary contractions and the flood of lubrication that comes with it

But... I feel that the condom makes me less sensitive to all that... To the point where I even feel masturbation or HE massage feels better..  I just get excited by seeing the girl

For me, it is the experience. Pumping a live pussy is more fun than masturbating. I
Can also understand that it could be the other way around for you. Nothing wrong
With that. As they say "different strokes for different folks"

For me it's variety, and the game.  I kind of prefer the massage with HE now.  The little "will she or won't she" game and how much can I get away with.  Plus sometimes I get a decent massage.

On a punt, or any kind of sex, there is a lot more physical contact than masturbation, and some slight emotional connection (although I don't know how emotional you are with your hand).

Finally, if you write 10 reviews of your hand on this forum, I think the bros might get a little weary of giving you +K.

Do you have a favorite HE massage spot?

Part of the "will she or won't she" game is the unknown.  So I will try just about any massage place I find at least once.  My favorites HE places are pretty much all off the beaten path (yeah, I said it).

I think you are becoming numb to mongering. It happens when it is readily available. It's the scarcity in life that makes us tick and makes us strive to obtain that in which we cannot have. Imagine yourself stuck in Darwin Australia where doing a chick costs you 2000 RMB per pop. you would be wishing that you are back in SZ getting a HE or doing one of those 100 RMB a pop gals.

One thing to also bear in mind is, perhaps the girls you are doing are not top quality girls. it's a big difference to go a hot looking girl at a top sauna who pretends to be into you like a GFE feel, rather than doing a girl in a dirty small apartment or room in analley way in SZ where they just want you to cum in 5 mins after insertion.


AsnDragon

it is always better fucking someone who is into you as much as you are into them and often with WG you don't always get this and it can be rather plain even though great at the same time.

the best way to save money is to have a pull it satisfies the urge but thats about it

Yeh I get alot of what u guys are saying. I just went for a pop in an alley 100 yuan. Report soon. But yeh this service was a bit better and I lasted longer so i felt the money was spent ok. But still the feeling is still a bit missing. Im gonna take my okamoto condoms next time.. should be better.. hmmm the highest iv paid is 300, and its the same as the 100 ones.. Iv never tried the top quality stuff o_O I feel like the cost is just unjustifiable...

ANd i always think id love to fuck a friend or a gf, just so much more emotional connection... yeh them being into u!

Well...there's what WE do with these WGs...which is plain fucking....then there's mindblowing sex....and then there's what women folk like to call making love.

Masturbation = having ramen at home in front of the TV. does the job....fast and easy.
Sex with (most) WGs = Going to McDonald's. Does the job.... fast and easy...and you don't have to make it.
Mindblowing sex = Going to some place with a couple of Michelin Stars....Brilliant, but your cholesterol probably wouldn't let you do it everyday ANYWAY.
Random Civvie Sex = Hunting for wild game. it's not really about how it tastes....but the thrill that you CAUGHT what you're eating...cos you never know if it will ACTUALLY happen.
Making Love = Home cooked meal by your honey. Might be simple. But fills you body and soul.

=)~

~UD

They both get the job done but my vote goes to mongering, the excitement of someone new each time is =D~~. And you don't have to do anything if you don't want to!

Body on body and force on force pumping .

U must be going to the more expensive places.. the alleys.. all the girls I encountered have varying degrees of not wanting to be on top...

Oh and I'm asian and the WG said I was too big!

Bro I don't know if you are in a relationship, or if you've had a GF before, because in my experience, having a GF/wife, adds something to a punt, and the excitement of fucking a heap of girls. I can't explain it, to be honest, but if you don't have a GF, leave punting alone for a while and find one…then the joy of punting will have new meaning lol!  I don't really like wanking off, it serves a purpose sometimes, but I'd rather unload with a girl, handjob, CIM or in her pussy - much, much more satisfying!

Bro I don't know if you are in a relationship, or if you've had a GF before, because in my experience, having a GF/wife, adds something to a punt, and the excitement of fucking a heap of girls. I can't explain it, to be honest, but if you don't have a GF, leave punting alone for a while and find one…then the joy of punting will have new meaning lol!  I don't really like wanking off, it serves a purpose sometimes, but I'd rather unload with a girl, handjob, CIM or in her pussy - much, much more satisfying!

I've up to now been lurking on this thread with a mix of amazement and bemusement...like I'd suspect a lot of others here would also be doing!

May I please exhort you to NOT embark/continue on mongering activities too young/too inexperienced in life. Getting into a girls' pants is NOT/should NOT just be a matter of flipping open one's wallet - and that you, at such a young age/stage of experience with members of the fairer sex seems to ONLY be exclusively doing so (errr.... besides masturbating of course!!), is really NOT healthy/not doing yourself any favors.

The process of growing up as God/Nature/most family upbringing intended dictates that you experience what most other young men experience whilst growing up. Wooing civvie gals is IMHO, a process that all guys should go through to get a better understanding of what the world truly is all about.

Sorry to come on all seemingly knowing-it-all and I do know that you did not come on here wanting this sort of left-field/over-the-top/unsolicited/quite patronizing opinion/advise - but let's face it - you really wouldn't even be able to have such discussion with your own family or even your peers would you?

SEAN - And forgeddaboutit all if you think I am out of line - hey you ain't gonna be the first one to think so!

I would suggest that you make a trip down to Macau or DG saunas. Go to one of the higher end places and I'm sure that having at least 20-30 girls that are supremely fuckable will make you feel differently about paid sex.

Dude where do you live in Shenzhen to get it for 100 & 200?

I now live in SZ & Do not know anywhere that cheap (yet) there is a massage place local to me that is 168 for 'body massage' but I have yet to try it.

Local WG's are 300.

When I used to live in HK I used to practically get at least one HE massage a week, every week for months. Like bro kaleu said, the "Will she, won't she"...

I really got off on that. It was so convenient for me too, literally 10 minute walk from my office to a location that had dozens around. Found a couple of lovely hidden gems in Tsuen Wan.

Then I started to get a little sick of it & started visiting walk ups that offered massages.